Tuesday, 22 December 2009
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Question of the Day
Can guys feel as much as girls do?
I was listening to this song and it talks about how crazy this guy is for the girl. I wonder if guys really can feel that way? Do they sometimes regret not asking you for your number? Or do they ever get nervous or excited when they're about to see you? Are they thinking about you or how they're going to say "hi" to you that day?
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I believe that when a guy truly falls in love, he will feel all sorts of emotions and more.
I will never understand the idea that dudes don't "feel" as much as girls. Sigh.
But, in answer, if they are human and are alive, chances are: yes.
we do... we just choose not to act the part
I think when a guy falls, he falls deep.
i think that when a guy is truly in love he feels that way now if only they showed it.
of course guys have feelings!! they love, they get nervous, they get scared, they get happy, they get giddy! maybe the express it differently sometimes, but that doesnt mean they dont feel.
@live_for_love@xanga - Took the words right out of my mouth! :)
im thinking more guys should be answering this instead of just more girls guessing?
Heck yes guys can have crazy emotions for girls. It's just that we're always scared of how we're going to act thus we constraint ourselves. I can't speak for everyone but when this happens to me, my brain goes into overdrive. "Should I say hi? Do I look like a dork right now? What if she thinks I'm a loser?" See, we are stuck wondering about questions like that so in turn, we miss all opportunities to say hi. Don't think we're not thinking of you just because we're not acknowledging you. We're just sissies =]
It kinda sucks when you feel something very strongly and you don't know how he feels ad the moment just passes, questions forgotten.
Thanks for asking this question.
I really wanted to know to.
definitely! Like someone else said, when a guy falls, he falls deep.
from what I've noticed, women are going through this whole miss independent era; if a guy hurts us, automatic response for a lot is finding someone else to treat us better, we fall in love again whatnot; guys deep in love hurt badly, find other women, but is not so quick to fall for the others...(just observations)
How do guys honestly feel about girls and their ... How are girls look?
Yea, I wonder if he has the same feeling as I do for him ...
Yeah, it can happen.
Hmm, have you been kept in a basement most of your life? Home schooled and not allowed outside? No, seriously. That's about the only way I can justify this post.
Do men feel as much as women? No, we're all completely heartless bastards determined to do nothing more than get into your pants so as to dive hips deep into your nether regions.
Does the story of Helen of Troy ring any bells? How about Romeo?
@mcmeister89@mancouch - Couldn't agree more!
yeah they do. they may not show it as much or dwell on it as much as girls do, but yeah they do.
http://xkcd.com/439/
^ LOVE that! it's my guy to a tea. after our second date he didn't call for five days (even though he was only home from school for a week!), and when i asked him about it later, he said it's cuz he was "very nervous", haha. soooo cute! <3 <3 <3 so yeah, i think they are better or worse at showing their feelings, but why should they feel less?
and that picture is beautifully awesome, btw. love it
I say men feel what women usually feel, but they play it cool :)
In Psychology we learned that it's scientifically proven that males and females have the same emotions/feelings. It's just that most guys grew up being told not to express their emotions and therefore they don't as much as girls. Which is so fucking retarded sometimes. If you fucking love me you better fucking tell me. That is so lame.. guys want to gripe about how girls always stereotype them by saying, "Oh he just wants in your pants". In my opinion, girls do this because most guys don't express their emotions effectively and therefore we are just going to assume worst-case-scenario so we don't seem naive. So there. Guys -- YOUR FAULT.
@xonyagestler@xanga - not when we actually feel it. like with the difference between a crush and a love. a guy will downplay a crush, but with love it isn't actually possible. ironicly crushes are found more attractive...
Men are just as human as women and just as subject to emotion. It's just that a lot of masculine cultures demand the suppression of the expression of emotion. And just like there are less emotional women, there are less emotional men too.
duh?
i think the same things exactly everyday these days..
In a word, yes.