Well... you're not married. You're also young and in your first relationship. Breaking up might be a good way to know how you really feel about each other. Not that you have to go jumping into another relationship... I'd say use the things you've learned from your current relationship and embrace your singleness. You're free to go about life as you wish If you and your current boyfriend talk about this and don't want to break up... I'd say at least make some goals together as a couple so that things aren't so boring... and you'd learn some new things about each other... might fan the flame a bit!

Embrace your youth!

Jen

esp if it's your  first relationship, maybe you just need to be sure before you settle for real.

My relationship is definitely a lot less serious, but I still really identify with this.  It's hard to know when to break up with nothing "horrible" happens but things have just sort of faded.  I think that's part of why people can be tempted to cheat: it provides a clear and easy means to decide that the relationship should end.

Its normal to doubt whether or not this person is right for you in any long-term relationship. I think you'd have to take a look at long-term compatibility issues such as do you have the same goals, same values, etc. Or does it feel like the "spark" has just faded? If so, then figure something out to rekindle the spark. Do you feel that maybe you haven't really grown enough by yourself? Some things you just can't learn about yourself when you're in a relationship with someone. Also, he is long-distance so typically you should have more room to learn things by yourself than if he was always there.  If not, then maybe you should consider taking a break or breaking up with your boyfriend. I mean, there's always some amount of like settling as a relationship progresses. Read up on the relationship stages and see if those feelings match yours and then decide. 

I was in an ldr and it got boring because we ran out of things to talk about if that is possible since we talked so much. Idk but I lost interest and he didn't seem to care anymore so instead of a heated breakup, we just faded out of each other's lives. I think we were both too depressed to do anything about it. we weren't ready for a committed relationship. I'm lost most of the time and don't know what I really want. I want to be happy but not sure if someone else can give me that because it seems that I get bored easily and then the same cycle begins again.

@P0RCELA1N_D0LL@xanga - how true. The minute you're bored with a relationship, it's doomed.

@Utoppia - my ex... idk for a time I found him annoying but... I eventually got over it and didn't mind the annoyingness again, it was good.  but later on, he started getting annoyed by me all the time, he told me so, but we didn't know why... and it all blew up later

it's lame, but happens.  in my situation though, it sucks so much because he made promises to never give up, no matter what (besides cheating) if he hadn't made the promises I'd understand.  maybe it wasn't(for us), and isn't the right time for you two.  LDR's suck too, I was in one too at the time when he started to get annoyed by me.  never really experienced boredom though, maybe 2 years in and then that all got flipped around and boredom was gone again so nothing to tell you there. 

If you can wonder about this, then you should probably break up with him. Eventually, everything is just going to go down the drain. Since it's your first relationship, I think you should experience new things before deciding whether or not you're ready to settle. I'm not saying you should go and try a ton of different boyfriends for the hell of it, I just think that if your mind is wandering, then maybe it's a sign for you to break up with him. Wandering minds can never be healthy for a relationship, and dragging it on will just hurt him even more in the end.

When you start to wonder about being in relationships with other people that is NOT your significant other, there's something missing in your relationship that you're lacking or you're just not into it anymore.

Have a talk with your significant other.  Tell him how you truly feel and go on from there.

Just don't break up with him and then get back with him again.  I've seen and heard so many people do that that it's just becomes... boring!

ur jst dissatisfied..leave ..i am sure u will be much more happier.

I think it's probably just that it's been two years and you're comfortable, and thus a little bored. And because it's long-distance you're naturally a little deprived of male attention and your eyes are wandering.

Of course, it could be that you want to break up, but don't do it unless you're sure.

Definitely talk to him about it and see what his point of view is as well before walking away.

Here's a couple ways to find out if you're ready to split:
Think of how you would feel if you saw him dating someone else.
Think of what life would be like without him.

Things like these happen from time to time, especially in ldrs.  I've been with my boyfriend for 2+ years as well and we've been in an ldr for at least a year and a half of that 2+ years.  We've been through this and are still going through it.  We simply acknowledged that it does happen, but agree that we still wouldn't be able to live without each other and that we're definitely happier with each other than without.

As for the new guy, you may be missing the chance to experience the honeymoon stage again.  I had the same doubts that led to me ending it with my current boyfriend, but I was so torn up about it that we ended up getting back together and staying together.  I guess in that case, see each other, break up (don't take just a break, cuz there would still a possibility of being together, but make it clear that there will be no dating other people so that no drama develops) for maybe a week or so, if you guys can last that long without each other.  If you can't, there's your good news :)