Monday, 04 January 2010
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You May Be Hot, But You Suck in Bed
A little birdie once told me that hot guys or pretty looking guys rely too much on their good looks to get girls, therefore, they tend to suck in bed. They're use to girls chasing them and they know they're good looking enough to always land a girl who wants to sleep with them even if they are lousy lovers who can't find the G-spot with a navi and a flashlight.
Not so good looking guys (average to below average) tends to be better in bed because they try harder and are more eager to please the girl, therefore, perfecting their skills in the pleasure department.
So, who agrees or disagrees?
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Makes perfect sense to me!! :)
It sure does make sense.
in my experience no guys r good in bed, whether good lookin or ugly, they still hav no idea what they r doin!! lol
/cry -- I disagree, everything is learned.
If only I went into college as a massage therapist.
That's been my experience!
I think that's probably true to some extent, but really...a guy is going to be a good as you make him. He only knows what he's doing wrong if you tell him, not if you simply write a blog about a stereotype.
I agree...
I don't really see how this makes sense. Have you had sex with a large variety of good looking men? What about bad looking men? How can you basically invent a correlation between two things and have no real backing to it, and then postulate on why the two are supposedly correlated?
whatever.
I completely agree.
could be true but there is so much variability in the human race. I'd have to see some studies but they would be impossible to conduct without having a lot of errors in them.
well a super hot guy will make me very umm...excited with the mere sight of his super hot body, so I'd probably just ride him and he doesn't have to do all of the work on top haha TMI
I don't have much experience as I'm picky with guys.
It doesn't really matter because most of us are still shallow
But how many of your girls on here are going to give the "average" looking guy a chance? Seriously if a "hot" and the "average" guy were talking to you who are you most likely to go home with?
@An_iLL_Dispositi0n@xanga - I'm with you man. This is bogus.
Usually I like what you have to post about, but this has no statistical backing, all assumptions and opinions. I thoroughly disagree. This post also gives the assumption that all good looking men are full of themselves, and that's definitely not the case.
I do agree...
i have noticed too that hotter guys tend to be smaller in that region as well. :/ lol
In my experience, I've seen that's true. The guys I've been with who were hot stuff didn't really impress me, but all of the guys that made people question "You're with him?" were great lovers.
I believe that when you like someone and they like you back then sex will be enjoyable. If you do not like how he is in bed then it's because you don't like him!! DUh
@An_iLL_Dispositi0n@xanga - whoa relax and lay down your battle ax... I do have a friend who is the equivalent to the character of Samantha on SATC. She's had a lot of partners (whatever, I'm not judging) and for the past year or so, she's been dating guys who are average or below average looking. When people ask her why, that's her explanation so I was curious as to see who else agrees with her. That's all... this was never meant to bash guys hence me asking who's agreeing or disagreeing. No need to throw mud and start your battle cry.
not enough personal experience....
@Dustin_wind@xanga - I've obviously ruffled some of my male readers feathers. You're right, there's no statistical backing to this because it's not a fact. It's base on a person's behavior which is why I'm posting it up for debate.
On a separate note, sorry if you don't like this post and I hope the next one would be more your cup of tea.@An_iLL_Dispositi0n@xanga - Agreed. This is pretty poorly generalized
I don't really agree... I think people are the sexiest in bed when they're confident in their looks and know they're sexy. My boyfriend seems the most excited to be intimate with me when I'm feeling good about my body and I feel sexy.
As far as not being able to find female body parts, it just takes one lesson to teach guys how it goes.
It's not that hard to figure out.
I think overall though, the best combination is someone who looks sexy, who feels sexy, and who isn't selfish in bed.
@Utoppia -
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I didn't think there was anything aggressive about my post whatsoever, to be honest.
That said, despite the fact that you put do you agree or disagree at the bottom of the post, the rest of it does seem to be presented in a way that implies that it's some kind of fact. That's all I was contesting.
If you or any of your friends seriously notice a correlation like that, then personally I think that's just coincidence.
@need_more_thinspiration@xanga - if you are with a guy who has NO IDEA what they are doing then you should give them some instruction. whisper in their ear "i love it when you [enter dirty action here]" even if they've never done that. theyll try it if they are smart. if they are using their hand move their hand to where you want it. and move it the way you like it. get on top of them while having sex and do it YOUR WAY. take control and give instruction. it helps.
I've never slept with any guys, so I guess I wouldn't know.
This does sound sound pretty overgeneralized, though.