So, following my post, "Lack of a Female G-Spot...", I realized (Thanks to Sunrie 
)that truthfully, women are often times at fault for not having the pleasure they could be having during sex. Whether it's because you just aren't feeling it, don't think your man wants to hear it, or are too shy to show your wild side, in the end, you're the only one missing out! Your guy is gonna please himself to the fullest, and once he's reaching climax, he's gonna cum even if you haven't. So, if you want mind-blowing sex and the orgasms of your life, lose the shyness and let your inner tigress ROAR!!! 
Here are some tips that have worked wonders for me! When you take your time pleasing your guy, more often than not, he realizes that you want it to last. So, he gives you the same treatment back!
When in missionary, it's easy to just lay back and let the guy do all the work, but it's not as pleasing! Which leads him to think it's okay to keep pumping away until he orgasms. Instead, gyrate you hips against his, and hold his hands as he holds the spots you want him to hold on to. He'll be entranced by the feelings and will be more willing to make it last so he can extend his own pleasure as well!
On that same note, a woman's clit serves one truly wonderful purpose... to stimulate us sexually! So, don't be shy about losing control due to pleasure. Again, lose the shyness and guide his hand there. Tell him you want him to touch you there, and if he's not doing it in a pleasing manner, guide his hand to stimulate you as you want him to. You'll be provided with greater pleasure, and he'll think it's hot that you're taking the initiative!
During girl on top, don't just pump away up and down like your riding a horse. Change speeds from time to time. Start out slow, then go faster. When you see that he seems like he might orgasm from it, slow down again. It's slight torture in the moment, but when you stop right before an orgasm, when you do let it come later, the pleasure is much greater.
Also, remember he's going to be entranced by the way his member goes in and out of you, so lean back a bit and let him see it. If you think you need a little extra touch, stimulate your own clit or breasts. He'll think it's sexy as hell, and he'll be more than willing to take over if you just ask!
When he does something that feels good, TELL HIM! Men want to be thought of as great in bed, so when they know what you like, they'll make a mental note of it. You'll enjoy it more, and he'll be more pleased with himself. You both win!
BE VOCAL! BE VOCAL!! BE VOCAL!!! I can't stress this enough! Tell him how your feeling, what you want him to do to you, and moan when it feels like you're about to forget your name! Keep a sexy voice and sultry smile and look at him like he's the best you've ever had. Hell be more than willing to please!
Remember though, porn stars are stopped right in the middle of the act about 20 times before they actually orgasm, and most of it ends up being fake. So, don't think that just because you saw the porn stars like it, it means that your man/girl will like it also! Before you try something new, talk about it. That way you run less of a chance or turning each other off, or having to sleep on the couch...
Do you think there's something that should be added to this list? Have you tried any of these successfully? or did it backfire?
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Comments (77)
lol @ the usage of the euphemism, "member."
This is hot.
Fewer things are sexier than happy moans.
@CHRiSTiNE_x@xanga - glad i'm not the only one who thinks so.
@MissPixieGlitter@xanga - I'm glad I'm not the only one who giggled at that.
@PseudoLeben@xanga - i know, right? but i have the maturity of a five-year-old. =p
Ha. If you want the neighbours to call in the police, be my guest.
I thought the noises are usually involuntary. if he is pleasing me right, then I can't help but be vocal. I don't like having to tell him what to do as if he is clueless. I'm pretty much an expert in dirty talk
it is usually the guy, who isn't that vocal and sometimes the things that he says ruins the mood. the reason why I'm attracted to some musicians like rock stars is because they can sing those strung out notes during those agonizing love songs and are more likely to be more vocal and sexier in bed when he has an orgasm. I love hearing the agony in their voices
I usually like the guy to take the lead and put my hand where he likes it
haha who cares if the neighbors call the police, you aren't doing anything illegal. it would just be hugely embarassing but a great story to tell your friends afterwards. sex is all about communication, what feels good and letting them know they hit the spot!
Yep, both parties should communicate more.
great post
ditto the first five comments. hhahaha.
Pretty good points. I can't help but scream like crazy when I have a good orgasm. (Maybe I'll learn to control it one day...?) It's actually quite inconvenient- I always have to cover my head with a pillow to smother the noise because our apartment has very thin walls and floors. I am grateful that my husband is so dedicated to pleasing me so massively, though. And I always make lesser noises on the road to climax because it helps me enjoy it more fully, tells him when he's doing it right, and he finds it hot.
One of my new year's resolutions is to have sex somewhere where I can scream my head off without shame!
Great stuff to read about.
In fact, I like my girl will gone wild a bit to drive me crazy. I like to her on top of me.
I hate when people generalize sex. It's different for everyone. We don't all like the same things. :/
LOLL @ the first couple of comments.
My ex liked it when I took charge (; but communication is key!
@Gorrific@xanga - soooo true -_-
umm. you're not a sex therapist and we don't all have the same problems.
in fact many of us don't need any help at all.
stick to counseling your friends?
I love all the exclamation points! In this post!
@Salivarysatisfaction - It makes it more exciting!!!!!!!!!!!111111oneone1
Fantastic post, while it doesn't always have to be theatrical it is great to at least feel as though someone is engaged. Reciprocity is always a critical sentiment though the best times are always been the noisy vocal ones. I have never heard a guy who said man my girl is hot when she just lays there. Those who claim this as true are lying, men respond to stimuli that is audio and visual because we are simple.
@wordkisses@xanga - I am constantly looking for a place such as that myself.
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@Gorrific@xanga - That's very true. Different people like different things, so we can't just follow one person's ideas. I'm sure that's why it says, "Here are some tips that have worked wonders for me." As in, you're welcome to try it out, but it's just what's worked for this specific couple.
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@greenglow28@xanga - You're right. I'm not a sex therapist... not yet at least
However, I want to emphasize that before I put up any tips, I said, "Here are some tips that have worked wonders for me." I'm not out to tell people what to do, just to tell them my own experiences, and maybe those who want to can get something out of it. If this post doesn't help you I'm sorry, but I've already received messages thanking me for the tips.
So, without generalizing, different things work for different people, and I'm just here to tell what's worked for me.
Mucho Amor,
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@Salivarysatisfaction -
@methodElevated@xanga -
Yeah, I got very excited just writing it.
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