Tuesday, 23 February 2010
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Datingish Advice: So You Just Found Out Your SO is Bi
So you just found out your SO is bisexual....
Would you be okay with this? How would you handle the news?
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Indifferent. Just because they're bisexual doesn't make any difference in their personality and character. If they still love you, it's what matters.
My fiance is Bi, and it hasn't changed anything. He's loyal to me. I don't care who he thinks is hot; man or woman.
"fuck, now I have to worry about them being stolen away by a girl OR a guy?!"
haha honestly, I'd be okay with it. Because as long as he's loyal to me, that's all that matters.
I don't think I'd be okay with it... I think I would feel uncomfortable. But I guess the real test is when I am actually put in the situation. I don't think it would matter as much at that point
Not gonna lie, I wouldn't like it.
hmm . . . i`d be cool with it . i`d be super paranoid at first , but bisexuals say that it`s no easier for them to find a person than it is for a straight person . they said their choices are just as limited :P
I'd be cool with it as long as I could watch. If she's fannyrubbing another woman it's not cheating in my eyes - it's horseplay.
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He is. I am.
So, um, we're cool with it. *shrug*
It might be awkward initially, just because that's something I'd rather know before we're dating. Other than that, I don't think I'd have any issue with it.
Doesn't change anything at all for me.
My first boyfriend was bi and it never bothered me.
My fourth boyfriend didn't particularly like it that I'm bi.
As for the rest of my relationships, it either never came into question or wasn't an issue.
i would be a bit uncomfortable, not going to lie. im not homophobic at all. but i would be worried that there was something i couldnt give him now, and im jealous already so it would make me a bit threatened. its nothing i wouldnt be able to overcome. but it would be difficult.
I would be uncomfortable with it.
What difference would it make? If didn't trust the person, I wouldn't be in a relationship with them. It wouldn't matter what their sexual orientation was.
well for one, i don't believe in true bisexuality and he knows that so if he was, he probably wouldn't be with me anymore. and for two, if by the off chance he was, i would be really angry that after a year and half, he still hadn't told me.
so, the relationship probably wouldn't last.
Honestly I wouldnt be bothered by it but I hate how some people say it's not cheating if it's the same sex. I know not ALL bisexuals think that way but I've seen quite a few that do. Cheating is cheating no matter that the sex of the person is. Also, as long as I find out fairly early so it's not a bomb later in the relationship it's not trouble.
I had one boyfriend who would reveal his true nature later in the relationship thinking I would accept it & settle. Not happening.
HOORAY! We can check out other women together!
I wouldn't like it because I prefer two straight men at my threesome so they both can please me
I'm selfish, so what
I'm bi, so it wouldn't be an issue for me.
BTW: this is a re-post, isn't it?
i would....go into mental shock....
@soyeahthatswhathappened@xanga - We don't believe in you either.
Seriously what the hell kind of comment is that.
It wouldn't matter. It would only matter if he was being unfaithful.
@Viserys@xanga - that comment would be a belief that i'm fully entitled to having.
@soyeahthatswhathappened@xanga - That's roughly equivalent to saying "I don't believe in black people".
@Viserys@xanga - not really, since skin color is a physical trait and sexual orientation is not.
@Viserys@xanga - Lolz. I don't believe in black people, because nobody is truly black.
Brown? Yes. Pure black? No.