Sunday, 24 January 2010
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Girls in Trucks
I just finished reading this book called Girls in Trucks by Katie Crouch. I received this book for Christmas after seeing it on the New York Times Bestseller list. Has anyone else read it?
Long story short, I devoured this book. After the first 120 pages that is. Yes, it took me that long to actually understand the direction in which this book was going. For the first half of the book, I admit, I did not like it. I was taken aback by its vulgarity (also known as brutal honesty), as it was not what I was expecting. Mind you, I have nothing against vulgarity or brutal honesty, especially not in books. But when it hits you in the face, recovery time is crucial.
Maybe I should back up here. Girls in Trucks is, in a nut shell, a story of how disastrous love can be.
Sarah Walters is a Camellia debutante in Charleston, South Carolina. After losing her virginity to a country boy her senior year of high school, she moves up north, to New York for college. Her college experience is nothing more than a 5 page anecdote--fitting since chances are her memories are a blur of a drunkenness anyway--and then she heads to The City to begin a journalism career. And here, in NYC, her sexual escapades begin.
Addicted to drugs, alcohol, sex, and love, Sarah finds herself jumping from boy to boy, never really satisfied, and each time, a little more broken. At the end, Sarah, 31, returns to Charleston to care for her newly widowed mother (with the list of men she's slept with totaling over 25), and learns a secret about her own mother's "imperfect" love life.
I have to admit, I have never been in love. Not romantically, anyway. Hell, I've never even had my first kiss. Yes, that's right. I'm a college girl, and I've never even kissed anyone yet. It's not that I don't want to. It's just that boys are just so damned hard to find. But I digress.
Love, yes, right. From my experiences, I can't even begin to fathom the heartbreak and torture Sarah experiences in this novel. Romantic love is like another language to me. All I can understand of it, is what I've read in stories and seen in movies. Being the naive, romantic creature that I am, I like to believe in that magic called "true love." That love where two people lock eyes and know, in an instant, that they were meant to be, and want nothing more than to be together. I like to think that love is something that falls from the sky, and hits you over the head so hard, you fall, concussed to delirium and happy. I like to think that this delirious state lasts forever.
Of course, the realist side of me always has to pick a fight with the romantic side, that bitch, and remind me that nothing's that easy.
Girls in Trucks is an ode to the realist, reminding those hopeless romantics in us that that concussed delirium, despite the feelings of happiness that might result from it, is still delirium. And when delirious, we don't always think straight. In fact, we can often times hurt ourselves when we succumb to it. Like Charlotte and her heroin addiction. She craved the high, even though she knew the drugs were slowly killing her.
What are your thoughts on the subject? Have you ever been in love? Do you think of love from the romantic perspective, or the realist? If you've read the book, how accurate do you think Crouch was in her depiction of love?
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Realist. Maybe it's because of pain, but I'm hoping it's the way I would've seen things anyway as I got older or...something. As I grew? The effects of love can be wonderful...or terrible. All depends on how much effort you put into it, how much consideration and compassion you devote to another person, and whether or not it would've worked in the first place. Sometimes you can't fix something no matter how hard you try. I think, statistically (haha, not only a realist but a nerd!), there is bound to be another person out there for every person who has suffered a heartache so intense that they feel as if they'll never love again. So the numbers are on our side. Will we find those people? Who knows. Maybe, while you're working on your own education, career, business, talent, hobby.... someone will come along and confirm my hypothesis.
I don't think I've ever been in love..
Right now, I'm in love, so I don't know, we'll see I guess.
This book is at the top of my list for ones I wanted to read this year. It caught my eye at work. After reading this blog, I feel even more excited about reading it!
I don't think anyone who has really truly loved and lost or seen love lost can be sincerely romantic about it anymore.
If you don't go into love with a realistic view, it'll never work.
I thought this was going to be a Xanga Ford vs. Chevvy face off or something. Sucks. But I guess that would've been on Mancouch or something. Hm.
I'm a realist in that I think that there are ups and downs to every relationship. I think some people grow up with a void inside that causes them to act out in the way that the main characters acts out in the book (I've never read it, so I'm basing that on what you said above). Maybe because I saw plenty of good relationships in my life, I was able to form my own ideas of what would and wouldn't work for me.
Having said all of that, I've been happily married for nearly 6 years now. My husband and I have high expectations when it comes to loyalty and honesty, and I think that's a lot more important sometimes than how you feel.
@kellouise@xanga - Let me know what you think!
@emptypersonas@xanga - sorry to disappoint :(
I want to read this book now
@mcmeister89@mancouch - Definitely.
i have been in love, not sure how many times- twice that my love has been returned, once when it wasn't, and a few friendship/love confusing situations that didn't turn out very satisfying.
either way, i am still a romantic
i am now with a guy who is everything i ever wanted, and i'm glad that i kept my standards. on the other hand, though, i am realistic in knowing that the honeymoon stage won't last forever, and we'll have difficulties like everybody does, but i think you can only really enjoy the "in-love" feeling if you naively give into it completely. to me it's worth it
but i'm sort of an emotion junkie 
I'm a tousled mess of realism and romanticism. So far, I've been pretty lucky with love. My first boyfriend turned out to be my first love, among other "firsts" and by this summer, we'll have been together for 5 years. We live together and I couldn't ask for a better man. But I'm also a realist and I recognize that we're not the norm...the norm actually sucks.Â
I think I'll look up this book, thanks for the recommendation!
@random_quotes201@xanga - I think the idea was that she was so confused and desperate, that she would do something crazy like that. (glad you liked the book too!)
i've been in love but it was never like that in the books. it was always so simple. i guess i'm a realist most of the time. as we're speaking, i'm falling but not sure if it's love yet.
One can be realistic and brutally honest without being vulgar. :p
Eh, I feel I'm more realistic about it than anything. While I'd like to believe in true love, seriously I know it isn't so. :p Just because I would like to believe in something doesn't make it so.
I haven't read the book, but it doesn't sound much like something I'd be interested in. Just not my type of fiction. :p But, to each their own, right? :)
oh, i'm reading this book now ~ actually.. i haven't finished it yet so I can't comment on whether I find it a good depiction of love, but i've been in one relationship and i learned a lot from it. i'd say that took me out of the hopeless romantic/idealist state of mind.