Q.Where do I begin? There's a boy, I'm a girl. We're both going away to college. He's going to Georgia, I'm headin' over to Chicago. We've been seeing each other for more than a year now, but at this point, we're crazy about each other. Don't know if you can call it love, or if it's just infatuation, but either way it's going to be heart-wrenching when the day comes that we leave each other. I do not believe in Long Distance Relationships. I've always been biased and always believed that they were pointless, and I could never figure out why anyone would want to endure that kind of hardship just to stay with a person. However, he's been constantly asking me to have one with him when we go away. So, I've been confused as hell. First of all, I would have never planned on going to college with a boyfriend; not cause I plan on whoring it up, but I want to experience a whole new life without being held back. Second, I don't believe long distance relationships ever last. However, I am crazy about this guy, and anyone who's with someone right now would understand how hard it is to just break up with someone when everything is just right. I was just planning on separating the day we leave, but with each day getting closer and closer, the decision gets harder and harder. It's going to hurt like a bitch when we leave and separate, but wouldn't it hurt even more breaking up with someone 3289435982 miles away when it doesn't work out? I hate to be cynical, but I just don't like getting my hopes up for anything. So, any advice? Anyone ever been in a long distance relationship and have it actually work out? Or should I break it off once we leave?
