Tuesday, 26 January 2010
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Question of the Day: Female Blue-Ball?
Now, many people know about the extreme pain guys feel when blue-balled. We can sometimes describe it as: being kicked in the balls by the population of China, throbbing, aching, or the feeling that we have to pee the Niagra Falls but wearing fourteen pairs of underwear and can't get it out to pee. We start seeing things, start living in a sense of heightened "innuendo" and sex. Our minds wander...wait what? For many guys than it is simply a part of their daily lives!
Quick question, what do you ladies call it when you are blue-balled? In that case, what are your physical, mental, social, or emotional responses?
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We get cranky.
Reeeeeaaaaallly cranky.
But it's not as bad as feeling like an important member of our body is being held by a vice grip.
"Frustrated."
I don't call it anything... maybe I'm, err, "frustrated"?
As for responses... if you're able to do something about it, it gets done. If not, you try to move on and not dwell on it.
good question since our bodies dont exactly get a physical reaction like the male erection......
If we are really aroused mentally and then we are turned down or it just doesnt happen, for me, its not a HUGE deal. Its not like the end of the world like it can be with some woman.
I just start thinking things and sometimes might have to go fix it myselfff lol ;) but other then that theres no urges like having to pee...
that sucks.
Really annoyed and irritable.
Want a girl that wants sex all the time?
Give her decent sex.
If she never wants it, you probably pissed her off and caused her this.
And maybe that's why she nags you all day about OTHER things.
It's a vicious, vicious, horrible cycle that can be prevented by ONE thing.
Thoughtful, AWESOME sex. If you roll over when you're done and she's not, plan on a little more nagging.
well, i know for some guys, blue balls can drive them to act like animals. i went a year without sex once, and it wasn't pretty. i was at my wits end, going from isolating friends and selfishly demanding things, and just overall being a hurtful, unbelieveable douche (REALLY sorry if you know me!) to just barely getting out of bed and calling out of work everyday. but is that primal, emotional response present in girls? i think it can show up, albeit at a much lesser extent. the trick is to know when to do something about it, and get it out of your mind completly, which is what worked for me. go to bars, get laid, hang out with important friends, go to concerts, drug festivals, do shrooms, do lsd, throw parties, gamble, drink. actively try to stay sane. of course, i ended up figuring all this out way too late.
girls don't get anything like blueballs. (we have periods, which is worse) if I'm really horny and I can't have sex with my boyfriend I feel sad or I masturbate.
@Lorelei - yep, pretty much. or maybe disappointed
like @sexncookies@xanga said, since we don't get the same physical response, it's a different thing. for me, though, it's kinda like a rejection- it hurts my feelings if a) i'm horny and then my advances are turned down, or b) if he's gotten his and i haven't gotten mine. with a), i feel rejected, and i'm really REALLY sensitive to that- maybe cuz we women have primarily been taught that guys should always want sexy time, and if they don't something's wrong. in the case of b), it's because he is being selfish and inconsiderate. unless i'm tired, too haha then i don't care.
@threeam_train - what about masturbating? do you mean a year without an orgasm, or just no "actual" sex?
frustrated and then i think FCK YOU DAMNIT!! sooner or later this emotion subsides.
@JennyGee@xanga - it's not the same feeling at all. it's sort of a depressing substitute, technically. but just barely.
i was holding out for love.
Well, not that we aren't feeling similar effects that the guys do, it's just that we're able to handle it better. ;)
Along with what most have already said, it's not any sort of extreme pain but just frustration and impatience... haha.
i don't think there's a physiological equivalent, but i agree with most of the commenters. "frustrated" sounds about right.
I have never heard of that. Is it the same as being black-balled?
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I've felt nauseous and had a head ace before.
yeah frustrated is the answer...
yeah i get cranky when im being sexually deprived.
i'm jsut really horny and sexually frustrated.
I get really frustrated, and moody. I start constantly thinking about sex, and making everything dirty.
Um there's actually a psychological reason guys get blue balls...believe it or not.
When men get horny, they develop an insatiable desire for release that quite literally builds up in their minds and bodies, but women don't develop any sort of feeling of needing to get that "release."
I don't get anything mildly equivalent to blue balls. When I get really horny but then get no action, the feeling fades really fast and I feel perfectly content like I was before I got horny.
Blue Ovaries...lol
yeah i get frustrated, irritably, and anger when i can't get my orgasm out my system if needed to and all i received was filled with distraction and disturbances
girls who say they don't get blue balled just haven't experienced it yet.Â
it's horrriiiiiiibllle.Â
last time it happened to me I literally became violent then cried. ;3Â
Not.funnn.Â
hmm. i don't really get frustrated about sex.. is there something wrong with me?