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I got really drunk this weekend and accidentally kissed my sister's boyfriend. I've always had a little thing for him, but never would have done anything had I been sober. My sister doesn't know. I've been acting like everything's normal and so is he...but I still feel guilty. What should I do? What if it happens again? A. What if it happens again? If you want to maintain any kind of relationship with your sister, I suggest you make sure it doesn't happen again. You should never be so intoxicated that you're not in control of yourself. I will give you the benefit of the doubt in this instance, and assume that you were
that drunk. If you don't plan on telling your sister what happened, then stay away from her boyfriend and his lips.
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I know this isn't really any advice, but I'm so glad I don't have a sister around my age or a sister at all to pull this crap with me. The only reason they'd get away with it is because they're family because if they were a friend doing this crap, I'd drop them like a hot potato.
if your sister never speaks to you again, you'd deserve it.
and that's that.
My sisters used to pull stuff like this all the time. If Sister A's boyfriend would be waiting on her to come out of the bathroom to go on a date, Sister B would get all kinds of friendly with him and talk him into going on the date with HER instead. Then Sister A would do the same thing to her later on.
They laugh about it now, but I think I'd be pretty pissed xD
What if it happens again? Wow. Seriously?
Seems like you want it to happen again.
Hm. My best bet is to stay far away from your sister's bf sober or not.
Okay, let me throw in my two sense. Firstly all younger sisters at one point seem to like one of their older sisters boyfriend at some point in time. Therefore if you find that one you should make it a very HUGE effort to stay clear of him which leads me to the question.
WHY were you drinking near him in the first place. It doesn't seem like your sister was around since you kissed him so again why are you drinking with or near him!! That is setting yourself up for a bad bad "accident" Don't say you didn't think it would happen, that's an excuse that is used way too often. And are you seriously asking if it happens again! Are you kidding me, it's your SISTER! If I say any more.. It will only be bad because from the information given it doesn't look very good on your part.
Family is so so so much more important then some stupid guy. I don't want you to think that I am in any way yelling I just feel strongly on this subject because if it was my sister I would never place myself in a situation where that kind of behavior could happen. Remember what you would lose if you didn't change all this.
As for telling her, you need to. If he will cheat now with YOU, the YOUNGER sister then he will cheat with someone else. You don't want your sister hurt do you? She will forgive you one because you told her and two because your family. :]
I think it's great!
@Anonymous - Just what I was thinking when I read the title.
That was simply ... selfish and unthoughtful. ugh.
My sister asked out my girlfriend, in a text message, in front of me, while we were dating.
Thank god my girlfriend said no, I may have had a heart attack.i've never done anything stupid drunk, and i really don't buy intoxication as an excuse for shitty behavior.
admit it to her. NOW
Damn. I would get it over with and tell her what happened before she finds out from another source, and because 10 times more angry with you for keeping it secret.
And next time. Don't drink yourself stupid to the point where you can't control your urges. Thats what I think of this. ...
While this girl says she feels guilty, it's clear that she may do this again in the future. Perhaps she has some unresolved sibling rivalry issues.
I feel bad for your sister.
I really hate when people use alcohol as an excuse to do something terrible to a person they love. Alcohol lowers your inhibitions, it doesn't take away your morals. Meaning that if you kissed him while you were drunk, you always wanted to kiss him, you were just scared of rejection, your sister finding out, etc. but you weren't morally opposed to kissing your sisters boyfriend... and not being morally opposed to something like that just makes you disgusting, in my opinion.
set up a threesome
wowww you're such a dumbB for doing that to your sister, i mean shes BLOOD. You dont pull that kind of CRAP on her or anyone else for that matter. If she hates you for the rest of her life you SOOOO DESERVE IT...
jeesh...
this kind of situation SUCKS. my (lesbian) sister made out with the guy I had been chasing for years when they were both drunk. she needs to tell her sister, there's no excuse for keeping a secret like that.
It's your own damn fault for getting so drunk to even let this happen. "What if it happens again"? Um, that makes it sound like you enjoyed it and you want it to happen again. Geez. Just tell your sister the truth. She'll eventually find out anyway.
how the fuck do you "accidentally" kiss your sisters boyfriend?
no offense... but you are in DEEP fucking shit if your sister ever finds out about this! I know this stuff happens, and you were under the influence... but that doesn't make it right at all. I told my sister this morning that I had a dream about me and her boyfriend and she got jealous just from me having a dream of him! I cannot even imagine actually kissing her boyfriend, nor do I want to... it is her BOYFRIEND afterall. I respect her very much and would never do that to her. I feel sorry for your sister, she has to have a crappy sister like you who she can't even trust around her significant other... this is just so sad to me.
I find it funny when people say they accidentally did this or that. Puh-lease. No one is ever that wasted, they do have control, they just don't care...I would know because I've been extremely wasted myself and I was still able to stop myself.
lolz, run bitch run!
If u were my sister.....I would demand the truth and then u would probably have ur ass kicked!!
to be honest, a drunken mind speaks a sober heart. which means that unless YOU stop having a "thing" for her boyfriend, that "What if it happened again" probably will happen. don't use alcohol as an excuse. honestly, you need to tell your sister, and if she doesn't speak to you for it, then i don't blame her.