Q.
I'm going to make this really simple: My girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago and now basically refuses to talk to me. I'm desperate to get her back, but don't know how. I've tried to let her know how I feel through various methods (text messages, notes, calls),but nothing. What can I do to show her that I still love her and want her to come back to me? A. I think you've made your feelings obvious. Now the ball is in her court, so to speak. But considering that she broke up with you and is trying to cut of contact, I'd suggest you give her some space. She broke up with you for a reason, hopefully you know what it is. It's not likely that chasing after her this way will bring her back to you, it's probably just going to push her further away. Heartbreak is an awful feeling, but it passes. If you back off now, you'll get through it with some pride. Desperate ploys will only stir pity for you.
Miss Bianca
