Saturday, 13 February 2010
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"The Cave"
I have thought about this scenario for many, many years and after speaking to several of my own female friends, I realize that they also think about this concept often. However, no one ever brings it up! What is this mystery topic, you ask? Why, it is the neighborhood bicyle. It is the high school whore, the hotdog in the hallway, the cave. In other words, it is a loose girl. You know, when you stick it in and it's just not snug enough down there?
I'm sure that we all come to the generalization that a loose girl down there means that she sleeps around and has sex with everyone, all the time to become like that. However, another thought often comes to my mind:
What if a girl has sex with her husband or boyfriend everyday, if not several times a day, and for argument's sake he is rather large in size down there. Wouldn't that also make her become "loose?" Why doesn't anyone talk about that? You never hear a husband talk about how loose their wife is because they fear that people may assume she is sleeping around. BUT THAT MAY NOT ALWAYS BE THE CASE!
Has anyone else ever thought of this possibility?
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Hmm good point
Well, if you consider that the vagina's a muscle (or is it more than one?), and that it can "stretch" a little bit if you will, wouldn't it only stretch to accommodate his size and not further? I mean, it's not like it's going to get stretched out more than he is big, so to him, it shouldn't seem loose. If anything, if they do it enough, it would really "fit him like a glove".
I have thought of this before, it's kind of cool that you brought it up.
It always annoys me when people throw the term "slut" around so easily, maybe they're not smart enough to think outside of the box and realize that just because one girl may have been with more people, she's no different than a woman who's been more active with just one. You can't reason with those people though either, their (usually close-minded and self righteous) minds are made up.
"Loose" is just a figure of speech for people that don't know their anatomy. Medically, the only thing that can really stretch a woman out is childbirth, and even then you can "go back to normal."
It's kind of like saying due to all the screwing some man-whore does, the size of his penis would logically become smaller because of the friction...
But I could be wrong here.
can a girl be naturally loose? is that a possibility?
maybe it just means that she likes big penises, not necessarily that she sleeps around. if she is loose due to the usual big penis preference, then she sleeps with a guy with a smaller penis, then she will seem loose because his penis is small, not that she is too loose
women come in all shapes and sizes, including their vaginas. Some girls are just naturally tighter than others, and it has nothing to do with how much sex she has. Vaginas go back to normal (whatever your normal is) after having sex. I find that guys who call girls sluts because they're "loose" usually have reputations for having small dicks...maybe that's why they can't feel anything!!
when a girl has sex with one guy for a long period of time, her vagina shapes itself around it so she would't be loose to him.
she might be loose to a new guy if he has a smaller penis...
with that said some girls are loose because they've slept around a lot and their vaginas have lost its natural shape (it can be brought back she just has to ... rest it)
loose is an opinion... what's loose to one person isnt to another.. it's just one of those things that no one can ever be right about...
i've heard that no matter the size of the man, a vagina's elasticity works so that shouldn't actually "stretch" the vaginal walls for an extended period of time. some vaginas are just wider set than others, i suppose.
Loose doesn't refer to the fact that she is stretched out it refers to the fact that her hymen is broken and so isn't virginal for her wedding night. A loos woman refers to someone who has slept with someone BEFORE getting married. It is now an outdated term.
talk of the "loose girl" is only one of the many misogynist comments that even some women, unfortunately, throw around.
Let's be real here... who's wasting hot dogs by throwing them down hallways?!
I don't think "loose" refers to the physical nature of the nether regions so much as it's about that person's morals. But I think the whole notion that anyone, man or woman, is less of a person or deserves less respect based solely on the number of people on their roster is silly.
Wow, so much misinformation!
- Vaginas, like penises, come in many different shapes and sizes, naturally.
- The tightness of a vagina can be altered by: childbirth, kegels, and sex.
- Kegels are the muscles inside the vagina that contract during orgasm. Kegel exercises can increase the tightness of your vagina (and improve the quality of your orgasms!)
- Sex can loosen the vagina, temporarily. The vaginal canal expands during sex to accommodate a larger penis, but will revert back to its original form within an hour or two, maximum.
- The vagina CAN change shape and size over time, but does NOT do so in response to sexual activity. That is, unless you constantly hold a dildo or other large object in your vagina (not tampons).
@whotakethmycoke@xanga - i was thinking the same thing (is it weird that i find that kind of romantic?
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I am not sure you are fully aware of the devastating consequences of the large vagina. I wrote a post about this: http://plentymorefishoutofwater.blogspot.com/2009/10/sunday-confessional-sex-stevie-and.html
The scenario you pose is ridiculous. If a girl is married, and her husband and her fuck a lot a.) I don't think he cares too much, b.) you're a girl, and perhaps most husband and boyfriends respect the girl enough not to openly talk about their vaginas, and c.) if they fuck everyday, I'm sure the guy is smart to understand there's going to be some wear and tear.
@JennyGee@xanga - :P thinking the same thing you mean?
You are such an uninformed little fail cow. Listen to @la_faerie_joyeuse@xanga - please!
@Purrty_Pink@xanga - Vaginas are not like memory foam. -_-
I don't understand how girls get loose. I can have sex 3 times a day for multiple months with a normal sized penis and it does not get loose. And then if I go like a week without sex it is basically back to virgin size.
I feel like I would have to have a child in order to be loose, or stick something too big up there constantly.
this is the term small little boys like to throw around to demoralize a female......
when in truth his dick was too small to feel anything.
lol that's true. although excuse my bluntness, i feel like only men are superconcerned with the tightness of a girl's vag just like how they are obsessed with the size of their penises and think everybody should be too.
I don't think so. The vagina has uber elasticity. Unless you're old.
@la_faerie_joyeuse@xanga - Thank God someone posted that.
sex does not make a girl loose. some girls are naturally tighter than others.