Monday, 12 April 2010
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Getting To Know You: Heart Break
Because I can't get that Taio Cruz song "Break Your Heart" out of my head, this week we want to hear about your experience with heartbreak...
Have you ever had your heartbroken? More than once? Have you been the heart-breaker?
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Yes, I have been mostly a heart breaker. At one moment in my life, I was in a love triangle where I had two guys in love with me. It was so hard to juggle them both, and I couldn't choose one or the other. But eventually, karma got around and bit me hard. Never will I ever be in that situation again!
Had it broken twice. First time I recovered, surprisingly, and I feel better now to be out of that entire relationship. The second time, still not even close and it happened 6 months ago. Sometimes I'm petrified it'll never fully heal and i'll be this way forever. I sure as hell hope not.
ahh, yes. three times. twice by the same guy. worst feeling in the world.
I'm usually the heart-broken and not the heart-breaker. But yeah, I've been heart-broken more often than I'd like to admit.
I'm mostly a heartbreaker.... very guilty of that. But when i do get my heartbroken, it's by the guys I thought I loved very much and thought loved me very much no matter what. Sad to say, heartbreak is one experience everyone must go through, whether we like it or not. It just makes your next real love, all the more better.
I've had my heartbroken by the ones who I wanted the long haul with. It's something that definitely hurts when you wanted it to last, but knowing from past experiences, you will find someone later who will be there. I did do one mutual breakup, but the relationship wasn't anything serious. We are still friends.
Lost count of how many times It's happened to me. And I've been the a heartbreaker once. Ironically it was the same reason that people have given me.
My heart was broken once, and it was purely because of teenage insecurity silliness on both his hands and mine. I'm past it now, and while I do consider it 'his fault' to a degree, it was also mine, and there aren't any residual harsh feelings toward him.
Otherwise, my heart has only been cracked a little.
I don't know if I've been a heartbreaker. I know that I have rejected people that I cared about, even one that I loved platonically and who loved me as well, albeit maybe more than I loved him. I simply do not know that any of these people were actually /heartbroken/ over me.
time will fix everything...
I have had my heartbroken once. I was madly in love with this boy starting sophmore year of high school. We were good friends, and even after he found out that I like him, we became even better friends. I was really in love with him even though he wasn't really into reciporcating. Four days after my 16th birthday, he starting dating one of my friends. It broke my heart. We stayed friends for years after this, but have recently, called it quits. He shattered me. Time is finally beginning to heal my heart, but unfortunately, I had to stop being his friend before the healing would start.
I was heartbroken; I put on myself though, because I broke up with him and he didn't want me back. We got back 2 months later and then he broke my heart by breaking up with me 3 times after that. I was a little dumb for going back so many times, but I was 16 and in love! It was always such a fun roller coaster feeling whenever we got back. I've learned from it. I don't think I've particularly really shattered any hearts, but I have gotten too scared to commit so I just run away from guys who were "in love" with me or at least liked me. I have a loyal heart but commitment scares the ish out of me. One day the right guy will come and make me not scared
i love that song.
@Thumper49047@xanga - Ahahahaha, well put sir.
I think I had my heart broken by the same girl 3 or 4 times...sigh heh.
Don't think I've ever broken anyone's heart though, but dunno.
Heartbroken once by a girl who was on the rebound. We're still friends on Facebook even though she's with someone else now. I only keep her on my list because somewhere deep inside I still hope she'll fannyrub me one day.
Heartbreaker? Who knows. I think I broke one girl's heart after maybe only seven dates. She stole my CDs and had a large vagina, so I had to let her go. She cried.
Check out my dating disasters:
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I've always been the heartbreaker in my relationships, but I've had my heart broken twice. One because I ended it and regretted it.... that one took 3 YEARS to get over... i'm still not fully over it and it's been 4 years. but I'm getting there! the other one was when we weren't in an "official" relationship, but I wanted to be, and he didn't..... that one hurt bad.
I don't know if I would call it a heartbreak, what i have been in. What I took it as was a learning experience that everything ends. I learned it from everyone's relationship, and never really expect me and my SO to stay together. If we break up, then that's cool. Things don't always work out. It's when I am treated like a parasite right after that I start crying foul.
I admit my first bit of heartbreak was with a girl right after my first love. But that one was over her being delusional about her expectations of love.
yes.
no.probably, but i'll never know if she meant it or was just playing.I never know what the definition behind -- heartbroken -- is. Have I been heart broken?!? I would say so, more than once and it nevers seems to get easier no matter what you tell yourself. As for me being a heartbreaker?? HIGHLY doubt his heart was broken but definately know that I effed up big time. DDX
Heartbreaker, and heartbroken. Still haven't gotten over it... don't know if I will ever be completely over it.
Heartbreaker? No, I don't think I've ever been important to anyone.
Heartbroken? Yes, twice. Once was by people who I thought were friends.
(does this count?)
The other time.. I knew I would end up heartbroken but I don't regret it.
Yes, once. We ended up getting back together, but it still counts. My first and only love. It was terrible. I cried forever and couldn't eat for a week at least. I always had the nervous feeling, like butterflies you know? Has anyone else had that? Like, I just couldn't believe that it was over. It was completely and utterly terrible and I wouldn't wish that on anyone. I can't even explain it it was the worst feeling in the entire world.
The funny thing was, when he was trying to get me back he described his feelings the exact same way, the nervous feeling, the crying, and he said he dreamed about me every night. It still counts as a heartbreak to me, even though we got back together and are together to this day, because I still experienced it.Âhm. my heart was first broke in 4th grade when i told my bff/crush at age 10 that i had a crush on him, and he told me i wasn't allowed to sit at his lunch table anymore! :(
lol. real time was my first bf, i was 20... i think. i really let that one get me down for way too long lol. (cease contact with exes, everyone. its better for your health in the long run.)
i truly love my bf now, so ... um... here's hoping the heartbreak bit is done?
@emiliahhhx7@xanga - Yeah, I've felt that. Never in my life have I felt that way again. Just the first time. It's something you never forget, though.
I've been heartbroken twice - once when I lost my first love, and then again when my mom died. I've broken a heart once, I believe, and I feel AWFUL about it...
First break-up ever was somewhat painful.
However, due to "breakup experience", I'm not phased at all when a breakup happens. Girls come and go in a man's life.