Friday, 04 December 2009
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He's Calling Me His Girlfriend But We've Only Been on 4 Dates
Q. Believe it or not: I'm a 19 year old girl who has never dated before.
Recently, I started hanging out with my older brother's friend. He would pick me up from school and we would grab dinner together (I have night classes). I would see him a lot at my place since he and my bro are best buds. So it was pretty fun and nice to have free rides back home. Until one night...
All the guys had come over to my place to watch a movie and I sat beside him. Halfway through the movie, he suddenly takes my hand. I was like... WHAT?!?! But since the atmosphere seemed alright, I just let it pass. The next day we we're supposed to watch another movie together. When suddenly he asked me,"So did you tell anyone about us?" I was like, "US???" He said "Yeah." I said no, but apparently he told all his guy friends that I am now his girlfriend..after we hung out for like 4 days! And now he's always texting me and talking to me everyday.
Now here's the problem: It's not like I don't like him... I do. But I just want to continue with the casual dating thing. But he's already taking me to places and acting like a boyfriend.
What am I suppose to do? and I have a question for the guys: Is 4 dates and then asking a girl to be your girlfriend considered too fast?
