Sunday, 14 March 2010
Since we’ve all been so busy with midterms, I invited a few of my girlfriends over the other night for a cheese and wine night so we could catch up. After a couple glasses of the vino, we got to the juicy topics.
One of my girls dished that when her boyfriend was going down on her the other night, she started fantasizing about none other than Patrick Demsey until she came to an earth-shattering orgasm. So when her boyfriend came up for air with an “Oh yea—I’m the man!” expression on his face, she felt extremely guilty for thinking of another guy when he was working so hard to please her. “It’s not like I need to think about someone else to get me off—believe me Mike* knows what he’s doing," she said. "But it just happens…and it’s what I do to get off when I’m alone, so…”
We all kind of agreed that we’ve fantasized about someone else (usually a celebrity) while getting it on, some of us saying that we do it on a regular basis (even if we feel as though we are being satisfied by our boyfriends in bed).
Is this wrong or unnatural in some way? Do any of you ladies or fellas do this? Care to share who you fantasize about?
*"Mike" is my friend's boyfriend although his name has been changed for privacy reasons.