Sunday, 07 February 2010
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Why Do You Want a GF/BF?
It's easy to want somebody to be your girlfriend or your boyfriend, and easy to wonder why people aren't gravitating to you. Face it. Some are lonely, and can't handle being single. To those who fit that category, I have one question for you: why do you want or need a girlfriend or a boyfriend?
a) You miss those blissful moments of getting to hold and kiss someone?
b) Because a girlfriend, to you, will be the closest you can get to a nearby friend?
c) you are apparently horny?
d) Other? Explain.
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I want someone to do the saix with. <3 Who will make me sandwiches. Because my friends won't do either of those for me.
:] So... a and b and d. D being sandwiches.
A. Sort of. It's not like I want any boyfriend; there's a specific person in mind. And (at the moment I feel) if i can't have him, I'll be single. :)
I don't necessarily want a boyfriend, but if I really, really like someone then its natural to want that relationship..in my opinion..
D.uh.because I don't have one.LOL kiddin'!
It's because I have so much more love to give and nobody to give it to. And I'm really choosy with people I open up with so I want someone special to share those thoughts with.
d) because I miss having someone to bake cookies for.
As stupid as that sounds.
But I don't need a boyfriend. (:
d) I want a girlfriend because I'm tired of going on horrible dates with guys. Makes me feel like I'm incapable of love ._.
A is the closest. I just love having someone there when I need them, someone to hold, love, trust. I'm one of those people who go insane when alone. And I've been crazy for 4 years going 5. -_____-'
d) I had thought about this question before, and the answer I came up was if we have no sexual needs we obviously don't need a GF at all. Probably people will disagree with me but I had asked many of my friends, both male and female that if you have no sexual needs do you think you need a BF/GF? And almost 95% said no. The ones said yes was becoz they need someone to take care of or maybe take advantage of.
@hazey_chique@xanga - I agree with your answer. I want a boyfriend because I have love to give, but I also feel like no guys want me. :-/
I've been through my periods of being in a relationship with someone and actually being single. While certainly there are perks to being single, I certainly like being in a relationship better. People tend to describe me as a giving person. I always like to have something to offer to someone. Plus, the companionship is there as well and during those times, I would always like to hold and kiss someone and call them as my own.
D. Because they're like a portable ATM.
Just kidding, I don't really want one. :D
- Kunoichi
d) never had one!
D? I'm ambivalent on this. LOL. Sometimes I want one, sometimes I don't. Ugh!
I like being single but want a girlfriend now because I know I won't be able to pull once I lose my hair.
http://plentymorefishoutofwater.blogspot.com/
none of the above, i guess. i only "want" one if i have a particular person in mind. if i didn't like a specific person, i wouldn't want a boyfriend.
@BeautifulDisaster04@xanga - Sometimes, I feel that way. That no guy wants me and I even think that maybe I suck being a girl because I don't seem to be attractive for a relationship.
Anyway, there are times that I feel I badly want a boyfriend but there are times when I can have one but feel like I'm not capable of loving him fairly.
@hazey_chique@xanga - I know exactly what you mean. It sucks, doesn't it? I know what you mean about not being attractive enough for a relationship too.. and a lot of my friends are married or engaged already and I'm wondering when my time will come.
Because you have a history with this person and sort of know what to expect. There are more activities you can do with a bf/gf than with someone you just met at a club. The conversations are also different because of the history. You also don't have to worry if that person likes you or wonder how you should act on a date, if that person will call you back after a date, or if you did something wrong on a date.
all of the above. :)
@BeautifulDisaster04@xanga - I try to find comfort in the quote, "There's a time for everything.' I guess time will tell what will be our fate, I hope it turns out as how we would like it to be.
Truth is, I'm kind of indifferent on the matter at this point in my life. I have a GF now, but it sort of just happened, I wasn't actively looking per se.
Sort of A, B, C is a given, and D would be so people stop asking me "Oh. You're not seeing anyone? Why not?". Why aren't I seeing anyone? Because I'm young, good looking and going to a college consistently ranked in the top 50 for best looking women. That's why!
Though now I'm just dating one of em.
@PMFoutofwater - Smart move my man.
a or D
cos when ur with someone you really care for cant help but smile..
and you learn more about yourself than you realise..
D. I miss having someone worship the ground I walk on. HAHAHAH. juuuust kidding.
A. every now and then, but it doesn't matter so much. I think.
hmmm...cuz it's nice. and having someone to kiss and sex up is always a plus. ;)
Relationships are like acquisition mergers, where the results end up in a hostage situation with little me's and you's on prozac growing up to be the unibomber. No thanks.