Sorry, I Don't Swing That Way

Tuesday, 15 December 2009

Sorry, I Don't Swing That Way
Since I know and heard a lot of straight guys tend to dig lesbians, might it be the same with straight girls for gay guys?

One really stunning situation of which I oversaw was when this straight guy asked a lesbian if she wants to try it with him. The conversation went something like this:

Lesbian girl: I'm a lesbian.
Straight guy: Oh.
Straight guy: Did you wanna experiment?

I didn't get to catch the rest but that kind of conversation was pretty interesting.

I also know there's a lesbian in school that's being constantly chased by her high school friend whom is a straight guy and who already knows the fact that she is a lesbian. However, I will not disclose her name here due to privacy reasons.

So straight girls, or anybody, do you believe you yourself or straight girls, in general, dig for gay guys at all?

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No. It's not a turn on for me although i do have some good gay male friendships.
- 12/15/2009 12:09 PM
- Diva_Jyoti@xanga (message)
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it's come to my attention that gay men tend to dress better than straight men...not all do, and not all straight men are bad dressers...but gay men are nice to look at. ^_^
- 12/15/2009 12:09 PM
- zubes5806@xanga (message)
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They're not a turn on for me but some of them make really good friends.
- 12/15/2009 12:14 PM
- StargazingSuzie@xanga (message)
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Ugh. That snippet of conversation you quoted just makes me see red - how incredibly stupid and RUDE can you be? You learn someone's sexual orientation (i.e., not towards you) and immediately ask them to bang you? NEWS FLASH: lesbians don't exist to get dudes off.
That said, I find gay sex hot, but not in the "zomg I want to sleep with a gay dude" sort of way. And I'd never ask a gay man if he wanted to "experiment" with me.
- 12/15/2009 12:15 PM
- envisionedlight@aol.com
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Definitely not a turn on. Why chase after something if you really can't have it in the end? It's just stupid and pointless. I have a few friends that are gay, and I know that's all they'll every be. There just isn't the kind of attraction there that a girl feels towards a straight guy.
- 12/15/2009 12:17 PM
- Inaheartbeatx@xanga (message)
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I know a few girls who do chase gay guys, but none of the gay guys I know are at all attractive to me.
- 12/15/2009 12:25 PM
- AutumnShadowsQ@xanga (message)
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one of my friends had about 3 diff gay bfs/crushes throughout HS - they weren't "out" yet at the time, just overly flamboyant... lol... so i guess it was more of an accident, but still funny. she has a real straight bf, now tho.
- 12/15/2009 12:28 PM
- Insomnia_Pickles_XtraTomato@xanga (message)
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I wouldn't only because they aren't attracted to girls if they're gay.. just doesn't make sense to me
- 12/15/2009 12:30 PM
- vanishingx@xanga (message)
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If I find out a guy is gay (chances are you know already), it is an immediate turn off. I don't have anything against gay men but part of what attracts me to men in general is the they want me too.. gay men aren't into women, so obviously he wouldn't be into me. I'm not arrogant enough to think that I could turn a gay person straight like that idiot involved in that conversation.
- 12/15/2009 12:32 PM
- phan__tom@xanga (message)
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It's a turnon for some girls. Not for me, so much.
- 12/15/2009 12:34 PM
- Lovebipolar117@xanga (message)
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I think this is the unrealistic idea of being able to "change" another person.
- 12/15/2009 12:43 PM
- Tiger11007@xanga (message)
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Oh I get this all the time. When me and my lesbian friends are somewhere, and guys find that out, they always go, "I bet I can turn you all straight". And they usually ask for threesomes with my friends that are together.

But the other way around.. I think it sometimes might be. I love gay guys, but that's because I love how sweet/cute they usually are. But I wouldn't want anything going on with them.
- 12/15/2009 12:45 PM
- AbbeyDawnx@xanga (message)
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well see I have this problem where when I'm initially attracted to a guy, I automatically think he's gay, because I often have a crush on gay guys for a day or two. And I decided, yes, guy on guy gives me the exact same feeling girl on girl does for guys.
- 12/15/2009 12:46 PM
- chicken1672 (message)
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I'm not really very interested in men in the first place but in my experience I get along a lot better with gay guys.
Not to mention they tend to be sweet together, in my experience.
So do old people.
- 12/15/2009 1:08 PM
- untainted_love_for_her@xanga (message)
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Eh, in my opinion, most gay guys are actually pretty cute, it's fun flirting around with them since you and them both know that nothing's going to happen, but to have an actual "relationship"? No thank you =)
- 12/15/2009 1:10 PM
- anemonix@xanga (message)
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I know that gay fan fiction is the most common amongst straight females than any other demographic, but outside of that community, I have no idea.
- 12/15/2009 1:12 PM
- methodElevated@xanga (message)
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The best guys are gay.
- 12/15/2009 2:06 PM
- NoMoreThinSpos@xanga (message)
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I'm not attracted to gay men because most of them are vapid, designer loving, ohmagahd idiots who speak in a lisp. Oh baby, nothing gets me going more than a lisp.
- 12/15/2009 2:54 PM
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I got totally hot for this one gay guy I knew once.
- 12/15/2009 2:58 PM
- Shy___Away@xanga (message)
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There are so many handsome gay men out there, but they're too darn untouchable. (:
- 12/15/2009 3:34 PM
- BlehhItsTu@xanga (message)
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gay boys are always so hot *sighhhhh*
- 12/15/2009 3:45 PM
- AngelStarr@xanga (message)
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They definitely do. So fear not, bi boys, there are girls out there who won't constantly and insecurely question your sexuality!
- 12/15/2009 3:50 PM
- milkplus_synthemesc@xanga (message)
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I have a crush on Adam Lambert (please don't judge me..), but I'd never actually go for it because I understand that I'm not his cup of tea.
I just secretly think he's hot.
And now it's not a secret.
hah..
- 12/15/2009 4:46 PM
- TheRealMelanie@xanga (message)
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four words: edward culling. sparkle sparkle...

or the hard rock band 'versailles'... i know at least 2 straight girls that have crushes on the singers even though the band dresses up as women. and supposedly do homoerotic stuff on stage.http://www.ikikata.se/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/versailles.jpghttp://www.metal-archives.com/images/9/7/9/8/97986_photo.jpgmaybe not technically 'gay' but it is a sexual orientation deviation. and the girls are 'straight'.
i'm not sure about the dressing better... most 'gay' suits are as drab and boring as the normal black ones... but that is just my opinion. and the only reason the rest of gay guys may dress better is because they are literally in dresses which are way more interesting by default...
compare a floral print to... a flamingo dress... then compare what guys in respective situations would wear. and then think about what a 'gay' guy might wear in either of those situations. yup X) way more interesting and individual.
- 12/15/2009 4:55 PM
- lenybobsyouruncle@xanga (message)
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a lot of straight girls are into yaoi and gay fanfiction. should say something.
- 12/15/2009 5:45 PM
- veronika_grey@xanga (message)
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