Monday, 15 March 2010
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XXX in a Public Place?
Inspired by this post.
My friend recently told me that him and his SO did it...in his school library. I was surprised, a little impressed and a little appalled. I would be mortified if I had a child of mine (let alone, myself) stumble accidentally upon two people going at it like rabbits.
For me? I'm not as adventurous as I use to be, and the thought of everyone's feet (hands, snot, butts) being on the same surface area as I am in the moment of passion would gross me out.
I'm no goody two-shoes but it got me thinking; where else could people be engaging in sexual activities?
Whether it's in a public library, airplane bathroom, on the beach, at school, at work or all of the above, sexual activities (lap dances, oral, heavy petting) in public places is quite another dimension. Just the thrill factor alone is probably more than enough to get one riled up.
Of course, issues of disrespect, possible charges and jail-time, and simple disgust can most certainly arise from the idea and this post. But for the open-minded:
Have you ever engaged in anything scandalous in a public place and have gotten caught? Would you ever?
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oh, carrie and big. :)
i want to do it in my school library. hahaha.
I never got caught! I've done it in my parents back yard, an abandoned school, the beach, a supermarket bathroom, behind a hospital in a mini van...ahhhh those were the days!
we did it in a car on a side road...it was awful. lol. less intimate.
i'm still apalled by my current boyfriend, though, he had the audacity to do it in a graveyard. it still makes me sick. i wish i never knew that.
i have a long list of public places that i want to do it. i've crossed off the twirly slide at a playground.
No
I haven't, but I think it would be interesting to try it somewhere safe.
I know on our campus, they said the most frequented place was the meditation chapel. That seems incredibly wrong to me.car in the parking lot of school was the craziest - unforunately. But the sex with that girl was crazy in its own right so...
not to sound like a "prude" or anything, but i just don't see the point. are we really such animals that we can't wait until we get home in our own bedrooms to do whatever? doing that in a library especially, where little kids could see... it just seems like something out of a bad porno. but that's just my opinion.
I lost my virginity in a men's restroom. Other than restrooms, the closest to 'public' I've gotten was a tent in the backyard and a shed, both of which were privately owned.
I have a list of other places I want to do it. Some of which are likely disrespectful, and mostly so that I have them on a 'list' of places as opposed to getting off on the places themselves. I just like variety, I think. =)
@theplathcomplex@xanga - Eh, sometimes it's fun to switch it up. It's all a diversity in preferred environments and scenarios. I think of it as a more extreme light on/light off thing. Plus, the rush of doing it somewhere new because it's as if you can't wait--even if you know you could--is exhilarating.
@unabridgedtales@xanga - i don't know.. it just seems primal to me. is this where years of evolution have brought us? >>
they actually have cameras in the university libraries...
@theplathcomplex@xanga - It is definitely kind of primal. I think that's part of the appeal of it, though. Because we have advanced so far, sex can almost be an escape from rules and regulations.
Public sex isn't for everyone, though, and I fully respect your issues with it. Several arguments against it are quite valid. *shrug*
i always try and get my boyfriend to but he always freaks out like we have done stuff defently in random places in our cars in parking lots but nto like out in the open like a library or anything like that!
The most public I've been is in a car parked at the waterfront. Funny story, I was on my period so I had to toss my tampon on the ground...I wonder what people thought when they saw it the next morning. : /
How about at your co-workers desk? That'll teach the bitch to steal my M&Ms again... Ha!
I've done it in a park behind a tree, in a classroom, in the mall's nursery room... I think it's exciting! It's not a point of being an animal (in all those cases, I *couldn't* just go home), but its more about it being exciting.
Park in a nice city!
I think it's just fun (and funny) to fantasize about obscure places to do the dirty. :D
Yeah, I've done it a few times in public places, and no I and my partner in crime were never caught. I think its fun, lol.
I've done it in a car, on a lake shore, and at a local swimming pool at night that we were sneaking into. I knew the likely hood of being caught was slim to none, that's the only reason I did it. That slim chance was enough to make things much more exciting though. I think you have to be careful about it. If you get caught, people will consider you trashy, or if you're underage, they may call your parents and/or police. I don't see in problem in it though. It's not that you just can't wait, it's the thrill of possibly being caught that's a huge turn on.
I got caught by a truck driver receiving a blow job in a lay by. The girl I was with (it was a seventh date) just smiled at him and waved while I scrambled to put the little fella away.
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I want to do it in a library.
When I was with my ex he use to want to do it anywhere. I actually did it one time in a friends bathroom, and before we started having sex he insisted on doing in at his friends home, in his parents bed. But being that, that was someone elses private property, I refused to do it.
Most of the guys I've been with never insisted doing it some place private and where people weren't lurking around. They're just like "okay nobody isn't looking" and tried to do it to you. I remember I was just ten feet away from a couple just facing us my bf (ex now) he pulled out my boob and kissed it.
I'm more of a private person and would rather do these things at home, in my own bed...Not where everybody could see me. But I guess I'm not as innocent like I'm trying to be haha...
Plus I seen worse...I actually seen a girl giving her bf (I think he was) head and when she seen I was looking she stood acting like nothing didn't happen...I saw everything.
I had an exx who liked to do it in public places, and we did it in a lot of different places, including "the ginger bread house" (a three by two foot storage shed) at the summer camp where I worked. (Lucky we both did Yoga, or we would have never fit!)
For me it's something that is definitely better in fantasy then reality. Public restrooms are dirty and nasty
. Public beaches in the middle of the night, under to moon are wonderfully romantic but sand in your crotch is NOT.
The woods might be a hippies dream, but poison ivy or thorn bushes ruin that experience... well you can see where this is going.
I am glad I did it when I was young, but glad to (mostly) do it at home in a comfortable bed these days.