Monday, 01 February 2010
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Dumped on Your Birthday
I just read about someone getting dumped on her birthday by her boyfriend. She didn’t post why he left her, but honestly, there is no justifiable excuse for dumping someone on their birthday. He could have waited at least a week or two - you don’t dump someone on their birthday!
Honestly, I have been dumped the day after Christmas. I have also been dumped the day before New Year’s, which is a funny story. I went to high school with this girl named Emily, and during Freshman year, she was celebrating her second Christmas with her boyfriend. I was jealous, and I remember wishing that they would break up before their 3rd Christmas together. Sophomore year, I started dating some guy Adam who was a major a-hole, and he had a giant crush [well, I wouldn't call it "giant" if you catch my drift] on Emily. Her boyfriends dumps her before Christmas, just like I wanted, but then New Year's Eve Adam asked Emily out, and that's when he called me up and dumped me - it's funny in a sick, twisted ironic way.
Technically I was “dumped” on New Year’s Day - me and some guy were sleeping in the same bed together [nothing happened, not even kissing] and then he left at 7am, before I woke up.
What’s the worst way or time that you have been dumped? Or, what is the worst way you have dumped someone - were you being cruel on purpose?
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I have had someone tell me that they were seeing someone else while out with me on New Year's Eve and then dumping me on our anniversary day. That is a real bummer.
my friends boy dumped her the day after her birthday. that sucks as well because you know the joy you felt about them that day wasnt real.
erm he stopped answering my calls then i bumped into him n he completely denied we even went out =/ hard times man
@Wac0madness@xanga - ha. that happened to me. he just stopped calling.
i once dumped a girl about 5 months before i was going to college because i was going to college. and it was my real, true reason for breaking up. it was kinda douchey tho when i started dating this other girl 2 months later...
i was dumped by my now ex-boyfriend, the day before our two years which happened to be valentine's day.
eh, birthday schmirthday... if the guy doesn't want to go out with me, i'd want to know. i think it'd be worse to have him pretend to have genuine feelings on whatever special day it was, and then find out later he was lying. IMO.
Bahaha. Yeah, my ex broke up with me on my 22nd birthday. It doesn't matter anymore, really. And honestly, in retrospect, the douchiness of it all is kind of funny now. ;]
Back in '06, I was dumped on New Years Eve, literally when I was on my way to his house to spend the evening with him. Also, I had a guy break up with me in the middle of a bar, because he wanted to go back to his ex-wife who, incidentally, was at that same bar that night.
I've never broken up with anyone in a cruel, unfair way. Despite being effed over a couple of times in past relationships, I think you should be honest and truthful when ending a relationship with someone. its only fair.
i curious to why they do that... there must be a reason...
I think of it this way...if anyone were to ever dump me on my b-day or whatever, they're not really worth the tears and a quicker way to get over someone instead of dragging it out.
Luckily I have not experienced this yet, and was just dumped on some random day.
I had to break up with MY boyfriend one year the day after my birthday, and also while I was at camp, and it was difficult. Technically, I couldn't even do it myself. He was just acting like a major a-hole all of the sudden. The day before my birthday I was talking to him, he got a call and promised he'd call back, but never did. Then he didn't call me at all on my birthday, and then the next day, I kept trying to call him, and he wouldn't pick up, he wouldn't pick up, and so one of my friend's called on her phone, and he answered, she put it on speaker and asked him all these things like "why didn't you call" and why won't t you pick up for her" and he was just like, "you know, I just don't care anymore", so my friends broke up with him for me, since he wouldn't speak to me. But it was hard. I mean, in front of everyone, I took it okay, because I had to, but after everyone was asleep that night, I broke down and called my best friend, and cried on the phone to him. Althought technically the breaking up was from my side, it's not something I wanted to do, but more something I was forced into, because he just suddenly stopped caring.
I was neverrr dumped on a holiday. Closest, was that I was dumped on my FRIEND'S bday.. and right before prom in high school HAHAHA (doesn't sound so bad now)
double wow on his royal doucheness. Any dumping on any holiday or a day that's being celebrated should be banned.
this hits close to home...my best friend was just dumped by his girlfriend of 7 years...and we're all heading to Vegas to celebrate his birthday this weekend
My ex dumped me the day before Valentine's Day. My mom is convinced he just didn't want to have to buy me anything :) haha! it all worked out for the better
I got dumped a week and a half before Valentine's Day, but that's all. Hmmm, I lost my prom date, but at least it wasn't on some MAJOR date, like Christmas or my birthday. Looking back, that would have sucked so much more ):
i broke up with my first boyfriend 2 days before his birthday.
but he was verbally/emotionally abusive, so i don't care. he put me through wayyy more shit than that.
I found out my girlfriend of three and a half years had cavourted with another man on my 22nd birthday.
http://plentymorefishoutofwater.blogspot.com/
there`s an obvious reason why men dump women on their birthdays ;
they`re men .
@skinnysexyperfection02@xanga - Totally agree.
@nylondare@xanga - now now, you shouldn't generalize all men to be like this. there are some decent men out there.
It happened to a friend of mine (she got dumped on her birthday) I wanted to punch the guy so hard when I found out. I wish he had done it before her birthday and not the day of. ugh. Annoying.
my first bf dumped me the weekend of valentines day like 3 years ago. idk, i guess i saw it coming, but its your first relationship, it kinda stings. and i'd bought him a silly gift! and he bought me: "sooo we're over..." - aww!
I got dumped in a text message once. It kind of sucked. And the worst way I've dumped someone was on msn. I feel bad now, but yeah, maybe I was doing it to hurt them at the time. Or maybe it was just spontanious. I don't know.