My girl friend complains about her bf all the time. They have nothing in common. He's socially awkward. He's kinda boring and their conversation puts her to sleep. So when I asked her how come she's still with him, she said it's because he's freaking fantastic in bed.
Apparently every time she feels bored or if he talks about stuff that doesn't interest her, she just mounts him either on his face or down below. Whichever way to shut him up or so that she's not bored anymore. *shrug* I don't know if that's enough for me to stay in relationship. I think I need more stimulation in my life other than my clit.
What do you think? Is great sex the cure for dullness? Would you date someone who's dull as a doorknob but wonderful in the sack?
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nope. i'm like you. i need some mental stimulation.
Ha... that's not gonna last long.
No! It doesn't work. I've seen enough examples of it to tell you that. Eventually (about 1-3 mo in), it takes its toll and you feel like you're using them/a tool.
Nope. Sorry, but the brain is the largest and most powerful sex organ in the body.
Ha, no.
That seems more the basis of a fuck buddy relationship.
Why try to form a deeper relationship if the only thing you have in common is a sex drive? Those are easy to come by.
nope. juz that is boring
Eh, no.
But what about the opposite. Would you date someone you had absolutely everything in common with but was horrible in bed?
No, I'd like to have something to talk about too.
Sexual compatibility is important. But not that important.
But, she's getting great sex, and she hasn't tired of it yet. So hey!
I don't know you'd think that those kind of things would fizzle out after a while, but I have a friend who's been dating her boyfriend for two years... They just use each other for sex, they really don't like each other that much, (even though they think they do).I think it depends on the person, honestly. She's not the smartest person, and neither is he, and apparently, sex is what they want out of life right now.
I dated a guy like that. We ended it and now we're fwbs. It's fantastic, really - we have great physical chemistry but there's no chance that either of us will fall for the other one because our conversations are so fucking boring and shallow.
@Lady_Kelacy@xanga - SO true!
Does it CURE dullness? No, but it's one hell of a treatment. It's sort of like cold medicine. It doesn't actually get rid of the cold, but it sure kills the symptoms.
I would casually date someone who's good in bed until I found a girl worth a serious relationship.
great sex is not a cure for anything. sex is a bonus to me. i need more than just sex. i need a lot of things from that person.
if he is a mute and preferably doesn't annoy me by talking, but great in bed and obeys, then that is great as a side dish like a male gigolo although I wouldn't date a stupid whore in the first place. for the main course, I'd want someone that is more than a boytoy.
yeah... I use my brain.... Sex isn't something that would keep a relationship alive
i need more sentimental actions that sexual, well i prefer that
we are not animals, to have only sex and sex and sex and sex and sex and sex and sex and sex and sex and sex and sex and sex only cause u dont have anything to talk XD
If your planning to stay together forever then obviously no. Since when a couple grows old, and the sexual intercourse is gone, then all that is left is the friendship. Meaning conversations and other activities is what keeps the relationship going. Btw, I got that from a movie lol..
certainly not. that's what mistresses are for.
I'll flip it round, can having loads of fun make up for really dull sex...I hope so.
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Well, I've always wanted to wait until I was married to have sex so no lol. If someone bored me that much, sex with them wouldn't be the first thing on my mind..I don't see the point if you don't even want to hold a conversation with them. The relationship isn't going to go that far in the end.
Definitely not, to both questions.
@Lady_Kelacy@xanga - Speak girl!
I wouldn't be in a relationship like this. I'd leave the option of FWB open but I don't usually press it. Relationships based on sex only keep going if the sex stays good and fresh. When you lose that the realization of your dull boring relationship sets in.
No