I have been wondering... what if I saw my ex again one day? Will I say hello or just walk away so that he won't see me.
We'd been breaking up for more than 7 months already.
That was the worst breakup in my breakup-history. He ignored me for weeks before we broke up. I thought he was busy so I asked for the break up. After that, I found out he had sex with a girl before we even broke up. He didn't want to be a 'bad person,' so he wanted me to ask for the break up and think that that was my fault. I recall the moment I rang him to ask for the reason. That girl was beside him. My heart was broken into tiny, minuet pieces that time.
He was the one that hurt me the most. Perhaps he was the only ex that I trusted so much.
Sometimes I ask myself, should I say hi or just walk away if I bump into him again one day? Should I pretend to say hello and hide the hurt-feeling or just don't give a damn?
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well in most cases, i would always tell people to talk to their ex's
but in this case, you have every right to ignore him. he was a freaking jerk to have sex with someone behind your back, WHILE YOU WERE STILL TOGETHER.
its disgusting that he would do that to you.
i cant imgaine how it feels to be in your situation but, im sure it hurts.
you dont have to say hi to him.
Just say hi. That's always been my policy.
No need for niceties beyond that.
find a better bf.... and say hi to him. :)
get prettier and say hi to him:)
i had the worst break up in my life with my ex also..
except that he didnt cheat on me or anything like that...
he doesn't deserve any respect of acknowledgment besides a cold look and cold shoulder.
don't say hi, just walk on by
that's what I've vowed to do if I ever see my ex again .... that asshole
I'd walk away from mine.
that's so ridiculous lmfao. what swagger he must think he has! to pull off that kind of bullshit, wow. what kind of cold motherfucker would do something like that? shits fucked up.
Ignore him. Walk away. Its the best thing, in my opinion.
Say hi.
i think each ex is a different case.
i would say hi to my ex.
i don't think you should; doesn't deserve it.
I would be the better person & say hi & keep walking. Anything beyond that is optional.
@XoAsianBabioX@xanga - @x_v_yumi_v_x@xanga - Both of these. Work on yourself (i.e. be the best person, inside and out, you can be) and don't be anything but cold to him. Move on. If he sees you, it can't hurt to be the best you've ever been and possibly make him regret his asshole ways.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VfEwye9wn44
Good listen....your blog made me think of this.
I would stop and say hi... probably have a good little chat too. The breakup with my ex wasn't mutual but he understood how I felt and respected that. It was sad but I'd say we're still friends. I mean, we know each other so well, how could we not be friends? Anyway that was way back in high school- sophomore year. I haven't spoken to him in a few months now actually. So we'd definitely catch up.
my ex and i usually just don't acknowledge each other, but there's no animosity.
ignore him.
make eye contact, and then go flirt with the next hottie you see [or the next 7]
walk away
Saying hello would be the polite thing to do.
Sure, he's a douche, but that shouldn't stop you from being cordial, you know?
(:
there's no point in small talk
give him a hi w. your eyes, and a "too bad u missed out" walk away from him...yupe
@x_v_yumi_v_x@xanga - haha that's a good one, i like that
The best thing to do, walk away. Ex g/f or b/f are ex. Don't drag past to present. it will one crush you more.
I think you'll have to see how you feel at the time.
Personally? I say hi and pretend I'm happier than I've ever been. No one wants to see their ex happy. No matter who well the relationship ends... and especially if it ends awfully like yours, no one wants to see their ex happy. They may want their ex to BE happy, but seeing it is always too much. It's like you meant nothing to them, that you're time together was just a blink in time that didn't effect you.
Be happy. Show him you are happy. It'll hurt him more than ignoring him or putting on a sad hurt face ever could.