Sunday, 10 January 2010
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Question of the Day
Ok so my friends and I always give the nitty gritty details of pretty much every guy we have been with even if we only make out. And I mean details: kissing style, touches, penis size, how good the guy looked naked, how well they made us feel... every single detail. And from what I hear from some guys, all they say is "Yea she was good." No details really. And me and my friends can spend hours talking about one guy.
So I guess, guys and gals... how many sex details do you spill? How about does it depend on if you are in a relationship or not?
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I asked my boyfriend about this and he said that unless it's one of his REALLY close friends,
they actually don't go into a whole lot of detail with one another. maybe "I slept with ____________" and that's as far as it goes. girls though? I feel like we spill every little detail.
although I would venture to say, it's different for everyone; I can't generalize, this is only what I've experienced.
I really hate the thought of girls talking about my small nipples and incompetent tongue with their girl friends. So depressing. What happened to privacy and integrity? Having said that, I did once post a blog about a girl's large vagina...here's the link ha:
http://plentymorefishoutofwater.blogspot.com/2009/10/sunday-confessional-sex-stevie-and.html
i don't go any further than penis size.. and that's only with my BEST BEST friend.
well.. and i go further in some xanga posts, but that doesn't count, nobody knows me here!
What happens in the bedroom, stays there to be honest.
maybe to my 2 best friends, thats about it
@adamcieslicki@xanga - Agreed
I never spilled exact details about anything - it's kind of private for me. Then again, I never slept with a guy casually. I'm more than willing to talk sex with my friends and we might go into a few particulars but nothing you could really spend hours on.
My friends and I just pretty much cover if it was good or not, and maybe ask size. But really that's pretty much it. On occasion, we get into more detail, but that's usually if we did something out of the ordinary.
I'll tell who ever asks. I'm not just going to be like "HEY YOU, guess what this guy was like". I will always tell my best friend though ;) who doesn't?
&& you said something about guys only saying "she was good" or something. Most guys I don't think do that where I'm from. I know most of them tell all their guy friends about a girl they were recently with. Maybe it's just my town?My girlfriends & I have never ask or tell about that stuff , we only talk about who we think is hot
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the most i would say is that he was good, or bad, or something like that. no more detail is necessary than that.
One of my best friends is the kind of girl who tells all of us alllllllll the details.
Since most of my friends are still virgins, no we don't really talk about it. I'd tell them if it happened and that's about it. I'd tell them the answers to what they'd ask, but I doubt that they'd ask anything. I always wonder what my boyfriend divulges though. I know that he's told his best friends what we've done but I don't know how much he's said. I do know that one of his best friends texts him to tell him almost every single time he "gets his dick wet."
It more so depends on the person I'm talking to and how I feel about it at that moment. Usually I only share (with friends) with it's relevant to our discussion. Not "OMG I LOVE DOGGYSTYLE!" but "You don't like doggystyle? This is how we do it, try it and maybe it'll work for you too."
I don't really have those kinds of conversations with my girlfriends. I don't know. Before I got married, I hadn't ever had sex, and I was only the second of my friends to get married/have sex, so we didn't often have these conversations. Now that most of my friends are nearly in their 30s, though, I think that we have been a bit more open and we talk about these kinds of things a bit more. But it's usually part of other conversations like, "how in the world do you survive for months when your husband is at sea?" Answer: vibrator. ;)
It depends on how comfortable the friend I'm talking to is with that stuff. I try to respect how far they're willing to get into it. Sometimes they have huge rods up their asses about that topic, and for some, it can be as casual as denim. If it gets to that comfortable point, I'll usually talk about positions and something he did that felt good for me.
I think what happens between you and your man should stay that way. Sharing that he's a good kisser or that he drives you wild, or something general seems okay (in my opinion, of course) But all those little details I feel are disrespectful to your man. He's kissing you, and the way you describe it to your friends, it's like they are kissing him too. Keep it private.
i spill EVERYTHING with my best friend.
i dont tell any one really about my sex life. i dont have some one that i feel i can trust like that. the closest i will tell some one is my aunt (who is like my bestfriend and i basically tell everything to) but she doesnt even get the details she would maybe get a comment here or there.
My friends and I don't get into detail. For some reason girls don't believe this, but we guys for the most part don't talk about the details.
Men inherently aren't intimate enough with each other to go there. That being said, I also feel it's a little disrespectful to discuss your partners details. If you *really* have the need to let your friends know your intimacy just invite them to watch next time.
When I'm in a relationship, I barely give details. I feel like it's between me and my guy, and not anyone else. I'll say if he was good, bad, or okay, but that's about it. When I'm not in a relationship, I give a few more details, but not a lot. Then again, I don't have a lot of girlfriends... I hang out with guys, and they don't really want to hear about my sex life haha.
Usually keep my personal stuff, personal... dont see why my friends have to know every detail about what i have done or not done with a guy.
My bedroom details stay private... Although sometimes, if it's *really* good, I might gloat about it vaguely. :)