Monday, 03 May 2010
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Attracted, But For All The Wrong Reasons
There’s nothing wrong with being physically attracted to someone. But trying to make the attraction more physical is a different story in my opinion. There are times when I don’t mind the compliments, but when someone tries to ease their way to my comfort zone because they want a piece of something is way out of the question.
I tend to be more annoyed while the compliments just keep on flowing. I know what I look like, I know what I have, so please stop reminding me. I know a guy who compliment me all the time and its rather annoying than I thought it would be. You’re hot. You’re beautiful. You have a nice ass.
You’re tits are big and round. Your body is banging…Need to say more? It's just so annoying. And I hear these same compliments every single day.When I was hanging out with him yesterday he just couldn’t keep his hands to himself. He reached out and grabbed my ass, kept rubbing his elbow against my boobs, tried to pick me up so that way my body was against his and that he’ll have every reason to put his hands on my ass. And even worse, he tried kissing me. When I saw that he got a little too close, he leaned over to me and whispered “I like you a lot, but I just want to get it all out” and before he could kiss me I turned away and gave him a mouth full of hair.
He isn’t the first guy to say these things to me let alone try to feel on my body just because he was that attracted to me. I guess the way I look makes me seem like I’m an easy target for others to come and try to play with me. But I’m not easy and most guys who tried this got shitted on by me.
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well im a guy so my perspective isnt going to be exactly the same but kind of know what your saying, in high school i was constantly bombarded by shallow girls but it never really got physical in the way you explained your situation.... but i would agree, its no fun!
Yes. and it is rather annoying...
Just tell him to back the fuck off. If you don't like what he's doing, stand up, grow a pair, and do something about it. Tell him he's being damn disrespectful. Why would you continue to put up with that if you don't have to? He's obviously a creeper.
This is going to make me sound like an arrogant d-bag, but whatever.
Yea, I hear you. I'm pretty, I know it, and they know it and the attention can almost be overwhelming. I mean a little is nice, but not when they only start to see your looks.
This happens to me all the time. I find it highly disrespectful, I really cannot stand it. Usually it ends up with me yelling or getting into a fight with them. I don't understand, I am NOT giving signals that he can feel free to do whatever he wants. Ugh.. fools.
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That's never happened to me, but I do have a friend who has a lot of curves. She had this one guy constantly hanging all over her, arm around her shoulder and reaching down to her lady bumps. It was terrible, cuz we could all see him groping her and she just let it happen. Slap the guy and tell him to **** off, is what I'd do if it happened to me.
O_O wow, that fellow had ghastly behavior. good for you for turning away.
I experienced the verbal part but not the bold physical groping part because guys are intimidated by the way I look because if he is making me uncomfortable, I either ignore him and walk further away or sometimes I might even stare him down with a, "don't even try
" look, so they are usually hesitant to walk closer to me. the last time that I was touched inappropriately, was a guy that I liked, so I only let people I'm comfortable with in my zone. in my encounters, latino and black men are the boldest and they're upfront about how they feel about the woman of interest. a majority of the compliments that I received were from these two ethnicities though there were other ethnicities too.
I already commented on her blog, so I'll say here: that dude looks like Clay Aiken!
ALL my stories huh... let's just say I have stories. And I'd give that guy more than a mouthful of hair.
You should've smacked that motherfucker! Don't be a pussy about being violated.
for one thing, why would you let it go that far? if he's already making you feel uncomfortable from the get go, just get rid of him. you write about this entry as if it's the guy's fault, but you actually continue to let him harass you.
why would you hang out with a guy like him if he's making you so irritated anyways? i really don't think the guys are doing anything wrong; sure, some of them can be real dogs and if they are, just stay away from them. if you give them any attention or continue to let them talk to you like that, you're just opening a way for them to continue to harass you.
maybe you should hang around a new group of guys.
haha, my date wanted to give me a piggy back ride.. i suspected that he wanted to determine my chestsize? or maybe not.. but it should have given a good idea that I'm FLAT. (:
Why he's still hanging on to me? I wouldn't know.
Had that before, and one thing i can say is i'm happy i found that rare military guy who isn't in it for the looks, he loves me for me, thank god, and it's a first that someone is dating me/actually in love with me for who i am.
@mynameisblueskye@xanga - LOL omg you're right!
nope dont have these problems
I have natural boy repellent :P
eek that dude is sick. i wouldnt wanna hang out/ go out with him again. hes an official perv! :S
@mynameisblueskye@xanga - Lmao. He does
@mynameisblueskye@xanga - Lmao. He does
@lovely077@xanga - Exactly. And I didn't give him any signals to touch me in any kind of way, not even to lean forward and try to kiss me. I guess me hanging around him after all the compliments he gave me gave him ideas that I wanted this to happen.
@BlehhItsTu@xanga - I think I can find a few guys who likes the feel of a womans breast without them touching them. Some guys even admitted that they like giving girls hugs and piggy back rides just to feel thier boobs against their back or chest.
@snwbrdrcutie@xanga - Aw. That is so sweet. I'm glad to hear that there are guys who loves you for who you are, and not for your looks. Congrats.
@PrettyKitten - I had a friend who was just like that once too. Her only problem was that she didn't know how to say no to anyone about anything, so random guys would come up to her and touch her. One guy was bold enough to put his finger in her private part in front of our friends.
ummm that sucks! it makes me wonder if he really love you or just loving your body!
not really, considering that i m 5'3 and i dun have big boobs, (i realize most asians have smaller boobs than caucasian and african) , nor i m thin, i m just average. so it doesn't really happen to me. i m told that i look pretty and special (being 1/4 caucasian and 3/4 asian) though. that is nice though. haha