Tuesday, 16 February 2010
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College Girls, I Don't Want to Hear It!
I cannot count how many times I have heard college ladies say. Ugh, All guys want is to have sex.
Or, guys are such jerks.
And my all time favorite: "Guys don't want something serious."
Let me tell you girls. Guys treat you like shit because they have been trained by yours truly, that the only way to get a girl is to treat them like crap.
The best way to pick up a girl is to treat the relationship like it is casual and meaningless. It WORKS for most of the @#$holes. and do not even attempt to deny it because you know its true. As soon as the boy starts to be serious you freak out!
Guys play the game because it gets results They pretend like they dont care about you because that is what, in their past, has allowed them to wake up next to you. Then, of course, drop you the next day.
as soon as a guy does treat you like the way you deserve to be treated, you drop him like a hot potato. You freak out and say this boy is way to clingy. You freak out and think to yourself what if there is something better out there. Well there probably isn't, that boy who thinks that you are the very world to him. Is the boy that is going to treat you better than any other guy
SO
I AM ASKING WHY?
WHY IS it this way?
How could it be that all of those assholes and jerks have 5 women they are stringing along when nice boys just waiting to find someone to share their life with. to get a puppy with you. To talk to you about your day. To get married. are single at home thinking they should have acted like they didn't care. Wished that they would have been an asshole
Now I am providing a solution.
STOP IT COLLEGE LADIES. STOP MAKING DRUNKEN MISTAKES. Stop falling for the mysterious jerk . For once in your life, give the boy who tells you he loves you a little to early in the relationship a chance. Maybe you will be surprised and find out he really does love you. Once guys see that acting like a jerk is not getting results they will change. But untill then, they will continue to be assholes
I refuse to play the game and because of it I am unhappily single. I just remind myself I do not want to end up with a women who likes being treated like hit and who wont be frightened away by my love... I hope you are out there.
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Comments (223)
I play a game too, but I'm not in college. And it's reserved for guys who believe that my virginity equates to stupidity and naivete and that I can't see their game. I just posted on that, actually.
i definitely agree with you.. i gave my boyfriend a chance and i'm suuuper happy :D
and i hope you find someone, the right girl will come along! rawr!
Hmm good point I suppose
Hey now, I've never even liked someone who would treat me like shit. :P
(But I really can't complain about people being clingy... I almost prefer it, because I have a bit of an abandonment complex..)
*thumbs up*
YES! All I hear about is how guys are all jerks, etc. I'm sick of it. I've got four brothers and countless guy friends. I've never even met a jerk. If a girl treats a guy like a jerk, he'll be a jerk. If enough girls treat him like a jerk, he'll stay one.
And I honestly don't think they get it. Because they diss the nice, sweet guys. They diss my friends. For no reason other than the attention it gets them and the drama it creates.
I'm sorry, but some girls are just stupid. There are sane, intelligent, sweet ones out there, though. And some of us want the nice guy, but he wants the bad girl who doesn't care about him.
too many chicks just let guys use them for sex...and then bitch about it later.
it's ridiculous.
i've never let a guy make me feel like that.
I'm with a bad boy turned nice! Take that society. Five years going.
I gave that guy a chance. The one who said I love you too early and wanted a puppy and a house and marriage and a white picket fence. Literally, he started looking at houses 3 months into our relationship. He did not treat me like shit... but telling me all that doesn't mean anything. Not treating me badly doesn't mean he treated me well. He was just there. And that's all I can say about the relationship. It got stagnant.
The differnce between any post about a jerk and this is that Prof is trying to go right for the juggular for this one. Haha! I wouldn't know. I never dated a girl in my college.
Aww, yes so right!
@mynameisblueskye@xanga - damn straight
@irishluck20@xanga - Why thank you : )
@FallenReign@xanga - Ciara put it best: "you might talk slick, tryna hit, but I'm not dumb."
have fun with life. I think your just too serious. Sure there are pricks out there and all of that noise. If you want to be in a relationship than get creative. Be someone who is interesting enough to date. Nobody wants a stereotypically nice guy because they lack any actual personality and are usual unstable. I know this having suffered from that myself. You just can't worry about it. You'll find someone if you just figure out what you love to do. Be happy have fun and they'll show up.
@JanetDart@xanga - well im sorry he was lame... there are bound to be lame nice guys and super amazing awesome nice guys. But I ask you would you rather have a lame nice guy who loves you or a jackass who is going to fuck you, cheat on you, than drop you riddle me THAT JANET!!!!!!... BOOM
WHY IS EVERYONE COFLATING NICE WITH LAME... the two are not interchangeable
I completely want a nice guy; not a "bad boy." I don't really have any romantic interest in my peers since I refuse to participate in the random hookup thing. The last guy I really adored has already graduated with his MA and is 24. :D
Too bad girls thinking like this doesn't end just in college
There is a growing negative connotation with the term 'Nice Guy'... There are a lot of self-proclaimed "nice guys" who are just plain desperate, and it's tainting our rep.
Anyways, I totally agree with you. On the same page about not playing the game as well.
uhh I'm a college lady in the same relationship with a college dude for almost 2 years.
we love commitment.
just sayin'.
i'm out here booboo no worries.
great entry... i completely agree.
if he is an asshole because of his past treatment from girls then she is probably a bitch because of the past guys that acted like assholes to her. these bitches and assholes were once fragile nice people, who learned to protect themselves by acting like they don't care, which can either cause others to chase them or appear snobby and deter sane minded people
maybe try going for the old cougars
@unabridgedtales@xanga - Hey, me too!
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Attention nice guys: I like puppies. Let's get one.
No. A lot of guys are asses and it's not the fault of women. Guys just naturally want sex a lot.
Most nice guys don't get lots of girls because they're either too shy to hit on a lot of them, creepy, obsessive and clingy, really ugly, or just awkward. Face it: the hot guys turn into slight asses the same way hot girls turn into hot bitches because they can.
Girls tend to go after the alpha male, the hot guy, the one who's the president of five clubs and has a 4.0, and guys like that aren't desperate to get a girl, so they don't feel the need to be the nice guy, always catering to the desires of other people.
Some people just need to develop the ability to discern the line between creepy and sweet.