My boyfriend's friend is visiting him this weekend. Well, it's actually a rather convoluted story. The conversation went something like this:
BF: My friend W is going to be here this weekend. I haven't seen him in awhile, blah blah blah...
Me: That's fun, is he coming just to see you? Is he gonna make it with the snow?
BF: Well, he's going down to B Friday night because he's trying to sleep with this girl, then he'll be in F to visit his g-ma on Saturday, then he's gonna stop here on his way home and stay over Saturday night, and head back to C on Sunday.
Me: Umm...so he's driving like over 400 miles, in a predicted
blizzard, to have sex with this girl? How's he planning on making that work?
BF: Well, girls love it when a guy drives really far to see them. And their decent friends, she was pretty hot in high school, as I recall. He's pretty much guaranteed a blow job, at least.
Me: But, if he lives in C, is he planning on driving 400 miles quite often? Girls also love it when they come back again, more then just once.
BF: Just once. He's in the navy, and he'll be gone for awhile.
Me: Oh, okaaay. Well, for his sake, I hope he gets what he wants.
To him, this didn't seem the least bit odd. To me, this is the most bizarre thing ever. Obviously this girl means something to W if he wants to drive 400 miles for her specifically, however, he just wants to sleep with her, he doesn't want to even try for anything more then that. I sort of understand, since he's in the Navy and will be gone awhile, but if he cares about her at all, he wouldn't do that to her - unless she's willing.
I dunno, I guess I just wanted to see what some other people's thoughts on this topic were...
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may be there might be more, but he'll never tell you.
If the girl's OK with this, I don't see the problem. :\ There could be something more to this situation, but that's really up to the two to fix if they feel they need to.
Eh, I could understand him wanting to have sex with this girl because he's leaving for the Navy, but she's not his gf right? If she's just a friend, it seems somewhat obnoxious for him to expect a BJ just because he went through the trouble to drive 400 miles. She's not obligated to do anything and a guy shouldn't be upset if he doesn't get anything because he has a weird idea that it's a universal notion that he deserves one. But like Salvatruca said it's up to them, and it doesn't sound like you know too much about their relationship as a whole, so maybe there is something more there
if he just wanted sex he could find it elsewhere... he may be on a ship most of the time but ships stop at ports, and there are women around. it seems like he wanted to see her before he leaves for a really long time. he probably just talked like that with his friend.
also, i wouldn't blow a guy for driving 400 miles to see me. driving 400 mi to go down on me would be a different story. he isnt guaranteed a bj.. its not like he's this girl's boy friend, but she may or may not be easy, so you can't be sure.
Meh. I know of someone who hopped on a plane to meet a girl.
Crazy? A little. But there's a lot to be said for interest in a specific person.
Maybe it's an old flame, I have a bunch of guys who are in the military, even a close frined of mine did something a long the same line with me. It was lunch and a little making out and he lives in the same state but it was over 100 miles, but sometimes guys who are shipping out, speshly if it's their first time, will pull stuff like that just to strech a little, maybe he just wanted to reason to use some freedom, it may not have really been anything to do with sex.
wow that's a long way to travel for a one night thing she must be a little special - maybe he just wants to sleep with the "hot" it girl from high school (and that is already a special enough reason for a guy)
score 10 points for the navy.
isnt it known fact already that men do odddd things.
they do stupid shit just to do it sometimes. there is no rhyme or reason to any of it. H ejust wants to get his dick wet and if shes willing and he has the means to do so ...hes gonna do it.
guys dont think like women do. Things such as how long its gonna take him to get to her or how much gas hes wasting...nothing.
they think with their dick. and if 400 some miles = his penis being happy. then hell hes gonna do it.
I know guys that have driven down the state to get some sex..but it was from girlfriends. So I don't know. Good luck to him.
Maybe he's not attractive and just got out of boot camp?
Maybe he wants it to be more than just sex, but she's made it clear that it is just sex; ramping her up for a possible relationship through sex... Maybe he figures he might as well have sex with her since thats all she's offering. Not smart on his part, considering the blizzard like conditions and all. There are woman everywhere that want it more than men do, they just demand a certain caliber of men, where-as men arent so picky.
friends with benefits or fuck buddies... i think that is the only way a guys mind works. oh can i magine the disagreance now.
O_O. It really would suck if he didn't get any at all.
so what was the verdict? did he get some fun time?
sexncookiestook the words right out of my mouth. very well said.
Sounds like an ass.
@xtraspecial@xanga -
LOL. It made me laugh so much how he casually claimed "yeah, he's driving down to have sex with this girl, and then see his grandma..." hahaha
a guy i liked and his friend once drove an hour and a half to meet me and my roommate at our dorm at midnight, for this reason. they didn't get there till almost 2 in the morning. then they left when we woke up.
guys are crazy. doesn't it just seem easier to find booty in your own city?the navy always scores more than the army. proven fact.
I don't have a problem with the hookup, I just think it's ludicrous that he's going to waste all that gas to get either a bj or sex. What if he only gets a bj? He drove a billion miles for A BLOWJOB. Even if it's just for sex - that's a lot of effort for a one night stand. I think he has it backwards: you're supposed to drive 400 miles for a gf, and 5 minutes for a hook up.
It's crazy, but I'm okay with it.
Traveling 400 miles just to get the drawls? That's odd to me.
I laughed at the convo as well,as to how casual it sounded.
I think it's pretty crazy. I don't see how anyone can be so casual about sex under any circumstance..I guess if they're both fine with it, it's whatever they want. I just don't get it.
How far did Alexander travelf or his conquests?