One of my male besties is gay. The other day he told me about how he is currently talking to a guy who claims he is straight. This guy is married, and he has a three-year-old child. Now maybe I'm the confused one, but how can you be a straight male when you allow another male to stick it and lick it. I'm not judgmental at all but I'm just saying be straight forward about what you like.
I feel sorry for this guy's wife and child. The fact that he is doing this behind her back makes me think if there are other "down low" males (
Note: Males who act and appear to be straight, but also likes to take a ride on the disco stick) walking around with wives and children. What happen if the wife finds out about her husband's extracurricular activities?
Ladies have you ever came across a guy who was on the 'down low"? Would you be open to dating a bisexual male?
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Uhhhh if anyone else was banging my boyfriend that would sicken me and disturb me. I'd puke and have to break it off. No matter the sex of the person. People who do it while married, either denying their real sexuality or being an adulterous bisexual - it's wrong, and disgusting. These people should be outed so that their families can pack up and move on to happier pastures.
And definitely if my boyfriend was putting his disco stick into another guy's poop shoot, I'd never let that thing near me EVER AGAIN.
I had a friend who was desperate for a boyfriend. I mean she would just about date anyone who was willing to give her a chance. She ended up with this guy, who we ALL know is gay. He admitted to a gay friend of ours at a party that he was gay and that'd he messed around with a guy before, but every time we confronted him about it, he denied it.
He was a total jackass dumb fuck. My friend somehow ended up dating him despite how much we told her he was gay.
We say that she's a cover up and since she likes guy on guy action, she's watches gay porn and has asked guys to get it on in front of her so she can watch, we think that's why he's comfortable with it. It's actually really fucked up, but she wouldn't listen to us, hence why we're not friends anymore. There's a lot more to the story, but thats most of it.
Some people are so strange.
Well, the fact that he's cheating is very, very sad and wrong. Cheating is never appropriate; however, in a society that still demonizes those who are gay or bisexual, some LGB individuals feel they have no choice but to give into the societal pressures of "being straight". This sometimes drags people along for the very depressing, faux heterosexual ride such as the wife and child you already mentioned. :(
the guy's just douchey for cheating on his wife. i don't care about the gender with which he cheats.
Why would you do that to your butthole? O.O
Oh, and the wife...
Cheating is wrong! Deception of that level is not acceptable. However there is nothing wrong in being attracted to both genders. Being so attracted does not mean that there is anything Faux about either the heterosexual marriage or the same sex trysts.
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I'd say let's hope the 3 year old child doesn't end up like Marten, but actually, ending up like Marten is probably dodging a bullet compared to the other developmental issues that kid's gonna have...
It's way more common than you think.
Also with "straight women."
(My best friend is a lesbian and she says she gets hit on by straight girls all the time.. and by hit on, I mean naked pictures sent to her phone..)
Not that I would ever say it's okay, but some people think it's "safer cheating" (meaning no risk of pregnancy.)
I think that cheating is trashy no matter.
I don't think I can deal with dating a bisexual. I would have too many questions about whether or not he is really into me or if he is thinking about a guy while being with me. Call it insecurity or anything you like, but that is just my preference.
well that guy is not confused if he's cheating on his wife with another man.
I just want to know when "talking to" became a euphemism for "banging"...
For some reason i am not attracted to people who dont know what they want.And if your a bi male and your trying to get with me...no, it aint happening. I dont have time to help you figure out what you like . not a toy.
I had a friend whose dad was doing this. He was married for 12 years to her mother and ended up committing suicide. She found all the bills for gay prostitutes and the gay porn after his death. It was a fucked up situation.
and yet people are totally fine with man walking in on his girl doing another girl, but not ok for girl to walk in on a guy doing another guy ~_~ and YET we constantly ask for EQUALITY?! Bah the irony!
But jokes aside, its still wrong to cheat :p
It's a shame people give in to convention so much and it can take forever to find out who they really are.
There's no excuse for cheating on your spouse. There simply is no excuse. I know there are a mulititude of reasons why people cheat but in the end I believe that cheating is inexcusable.
Yeah, I dated a guy like that (who didn't tell me he was bi just btw) and I caught him kissing a guy. I'm still having inferiority issues over that one. A pretty girl I could have gotten over, but a guy?! He wasn't even particularly attractive...It really robs you of your femininity.
all the horrible euphenisms in this post/comments section are making me vomit. stick it and lick it? poop shoot? disco stick? i mean, lady gaga said it, but... even still...
@ThisUserNameIsAvaliable@xanga - no, I think walking in to find your husband doing another girl is bad too, but it really hurts when you realize that your so ugly and so awful that you made him give up on women all together...and then it makes you wonder if maybe you look/act like a man.
@Coffee_Kaioken@xanga - I totally thought of Marten too. :/
I feel sorry for this guy's family, too. It's a shame he can't be more open with his wife.
I really liked a bi guy once, but we agreed that it would probably be best if we didn't date (mainly not because of the bi thing, mind you).
In contrast to the down-low men, I massively approve of and admire guys who get their sexuality largely figured out, quirks and all, and then are completely open about it with potential serious intimate partners. I've had a couple of these in my life and I admire them so much for their honesty and transparency.
Cheating is inexcusable, regardless of who its with!
I wouldn't be opposed to dating a bisexual, but unless we agree on an open relationship I'd better be the only one you're doing anything with!
@haloed@xanga - agreed. I don't care if my boyfriend was cheating on me with a male or female - it's still cheating and it makes it no worse or better. It'd worsen the blow, sure, if it was with a guy. But i'd still be upset because of the cheating aspect.
I do not want any other person near my boyfriend.
@sempermedusa@xanga - bad or not is situational and I wasn't talking about that lol, I was saying what is more accepted in society nowadays.
Doesn't matter if he's gay/bisexual/straight...that man is cheating on his wife and is a complete douche. Cheating is horrible. One of my hubby's cousins was married to a guy who turned out to be gay. She caught him in bed with the guy. He'd been cheating on her for a long time she later found out.