Wednesday, 16 December 2009
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Confused and Feeling Trapped
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend close to 3 years and we moved in together a couple of months ago. It was a big mistake and I've recently been rethinking our relationship. I care about him, but I'm not sure I still love him. I know he loves me a lot, but he's really immature guy and he's not going to be at the maturity level that I want for another 10 years.This has been causing me plenty of stress. I want to take some time away from him but...where do I go? I don't want to spend the money to rent a hotel room and my old apt in my parents' place is cleared up so there's nothing there for me to sleep on.
As for right now, my parents are fixing the apartment so I am thinking about moving back once everything is cleaned up. But I feel like I am betraying him because he's currently unemployed. He was laid off and he doesn't have a lot of money in his bank account (due to immaturity).
I don't want to be the one who supports him while he sits at home, waiting for a glam job to knock on his doors. Or maybe I'm being over-worried?
Have you ever been in a situation like this? What would you suggest for a solution?
