I remember reading
Aesop's Fable as a kid about
The Fox and the Grapes and can't help but think how true the moral of the story really is.
So someone made a comment about me being a lesbian in my
last post because I didn't share his views or "like" the nut hugging-moose knuckle, tight pant look. It just reminds me how bitter guys can get. Last week when I met up with some girl friends for dinner, some guy approached us at the bar while we were waiting for our table to be ready. He insisted on buying us a drink which we politely declined because we were already holding a drink in hand and we just wanted to be left alone. As my friends continued chatting, he just kept butting in and talking over us and asking us questions. Now it's starting to annoy us so my girl friend that was closest to him turns to him and said "Sorry, do you mind? I haven't seen my friends in a while and we just want some girl time to catch up." That was it. It wasn't rude. She didn't curse him out. We didn't giggle. We didn't even roll our eyes. He got up and left saying "bunch of F-ing dykes..."
At this point, we did start cursing him out.
This is what gets my blood boiling. So because a girl is not interested in you or like what you like, she must be a lesbian? Has it ever occur to you that maybe it's
YOU as an individual that we're not interested in and not all men in general? I'm curious...has anyone else encountered this type of comment/treatment before or is it just some idiot with a bad case of sour grapes?
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Oh, man. If you have to resort to homophobic slurs just because you've been spurned in the love department, you're not exactly a class act.
Ignore those assfaces. Maybe they'll slowly come to learn that they're not as great as they believe themselves to be because those are some serious delusions of grandeur right there.
I've never read Aesop's Fables.
I've never had that specific scenario, but I have had guys who won't go away.
This is kind of related, but I hate when guys ask me if me and my bffl [who's a girl] would ever engage in lesbian acts together, whether kissing or having sex. I just find it really annoying and disrespectful.
Perhaps he should watch "He's Just Not That Into You"
Aww, the boy can't get any, or the boy is too rude, so he subjects to name calling. How cute. I'll give him a chocolate chip cookie, if he does the moonwalk for us.
I'm pretty sure he was embarrassed and humiliated at being turned down in such a straightforward manner. Most guys hate it when girls get straight to the point; they see it as being bitchy. I'm sure he would have been less rude if she had flirted with him a bit by saying something like, "Look, hon, I know you're really trying to get our attention and we're flattered. Really, we are. But right now we're just having some good old fashioned girl time. You can understand that, right, big guy?"
But seriously, why do women have to sugarcoat rejection when guys can tell it like it is without repercussion? Pfft.
that's when you tell 'em, "you can walk on by."
@sexliesandcoffee@xanga - Hahaha. Someone on here hates "Hes Just Not That Into You". Be careful. :p
that's like when a guy goes "you're ugly anyways" to me when i don't feel like talking to their creeping asses on the streets. I'm like yeaa i'm ugly yet you were trying oh so hard to get my number. men sometimes can't take a loss they feel like they have to insult us so that they can feel better about being rejected. i know i'm not ugly and he knows it, but he wants me to believe that he thinks i am. pshh better luck with the next girl!
His ego was hurt, so he lashed out. Pathetic, but pretty typical. I bet he has a plethora of insults prepared for similar scenarios.
This relates to many situations. When someone hurts someone's feelings or "disrespects" them, some people as a defense mechanism resort to attacking that person as if everything is wrong with them and everything is their fault.
And men say we're the over-emotional ones . . . lmao.
Was it that SKOT guy? Cause he's just an complete douche.
@silverlocket_88@xanga - =P
@sexliesandcoffee@xanga - I think you mean "She's". He could actually use HJNTIY as an excuse.
@Coffee_Kaioken@xanga - Ops O_o
@silverlocket_88@xanga - LMAO.
Oh goodness. People are dumb.
What's funny is that you think this is only a guy thing to do. I turned down a girl and she resorted to saying the following "Yeah, ok asshole. Probably fucking gay anyways..." as she walked off.
@shoujo@xanga - Some guys and some girls sugarcoat. I let 'em down easy. Assholes and bitches are the ones who try to make you feel like scum.
I've had a few of these incidents. It wasn't pleasant and re-affirms my opinion of why we never started dating. So that's that.
It's self defense; the guy thinks he's so great that the only way a girl wouldn't like him is if she were a lesbian.
getting rejected happens to the best, no real shame in it... but there's a way to reject someone without embarassing them or being a bitch about it... this dude obviously didn't deserve any courtesy tho, he was being obnoxious... if a woman rejects me i got no problems as long as she's gracious about it, cuz for me to approach her to begin with should be taken as a compliment.
I've had a suitor call me a schizo cuz I didn't agree with his views.
Nice job, sir.
Needless to say I tortured him.
LEX TALIONIS baby.
Some people are just jerks.
Best thing to do is to just ignore those kind. They aren't worth the trouble
Your tits are sour anyway.
hahaha, i just love this title. so blunt. :)
That's a true story. I think people always get bitter and justify what they can't have. As long as the grapes aren't telling him he's a horrible person or anything else for not wanting what he can't have, that's great. Keep the apples and bananas away from me too.
You don't know the distances that people have gone to get me back for not liking them or being the illusion that they can torture. I trashed myself to prevent it from happening again. Happy now? I ain't got nothing to lose. Guys will do the weirdest things.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w3PX267adKs&feature=related