I need help.
I think I'm a sex addict.
Whenever I'm in class, sleeping, hell, even driving anywhere, all I EVER think about is letting my boy toy screw me like there's no tomorrow. I finally had a break through this past month and found a good guy to mess around with who has been sticking around for a while. It feels like I've literally effed him a thousand times.
The thing is, we haven't been able to hang out since last Tuesday - a week and a half ago. I can't get anything done because that's all I think about doing...him. I'm definitely not gonna go pull a Tiger Woods just because he isn't available or I'm not, even though I could because he's not exactly my boyfriend right now...but I don't need to. No one else would cut it for me anyway. It took me years just to find someone like him, rather we found each other.
Anyone else have this problem?
How do I get my mind out of the gutter so I can actually concentrate and get things done until I see him again? Hehe.
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lmao no you're not a sex addict. People tend to go crazy thinking about sex/sexual things when they first get out of a relationship, so it makes sense that since you haven't seen your guy for a week, you're having these thoughts. My friends have agreed that the post-relationship horniness definitely exists.
I have the same problem.. hahaa. :)
Try masturbating. Or maybe having phone sex with him.
Or maybe go to the gym and exercise.
play with yourself
I dream about sex 24/7 as well but i've decided to just wait until i find a boy who can do it the way i like it instead of settling for bad sex. Masturbation doesnt do the trick for me. No matter how many times i cum, Its not satisfying like penetration and while i do have a dildo its just..Too much work for my arm..TMI? Probably.. I'm just gonna let it build up until oneday i cant take it anymore and hike to a park,find some lonely boy feeding ducks on a bench,rip his shirt off,and just go fucking wild on his junk ,giving the old peoples a show and later,treat him to ice cream.
I have the same problem.
Oh wow. yup. datz normal. nuthin wrong with dat hun. =) trust meh, every1 goes crazy about sex, if not, then there abnormal. but lemme tell ya this, ur very smart to not start gettin layed by any1 u see for one thing because many ppl have diesases that they lie about and could be contagoius... i mean really, i waz diagnosed with Hep C. cuz i waz dumb and beleived in him.. yeahh.. thank god therez a way to prevent it from being catchyand hurting meh but itz still there and i could get killed if there wazn't a way.. yeahh... i waz like the one outta a million to catch it by sex, (sadly my first too) u normaly catch sumthin like that only from blood but yeah.... Imma fine. but ur smart. go with what u got because if ya keep doin it, u start to kno his and ur spots naturlly and u both will get betta at it all. dont search for othaz cuz guyz do sex deffently than othaz and u could not like the way some1 does it for u. if u like hiz then let him be ur medicine and only him. iight? =) add meh.
Most of my guy friends back in the day thought of sex constantly, so I'm assuming that you are more or less on their side or have a high drive or you are trying to get pregnant and don't realize it because you've chemically matched up.
No, I have tactical things that come when I wake up in the morning. I used to think that they were wrong. I also have the odd problem that sometimes my chakras will be pulled during the day, and I'll get real bubbly and stuff. Sometimes it is that. Most of the times not, just a sudden feeling of happy. They are like energy rushes. I dream about that stuff sometimes, but all I am doing is making out with someone I can't see, and then I realize I don't know the person and freak out. It's like a nightmare. I also have this weird dream about waterdrops that go on me and then do that go out. It's sexual, but it's not sex. I don't like it but I stay that way because I feel energized. It's like being violated with a benefit.
In the winter, I do get horny in strange ways that I don't understand - like an animal. Why not be honest? I just try to masterbate them away. I'm not thinking about sex, it's just something that's happening that I don't understand.
So you aren't the weirdest person.
@Scene_Punk_Girl@xanga -
scenester, please learn to type. Are you 12?
I've
yet to do it, but I really really really (really!) want to. Badly.
There's just no one I know that I like enough to do it with. :sigh: Masturbating doesn't do it for me, either.
I think you should try exercising, if you can find the motivation. It does help get rid of that pent-up energy.
I like what u said colorsoftthenight@xanga. I've had dreamz like dat too. itz crazii... like, niice at first and then scary and unusull like u just didnt want to kno that there waz more to the dream. my hormonez are very diferent in certain weather paterns. summer imma mad. winter imma an animal, spazzy and flirty and *very* sqirmy by the thought of it all. Fall, idk, i seem regaular, natural addiction i guess... and spring, imma like summer basicly.. yeahh
@xmariia@xanga - Imma 17. and datz how i type. how u expect meh to type? iz a bloggin site not a grammar compostion battle. iight?
i had the same problem not too long ago. my bf and i went on vacation together and all i can think about was having sex with him. i was going crazy. at one point he told me that i'm too physical and i need to think of something else to do other than sex. i've calmed down a bit since that because now we're distant and i'm back to work. but my mind just keeps wondering back to it.
your mom has this problem....i should know.
@letslosesomeweight@xanga - LOL took the words outta my mouth!
@xmariia@xanga - she types like that because she likely does all her typing through texting!
I don't believe in a thing called addicted to sex, it doesn't exist...it's in your head...think about it.
@xmariia@xanga - once girls realize that most guys want a girl who is not the brightest bulb in the box; (yes i remember most bulbs are boxed individually) they then tend to emulate such inarticulate personas just cause they want to be liked. i have to admit, sometimes even i find those acts attractive...
others are trying to rebel against everything they can to be unique. regardless of the cause in her case, allow her to be herself. any attempt to condemn or vilify will reinforce her position rather than change it. more important cause she isn't set in her ways, she uses both ebonics "iight" and "dats", cutesy valley girl "iz" and "meh" and some other less common grammars...
besides... she is cute... and doesn't the grammar seem forced? ;P
Sounds pretty normal to me. Give it time and you'll eventually stop day dreaming about sex with him so much because it'll just become more of a chore after a while heh.
Nothing unusual about that.
Why is this even featured?
@letslosesomeweight@xanga - lol
yeah "adidas" too. at first i thought it was bad and i was a horny bastard, but good to know that i'm not the only one... and hey! at least your getting laid :)
well , sex is good 4 health lol !! i <3 sex
Welcome to the average mind of almost every hormone-ridden teenager. Enjoy your stay.
@wideopenskies@xanga - No idea. Might as well submit something that says "I like to breath like... a lot! Am I an aeroholic??"
@Scene_Punk_Girl@xanga - I thought the most unattractive thing I could find in a girl was a fake personality. You've proven that illiteracy might just take the number one spot.
@mashroob@xanga - LOL. Lucky guy.