Friday, 29 January 2010
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Advice: How Do You Pursue a Crush?
How do you pursue a crush that, at the moment, doesn't like you? I've never actually done this before, but I really like this guy and I want to try. Any advice?
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You don't.
It's just a crush and it will eventually pass.
Kind of like food poisoning. Just wait it out and it will go away. :D
- Kunoichi
the one who cheated cause they betrayed the trust of the relationship
you talk to them.
if you can find about their interests beforehand, then do so - no one likes an awkward conversation. just don't get stalkerish.
@Wac0madness@xanga - lol ... I think you were trying to respond to another post
@KrazeeKunoichi009@xanga - Crushes cause epic diarrhea? I'm glad I've never had one then. :D
You need to get a big crowd of people to be around when you decide to tell him.
Make sure you shout across the crowd to get his attention.
While he's staring at you and wondering what the fuck you're doing you say:
"I CANNOT CONTROL MY LUST FOR YOU!"
Then if he starts running towards you run towards him and when you two collide the world will know your love for each other.
works for me every time.
you say, "nice shoes, wanna fuck?"
haha, but really, i don't.i'm far too shy. ://
@GiantUnicorn@xanga - LOL. that's what i've been doing wrong all this time!
@GiantUnicorn@xanga - Last time I tried that her fist collided with my face...
Take my advice, what you do is you slash your crushes tires when they go to the store at night, right? Then when they come back and start freaking out cause their tires are slashed, you jump out from behind the car (knife in hand) and ask, "Car troubles?" as seductively as possible...
85% of the time, it works 100% of the time...
just ask him out, if he likes you, then great, else, there's really no point in pursuing further... just know that if he doesn't like you, it's not the end of the world, there are plenty of fish out in the sea.
@salvatruca_stalking_havok13@xanga - And they can be cured with large amounts of Peptol Bismol! :D
flirt ! but not too much. lols
and just talk to them , make them laugh or smth : )
invite him to watch a movie that he won't say no to like Avatar, then pretend to accidentally spill the popcorn all over his lap and then go get'em!
just kidding?
flirt with him as your own discretion or boundaries. if he responds well and doesn't flinch away, it is a win.
@Wac0madness@xanga - I think you responded to the wrong post..?
@SliverLines@xanga - OHH NO!! how did that happen
i would say develop a friendship first, and see where it goes from there.
hmmmm u usally get hurt by crushes usually by the disappointment. but talking is the first step its always good to start there instead of standing at a distance and staring.
@GiantUnicorn@xanga - not gunna lie, ive done something very similar.
blank stare. thats it.
@P0RCELA1N_D0LL@xanga - hahah perfect! ;)
you're such a genious.
it's easier if you're already friends. :]
make flirty eye contact with them :P
pee
It alwaaaaays depends :) But there are MANY STRATEGIES!
(Yes, I strategize when I wanna get a guy)
chat. aim does wonders next to fb. text. thens chill. and alone time. idk
def start with the aim.that is.... if youre pass the high school stuffs about getting your friend to tell him for you...
Pursue a Crush? Hey! That's my name .. pursue me ..
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@KrazeeKunoichi009@xanga - I am totally with you on that one! It's like going to McDonald's after not having eaten fast food in weeks and then getting pregnant with a giant food baby. This, too, shall pass...