You've survived the holidays and made it into the new year together. What better way to begin a new decade than by the side of the one you love. Let's resolve to make 2010 the year in which we strengthen our relationships and love with 100% of our hearts.
So here are a few resolutions for couples:
1. Make time for romance -- Romance shouldn't be a hassle or a waste of time. You may feel like you're at that point in your relationship where there is no need to "woo" anymore, but that simply isn't true. Everyone likes to feel special and to feel loved from time to time. It can be something little or a grand gesture of sorts, but whatever it is, make sure it comes from the heart.
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Listen -- Self-explanatory. Just a reminder.
3. Do fun activities together -- As much as we all love snuggling and watching a movie (read: making out) a couple nights a week, it's fun to shake things up a bit. Cook together, go camping, play a board game, I don't care, but don't get stuck in a video game and movie-watching rut. It's not fun there after a couple months. Trust.
4. Spice it up in the sack -- 2010 is the year of adventure. Some may say: but our sex is already great! But I say: why not make it better? You never know until you try, right?
5. Say "I Love You" -- Because it never hurts to hear it at least once a day. It's just nice to know that somebody cares about you.
What are some resolutions you and your SO have made for the year 2010?
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Comments (12)
These are really are great points to listen to and keep in mine when entering 2010!
lol at that picture of spencer and heidi...
I like this; it's cute!
Excellent points!
I think we're gonna do more little things - like buying small gifts, writing love notes, etc.
haha, i love speidi.
to hold on, and to make a huge effort to communicate regardless of the new physical distance between us
we need to learn to not say everything that comes to mind when we are fighting. more me than him tho.
xo
Actually, one of my resolutions for my SO and me is to NOT spend as much time together as this past year... need to focus on my schoolings more >_____<
Haha. I likes this. Hope every couples can do this.
I guess my new year's resolution for us is to stop jumping into conclusion right away when i suspect something and to take good care of him. His resoultion he says is to be more serious about our relationship for our future
For me: since my BF and I always have these mini fights that are always right before bed, I think one thing we should work on should be talking about the problem when it comes up instead of stewing on it until the end of the day.
The problem is when we have talks when we're both really tired late at night, then it's definitely harder and longer and more tedious for us to express ourselves, and plus it's super frustrating. Take care of it earlier!
They aren't ever really big deal things. just little miscommunications. better to keep the issue small.
my boyfriend and i have resolved to be healthier and take better care of ourselves.=] its always good to have someone to eat healthy with or go to the gym with.