Friday, 05 February 2010
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Falling in Love with the Same Person AGAIN!
My boyfriend and I have hit a rough patch recently in our relationship. For about two months, we were constantly fighting about anything and everything. I think the longest stretch of not fighting that we've had was probably two days. Of course we always kissed and made up after every argument, but still.. two months of fighting almost everyday was beginning to make the relationship feel as if it wasn't worth either of our time. It came to a point where every time we talked, we were both ready to fight. It's been two awesome years, why was this happening now? I thought he was losing interest in me, even if he and I both said we weren't to each other, it felt as though he was drifting away from me and I from him.
That was until last night. We had another argument earlier yesterday so we decided to meet up and talk about it. We made up and went out to dinner together. While we were out at dinner, it started snowing a lot outside so we waited before we walked to enjoy the beauty.. sort of. lol. I love when there's no one out and it's snowing so I enjoyed it at least. On the walk back to the car, my boyfriend pulled me by my arm and said, "Hey, you look really pretty out here with the snow. I wish I had my camera to take a picture.." I gave him a funny, "you're crazy" type of look. he laughed and he continued on by saying, "Babe, I know you're feeling sour about what happened earlier. We need to stop arguing like that cause you know I love you and I know you love me too. We gotta stop hurting each other over stupid things." I replied by saying, "Yeah, I know. You know I kinda love you too.." We hugged and continued walking.
As we were walking he said, "Hey, hey.. can I kiss you in the snow?" As soon as he said that, I got on my tippy toes, puckered up. It was such a special moment to me because for some reason, as soon as he kissed me, I felt the butterflies again. I felt my knees get weak and fall in love all over again. I feel like that simple, but all it took for us to be reminded that we're still in love and have something great going on between us. It made me not care about all the fights/arguments that we've had anymore. What we had was so much more worth it.
Has your SO ever done anything sweet to make you fall in love all over again?
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i guess i'm still waiting
Awesome story, I'm very happy for you two...it's moments like that, that make life special. I think every couple should embrace an event like this at least once every few months to keep that spark in the relationship. My ex and I had a very passionate relationship just like yours. Fighting isnt a bad thing, because it just means both of you are very passionate. When it gets excessive then you got yourself a problem, but it appears both of you know that already. I hope you both have more moments like this.
That is adorable! I love that feeling of falling in love all over again. It kind of gives you that reminder of how much they really mean to you, because we all sometimes take that for granted.
A time that it happened to me was when:
I was at my boyfriends place last weekend, and we were both having kind of a down weekend, because a lot of stuff had happened in our lives recently and we were both very irritable. So I was sitting on my corner of the couch and he was sitting on the other texting his friend. We had "Twilight" playing, because he has no cable and it was the closest movie to grab. So i was watching the movie and he was still texting and we both weren't paying much attention to eachother, and then the part of the movie where Edward looks at Bella and says "and so the lion fell in love with the lamb" came on, I looked over at my boyfriend and said "Our lines coming up" (when he asked me out, he used that line, and said "so i guess the lion really has fallen in love with the lamb") anyways when i said that he looked at me and right as Edward said it he repeated the line back to me and then instantly pounced on me and gave me the biggest kiss ever and told me "I know I have been down recently and I know this weekend hasn't been that much fun, but I just want you to know, I love you so much babe" I instantly fell in love all over again.
that's a cute story :)
I don't see how he could be mad at you. You're too pretty to be mad at. xD
I do believe it's possible to fall in love with the same person all over again. I'm glad you both experienced that & thanks for sharing your story. I love happy endings
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..... that's what i have been waiting for my SO to do. but it hasnt happened yet. maybe never will.
Means the love is still there and you got something special. Revel in it!
I wish my boyfriend did that. Every time I try he makes some random excuse to get out of kissing me in public. Grawrgh. We fight a bunch too but over stupid stuff. It happens. Better than not fighting at all.
Relationships over a year are tough. It's transitioning period and figuring out if they're really the one.
My SO are in that type of relationship right now. We seem to be arguing more than usual lately and I sometimes feel it's beginning to take a toll on our relationship. I guess it's because we're both two VERY stubborn people and don't know when to admit when we're wrong. It almost begins to feel like a competition sometimes. I wish when we did argue, we could try to resolve the problem but the majority of the time we'll try to forget what happened. I just feel like nothing ever gets solved and the reason why we argue so much always seems to stem from the argument we had before. I love my SO more than anything else in this world and when we're not arguing, he's really a supportive and loving person and a great person to be around. I guess we just have to learn to accept each others' differences and realize there's more to life than just petty arguments.
and this is what exactly happened to me and my bf last night. Oh gaahd..
It feels really good. I would share my story but I had just wrote a long blog about it 2 minutes ago and moms making me do chores. >.< LOL
But im pretty much jealous that it snows where you live. LOL
But anyway, ill share some LOL i cant stop myself from doing so. UGGGH. LOL i guess moms gonna have to wait? LOL
but its been 4 freaking weekends that we had been fighting and it seemed like we did not know each other anymore, the cause of the fights were mostly because of our totally opposite schedules, he works nightshifts, so our world is totally opposite, cannot find time, little things, too make us fight! But last night after days of giving cold shoulders to each other, oh gahhd, yes, it felt like as if it was not worth either of our time anymore and it was a horrible feeling, uggh. BUT last night, I drove to his super far house, just to hug him and leave, I got there and found him sleeping and it seemed like as if I just disturbed his great sleep and I was irritating him, I left to his bathroom and talked to myself, I said to myself, "well, it seems like he's not interested anymore, just leave, it's not worth it anymore." I cried a little and went back in his room and told him, "Hey baby, I'm leaving." Even though I was feeling like he didnt want me there, my heart is telling me another, my heart is positive and when I leaned over to kiss him on the forehead, he kissed me on the lips and hugged me while he is laying down and held my hand. And he said "i missed you... stay with me..." those little actions, gave me the butterflies again, with some tears, shhh... he doesnt know... and we began talking, heart felt, though we had such little amount of time to talk, we said what was needed to say to fix everything. And I left, woke up this morning, called him and wrote a long blog about our nice new love.
all the time. ive been with my husband for 8.5 yrs, honestly, you are going to hit rough patches that lasts weeks, even months sometimes. but, once you get through it, you will learn, grown, and change from it, and as long as you can fall in love again as your describing here, you will be stronger for it. youll look back at the stages of your relationship and in a way, you will be able to categorize these times that you have had. hope that makes sense. good luck with everything!
I forgot to tell you that your story made me cry...
of happiness though.
@gel11@xanga - that sounds amazing. he's a lucky guy.
AWWWWWWWWHIAHFEAIJFA. that was way too adorable.
thats such a cute story! :) :) bless :D
awww yeah ::heart melts:: my first boyfriend and i dated for almost four years, and through lots of trials and tribulations i fell in love with him several times. it was the best feeling! it's all the bliss of falling in love for the first time, but still with the old feelings, too. <3 <3 <3
@saraxlindsay24@xanga - that's such a cute story! your boyfriend not only will watch twilight with you, but actually used the lines to ask you out? impressive!
I don't have an SO. But my bestfriend does that nearly every day.
Not that I'm in love with him.
supa cute xD haha I love that happy feeling ^_^
My long time bf and I broke up beginning of January because of a ton of problems... Near the end of the month I realized my heart was still with him. We got together and talked everything out. When we kissed for the first time after all that time apart, we fell back in love again.
We're far from the perfect couple. We fight. But we love each other so damned much. I got him a card that was pretty much perfect for our relationship: "I'd rather have our real romance than a fairytale one."
I'm still awaiting the day when a beautiful stranger suddenly appears out of nowhere when it is raining and shades me with an umbrella, then we laugh and skip over puddles and fall in love. k-dramas don't happen in real life much.
what a sweet story. =)
It's the little things :]]
I used to date this very sweet boy, and I really did like him but he never seemed to understand my stress level. One day I was super stressed with school and work and I ended up taking it out on him over something stupid. We hung up the phone and I went to work. I came home to find he had gone to my house and left me all my favorite foods, a letter and a beautiful sunflower boquet :]].
that's cute.
this blog helped me realize something. thank you.
the little moments are the ones that make relationships most beautiful. my ex always found a way to make me fall in love with him... until one day i'm sorry and the little things didn't help anymore... all relationships have their rough patches. just be sure that the little things don't become the only things--when a relationship takes more than just i love you, unexpected gifts at unexpected times, and butterfly wishes.
that's so sweet :) i was waiting for my boyfriend to do something like that as well......but the fighting just broke down our relationship and it's been two months since i went to his house to break up with him