Tuesday, 06 April 2010
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What Do You Think About When You're Kissing?
Kissing is, obviously, a romantic thing, but I can't help but think it gets very romanticized in literature and media.
People who describe it as though they are completely enveloped in a kiss and have their minds wrapped around their tongues puzzle me. Maybe I just have a short attention span, but I know that my mind wanders during a kiss. I'll think about the kiss at first, but then my mind wanders off again. I'll think about the person, about my schedule, sometimes even about other people. Sometimes I'll be comparing kissers in my head.
It's one thing to have heavy-duty kissing that lets your mind wander to perhaps the next step, but to find yourself thinking about, oh, say, laundry while you're kissing just seems so ridiculous.
So, imagine you're kissing your SO. The first few times it's like heaven, or maybe it's awkward. Either way you're thinking about the kiss mostly.
After you've been together a while though, do your thoughts wander during kissy time? Please tell me I'm not the only one who does this!
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My mind doesn't wander, so when I'm in a kiss, I AM fully enveloped.
Not much. Sometimes I'll wonder how in the world he can watch TV while kissing- which he only does every so often, not every time we kiss- and I'll think about how I can't do that but that's about the extent. Otherwise I'll think about the kiss or our immediate surroundings (I keep my eyes closed so it's pretty much anything I'm in contact with).
Sex. Obviously.
Whenever I kiss this person, I think, I really want to make them fall for me hard core, and not really anything else lol.
@asininity - What she said. :)
how bored i am thats why i dont last long
I get completely in the moment and make sure to feel all of that person's lips and the texture :) And I think about how amazing it is that his kiss takes my breathe away. There are sometimes if I'm just really stressed or I don't want to be kissed because I'm mad at him, then I'll think about something else.
i'm usually thinking about what i want to happen next..Â
You know... you bring up a good point. I can't think of what I thought of the last time. it's been a while since having a SO, and if I'm on a date I know I'm definitely thinking of the kiss. I guess I'll have to find a SO and try it out!
i get completely 100% wrapped up in the moment and the pleasure. you need to let go. and get a good kisser ;)
It's completely normal. My mind wanders too. Sometimes me and my boyfriend have conversations in the middle of our kissing. But those are just the little kisses. The more passionate ones are more enveloped.
I honestly can't remember anything I've thought while kissing. I'm completely absorbed.
i'm in complete heaven..=)
i adore kissing, so whenever i'm in the middle of it, i hold on to every moment.
"Why does it feel no different than kissing an elbow? Am I seriously supposed to like this? Ew."
That's how I learned I am an asexual. D:
@Hinase@xanga - @a_metamorphosis@xanga - @asininity - AGREED
THINK? MMM I THINK BOUT WHERE HIS HANDS ARE GOING NEXT...HOW SOFT HIS LIPS ARE AS THEY KISS A SHIVERY TRAIL DOWN TO MY PUSSY...THEN THE ULTIMATE KISS, OMG JAJAJAJA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
im usually thinking about se is some way are we going to have it do i want to have it slow down the kiss speed it up waying attention to his hands and his body (my boyfriend is a hug kisser so i always get a hug and kiss at the same time i love it solo sweet) so I think thats about the kiss but i have compared kissing to other people usually the first couple times then i get more into it.
I always thought of 'ew whens this kiss gonna be over' in my head .. my ex was NOT a good kisser ! =| But I haven't kissed my current boyfriend yet, hopefully I'll just be thinking wow and then going home giggling haha :)
I didn't like my ex, but kissing made me feel happy, and for some reason, I think about religious things. He didn't like doing it much because he just wanted to fuck me, and I wouldn't let him because I didn't want to make babies because I also think about that. I know, c-o-n-d-o-m, but it was deeper. I wasn't attached to him. I was using him and he was putting me down, even before the reasonable have-sex time had passed - I don't want to talk about that. So, I was probably punishing him. Then I had a bunch of nightmares and became confused. Plus, people were calling me a whore, and I was like, I can prove that I'm a virgin in the littlest sense of it - thanks to my celestial virgin friends I'm real technical. I'll splatter and I haven't sucked a thing :P You've had sex all the way. Does that make you a whore? No, because you are special and you are using this as a power tool against me. Nope, nope. I'm saving it for... I'm savin' it for... heaven in the afterlife. Because if you are caught with someone before marriage, you have to marry them. The Bible says so, right? We were going to get married, but he damaged me then lied. Nope, no more before marriage because it's the wrong way, and I do things the right way.
I like to cuddle more. No males like to cuddle, I don't think. They aren't getting anything out of it. I really seem to make 'em mad. I don't know why.
I think of how in love I am with him and how good it feels to be kissing him.
@Colorsofthenight@xanga - Your thoughts are a total mess. They're just everywhere. I like it. :]
i stop thinking about anything and let myself get completely absorbed in the moment.
i usually get caught up in the moment ya know? i think abotut the kiss itself hahahahaha
I don't think. I just do. Kissing's fun. :)