Friday, 26 February 2010

  • He's Paying for What? That Must Be Love...



    Every so often, I'll get together with some of my girl friends and we'll talk about boob size and breast implants. It's not a matter of needing it but some people just want it. I personally would love to have more boobs if I wasn't such a chicken shit about going under the knife. But hey, God gave me a bigger ass to compensate the lack of boobs so if I learn to walk backwards, I'm golden.

    Now, my friend's current squeeze just offered to pay for her boob jobs if she wanted it done.  Come on guys, it's a trick question. If any girl asks you "should I get bigger boobs?" you're suppose to say "No, you're perfect just as you are." But since they are located in Cali, maybe it's common for guys to buy boobs as gifts for their women. So my friend was a little offended that he didn't argue with her that she didn't need it, but I told her if he's not the one she's planning on settling down with, maybe she should take him up on his offer. After all, it is something she's wanted for a really long time and someone wants to buy them for her.

    I get it, usually girls feel flattered when guys offer to buy them material things. So do you think he's offering to pay for her sake or for his own selfish reason? Is that his way of showing he loves her?

Comments (33)

  • not_izzy@xanga

    haha, one time a random guy in a bar who said he was a millionaire offerend to pay for my boob job (I am like a AAAA)  I declined.  I said I'd take a nose job, but he said I didn't need one and he wasn't spending his money on that.  HAHA

  • heroes_and_sociopaths@xanga

    depends on the guy. if he's rich, then he might be doing it for selfish reasons. But if he has to work to earn his money, then he might be doing it because he cares.

    Regardless, he's doing it because he wants to play with them

  • megansbeloved@xanga

    Okay I don't really see a problem with this. I mean she wants them, so why not let the guy pay for them. Well I guess there are some bad sides to it.

    Some times things get so confusing. I mean my girl drops hints. Me being the stupid ass that I am never pick up on them. Well ever so often I get one right.

    I suppose if she asked him, then it would be okay. But if there not in a serious relationship. He just wants something to look at.

  • TheRealMelanie@xanga

    "so if I learn to walk backwards, I'm golden"
    hahahahaha

    Anyways. Weird. Does she expect to stay with him for a while?
    I'd feel like shit if someone purchased something expensive for me and I just bailed.
    I'd like to think that he just wants her to like herself. Nobody wants to be with someone who's always bitching about their body.

  • Nellie0x@xanga

    Well, if she decides to take him up on his offer.. she might feel obligated to owe him. That's how I'd feel, everyone's different though.

    I don't think she should.. She'd feel better if she bought them herself, I'm sure.

  • PMFoutofwater

    I wouldn't pay for fake boobs. If she had a wonky nose, that'd be another matter...

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  • kawasaki_saiyan@xanga

    if the guy offers, she might as well take it. lol :P
    even if she plans to bail shortly after. lol :P

  • chanchina@xanga

    Wtf? O_o.. I'd be happy with the girl not her chest full of silicone. LOL

  • sexncookies@xanga

    I say to tell your friend to take that guy on his offer.....for real. Get an appointment and get er done!!!!


    boobs job are not cheap to begin with but for one in CALI?!?! holy shit. my mother paid 14 grand for hers...I was gonna get mine done last yr but some things came up and I was never able to......I think about it all the time.
    tell her to take his offer. If he wasnt serious I dont think he would have said anything about paying for it.
    And who cares if he loves her or not?? if shes not planning on being with him long term...love shouldnt even be apart of the decision process.
  • Cest_LaxVie@xanga

    My friend got her boobs done and there are so many problems with it. It's not just a one time thing. And as a side note, I have natural big boobs, 38DD and they are not fun. My back hurts and I just hate how big they are, no matter what I wear, the 'mountains' are always showing. So I guess, I'd love if my beau paid for a breast reduction surgery, but I'm also too afraid to go under the knife.

    And as for your friend, I'd feel like I owe him for the boob job and that's not a good feeling.

    P.s.: 15 [Interesting] Things About Boobs - including breast implants

  • soyeahthatswhathappened@xanga

    well clearly his intentions are bad, but i'd pretend i didn't know that and take him up on that offer. because in the end, he's screwed out of thousands of dollars and a nice set of knockers. that's what he gets for being a shallow jerk >:D


    kidding. but i think it sounds more like he cares about her and wants to get her something nice. it's just not something...conventional?

  • P0RCELA1N_D0LL@xanga

    if I was a guy, I wouldn't pay for a boob job for some girl I'm dating or even in a long term relationship, only if she was my wife. why not just date a girl who already has a boob job if he is shallow. I know someone whose rich husband paid for her surgery but she wanted it and initiated it. she told me that her husband didn't care if she got one or not but she was self conscious about herself, so she made the decision to get it done, instead of feeling guilty that the guy would find her more attractive if she had bigger boobs. if she directly asked for him to pay for a boob job, then the guy isn't the shallow one, she is.

  • ErinMcEwen@xanga

    The look on the guy's face in the picture cracks me up.

  • mystic_sapphire@xanga

    'But hey, God gave me a bigger ass to compensate the lack of boobs so if I learn to walk backwards, I'm golden.' --> Haha love this!

    Anyway, who cares? She wants them too right? And if he's going to pay for them, then why not? More the better if he can play with them too!

  • Shy___Away@xanga

    My boyfriend's offered to buy me boobs before but that's because I complain sometimes about them. Ultimately, I'm comfortable enough with my breasts at this stage in my life that I don't want to go under the knife, and wake up five years from now regretting it. Sure, it'd be fun to have the rack of Kourtney Kardashian, but I don't even have anywhere to show them off, so... naaah..

  • Icecold4u@xanga

    For the record, that is the meanest trick question you will EVER ask a guy. Come on..think of how much of a struggle it is to break out the words...

    "No no...I don't enjoy the thought of your boobs bigger, they're fine..-sigh- just like they are.."

    I feel my head shooting myself just saying that! Come on bitches...just rude...you know how guys are, what goes on in your crazy head that says "I wonder if I can get him to love me more, by asking him this question, or am I just that insecure?"

  • mcmeister89@mancouch

    It's like a woman saying "I want a hot tub." Sure, the woman may want it more, but it's not like the guy isn't going to enjoy it as well.

  • HollowTendencies@xanga

    Well, if he's doing it because he knows that's what she wants, then that's sweet. But if she finds out that he's only doing it because it's what he wants, then she should get it done, and then break up with him.. lol Talk about a plan backfiring. 

  • Coffee_Kaioken@xanga

    That's fucking wrong in too many ways. If she has small tits she has small tits, get used to them. There'll be bigger headaches that you're going to have in a relationship than the size of her jigglypuffs and you can't hire people to take a scalpel to them every single time.

  • Coke0@xanga

    Am I the only one who thinks this is a totally fucked situation?

  • StillNotaPrettyGirl@xanga

    as long as it's something she actually wants, and not him just trying to put his taste on her, i think it's cool.

  • superGchik@xanga

    i think it's def for his own selfish reasons...come on, it's a boob job.

  • mz_d0rkabl3@xanga

    LOL "yea sure I'll get a boob job but while we're at it, hunny do you wanna get a penis enlargement as well? I hear they're doing discounts right now"

  • Viserys@xanga

    If your friend brought it up she has no right to be pissed. Seriously wtf.

  • Blind_Paraplegic@xanga

    What's wrong with small boobs?


    Guess I just don't understand people.

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