Tuesday, 02 March 2010
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Does Size Matter to You?
What is it with guys and the size of their penis? I was with a group of guys the other night and all one guy could talk about is how his penis is too small. He was going on about how much larger his friends were than him. And of coarse being the only female there I get asked by a few of them "how big do you like it?" while they were measuring out with their hands. Surprisingly I managed to dodge the question, because honestly it's not the first thing I think about when I meet a guy. But for some girls and obviously some guys this is really important for their sex life. Shouldn't it be more important how you use it rather than how big it is?
Is size really the most important thing?
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there are way more important things about a guy other than his size... but it wouldn't hurt to be big :3
well, it might, but not in that way.
I am quite proud of my 32 mm of thunder thank you very much...
The curse of being with multiple partners is that if you are with a man you love but if he's small the relationship will suffer...
I am with my boyfriend now and have not been with anybody else so size doesn't matter to me. I don't know what it would like to be with anybody else.
No! Love is, but I'm a sap, so on to the physically most important thing . . . talent. Just because he's big doesn't mean he knows how to use it. I find when it comes to men with large penises, there are 2 types: those who think their size is all it takes to make a woman swoon and end up sucking in bed, and those who see what they're packing as the blessing it is and then use it to their incredible capabilities.
Just remember guys, that unless your personality is impressive to begin with, you wont get the oppertunity to show her what else you have to offer . . .
I don't think size is that important. if I love the guy, then it's fine. a reasonable size is preferable though.. not too small and not too big.
size never mattered to me.
Sexually, I think intercourse is only one component of the whole. Ideally the guy isn't far from average on either end of the spectrum (big or small). But, like somebody else said, talent is what's really important and guys can work on that over time. It's been my opinion for sometime now that size matters more to guys than women, though.
yes size matters and no it's not ALL about how you use it. a big guy COULD be bad at sex but a small guy is almost always going to be bad unless they use "the trick". and the trick is to get you emotionally attached so that your feelings will compensate for the lack in size. the saying should be "it's completely about the size of your boat, unless you can trick her into liking you, then it matters less".
as for what is "big", that depends on the girl and the size of her vagina.
Honestly size doesn't matter to me. There are more important things that I look for in a guy, like personality, trustworthyness, love. If your truely love someone sex will be amazing no matter what their size.
I have definitely heard that size does not matter and that a small man can please you just as well as a larger man, however, I have to say I've been pleased far more by my current man and love of my life. Our sex life is exponentially more intense and satisfying than the sex life I had in my previous relationship. He's close to twice the size of my douche of an ex (insert small Asian dick jokes here)...but I believe it's still a matter of personal preference as all women are turned on differently. :3
It doesn't matter to me.
Then again, I care more about musical preference than anything else.
i guess it matters but i like them average...not too big, not too small.
Not size, at most the width. Because if it's thin as a toothpick, it doesn't matter how long it is.
What mostly matters is the skill. Not the size [length or width].
I don't think size matters.. for me anyway. I've been with a guy with a big one and a guy with a small one and I have to say that it's the small one that did the better job. So I guess it really is how you use it.
Not the MOST important, but definitely important. I can't be too big or it'll hurt. I can't be too small or I won't feel anything. More important is how he uses it. There no use in a perfectly fitting dick if it isn't rubbing me the right way.
@Sophiya - If a guy has a small penis, but has no problem hooking up with girls or girls comes back to him for more sexy time, it doesn't matter how many guys make fun of his small penis. It is an ego thing for a guy in a sense that the society tells us (I'm sure everyone has personally heard it from other girls as well) girls like it on the bigger side, and many guys determine if they're "the man" by their sexual prowess.
They say you can only feel 3 inches inside the vagina so technically no it doesnt matter but everyone thinks bigger is better hence ridonkulously sized boobs and food. I was with a guy who's penis had to be at most 4in erect and he was the best i'd ever had. He knew what he was doing and thats really all that matters.
is boobs size important to girls?
I have only been with one guy who is maybe a little bit above average. So I wouldn't know. I enjoy what I have, but sometimes it feels a little too big since I am a really petite girl if I get in the wrong angle/position it feels like I am being punched in the stomach.
Mostly what is good is when he in tune to my pleasure. lol
Too long is bad (ask my cervix if you don't believe me. bruised cervix is my least favorite sexual side effect). Too short is bad as well. Girth is the good stuff.
I don't understand why girls will be like "Oh he has to be like 9 inches long or I won't fuck him." Because guess what. Your vagina is about 5-6 inches long, max. Do you just not want the base of his dick touching you, or what?? Ridiculous.I'm a fan of average or a little more. And uncircumcised. Always feels better. But really, it's about how he uses it...to an extent. It's like saying, "Oh, I don't care how much he/she weighs." That's only true until the 1200 pound chick asks you out, be real.
Being a small girl, with a small chest, I don't honestly give a damn how small he is.
I heard somewhere, if the sex is good, it's 10% of the relationship. If it's bad, it's somewhere around 90%...
Anyway, size doesn't matter too much to me. That's not the first thing I thought about when I met my boyfriend. He is a great person, and the rest wasn't as important.
it's not the size of the sword that matters, but how you use it in battle ;)
The issue of size is one thing, but the picture datingish chose for this makes me laugh my ass off