Wednesday, 25 November 2009
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I said "I'm a Virgin." He said "Mad!"
So I met him while he was working. We exchanged numbers and things started to hit off. We went to the beach and hooked up. Nothing serious. We talked and he asks me how far have I've been with a guy. I told him "I'm a virgin" but I've done pretty much everything else and he responded "MAD!"
What's mad? Being a virgin is mad? Is it really? I asked him what does he mean by that. He said it's just mad. So by this time, we were sitting in the car and he offers me sex. Yes, that's right, sex. I'm not that type of person who would just have sex with any random guy (well, not yet). I joked around, trying to make it less awkward for the both of us. Then things just started to move so quickly. His hands were moving softly up and down my legs and his kiss was just like heaven. By the time I even realized what we were doing, he was on top of me (clothes still on - and the clothes stayed on). With my legs wrapped around his body, nothing felt better. Honestly, it was a good night and I don't regret it.
Now, that was about two weeks ago. I never heard from him again. I don't contact him, and he hasn't contact me. I guess it was one of those no string attached hook ups. I don't care anymore. Nothing matters now.
Many of my guy friends say they dream of having sex with a virgin because it's rare and it feels good. Have you heard this statement before? What else do you have to add?
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I imagine theres some sort of pride in being the one who takes her virginity from her... a sort of, ha, 'I'm the one she chose,' or even a don juan role-playing kind of thing : 'I conquered her,' 'she'll never forget me as the one who...,' etc etc. Also because they know it's going to be especially emotional, you have nobody to compare them to as far as skill or length or anything like that. No matter how good they are, it's likely to be an intense night (or whatever) you won't forget.
I have never seen anyone use the word "mad:" in that kind of context before o_O must be either really new or really old cause I have no idea and I'm a teenagers o_o
"Mad" is probably equivalent to, "Sweet/Awesome" according to this post.
I don't know what MAD means but I understand the sentiment. I lost mine to my current boyfriend and it just felt right. A year and a half and we're still going strong and I'm glad it was with him. He waited til I felt that it was alright. So I don't know what to tell you but make sure its with someone you wont regret. My bf i plan to marry ;) his family keeps asking me when we are and I tell them not now. I'm still in college so I don't want to get married yet but... just make sure its what you really want and the person you really want to do that with. I did and I don't regret it at all.
So you just gave into him? Women are so weak.
@Ambrosius_Augustus_Rex@xanga - (clothes still on - and the clothes stayed on). With my legs wrapped
around his body, nothing felt better. Honestly, it was a good night and
I don't regret it.
read the whole thing next time, nitwit.
@Ambrosius_Augustus_Rex@xanga - lol wow did you even read the post
@Ambrosius_Augustus_Rex@xanga - I agree.
@Ambrosius_Augustus_Rex@xanga - @AphoticxIllusion@xanga -
uuuhhhmm....she didn't have sex with him! Did you read the whole thing? They just embraced eachother!
Wow, people can be so ignorant..
@phan__tom@xanga - Haha. I know that. I just say women are weak in general. I knew I would get some snarky reply.
So...what you're saying is that you dry humped with clothes on and that it was "great". Okay, so you had a good make out session and that's it? You didn't have sex with him = it's not a hook up and you didn't really do anything to regret anyway. I don't really get the point of this post. Having sex with a virgin may be good in the sense that she's never been "broken" before, lol...and I know that it is supposed to be special and all that, but at least for me, I know that if I were a guy I'd rather have sex with a girl that knew what she was doing instead. Virgin's first times are generally painful and you don't really know what to do...that doesn't excite me too much. Just sayin. Being a virgin is great, don't get me wrong, but I've always heard guys talk about sex with virgins as more of a notch on their bed post, not so much that it's better or whatever.
Some guys like my ex, do it and use women to rack up "points" so they can brag to their guy friends about how many v-cards they've swiped.
Yyyyyyyeah. Those are assholes. I'm suuure it's not too different from having sex with a girl who's lost it.
Never heard a reaction like that before. And meh, I was a virgin till I got married, so it's not really a big deal. Girls give it up way too easily.... glad you didn't actually give into him. He sounds like a real jerk if you're not talking 2 weeks later.
@AphoticxIllusion@xanga - Way to generalize half the world's population. Congratulations on being a douche bag.
@phan__tom@xanga - Arigato.
your guy friends sound like v-card chasers. most guys wanna have sex with a girl who knows what she is doing.
there are just the rare ones that "like" just having sex with virgins, because they are "clean" and no one has been there before.
xo
He wanted to try to get into your pants but didn't succeed. He gave up.
@AphoticxIllusion@xanga - You sound so stupid...
@mszstef@xanga - Doesn't matter to me. I think it's funny, so what I think counts. Regardless, if had been a girl who stated the same as I had, she would get the same treatment. I've seen it before. Women are naturally weak. It's in their nature.
I havent heard this before, but I am still a virgin as well. Everything but actual penis in vagina sex. Its just one of those choices. My boyfriend thinks its wonderful. He says that it will make it better for our first time. He's a virgin too.
Congrats to you. Girls really need to say no sometimes. I am totally against those feminists that want to prove they are strong by having sex with many men. You can be a feminist without having sex with everyone. You're just not that "precious" anymore after having experienced it too many times.
I'm so glad my boyfriend was clean too when gave me my first time because I admit.
s'all good.
@astrid - @phan__tom@xanga - As it happens I actually did read the post, but one can unzip the pants without taking them off, and at any rate I was taken a little aback by how easily manipulated this person was, although I suppose I shouldn't be surprised given how foolish people are these days.
@AphoticxIllusion@xanga - The average female never ceases to disappoint. Of course there are exceptions, but most of them are pretty small minded and easily led. Part of the problem is that they are so bound up with their emotions that they rely on them to make sense of reality rather than relying on reason. Even when they think they're in charge 9 times out of 10 they're just being manipulated.
@Ambrosius_Augustus_Rex@xanga - Exactly. I don't like weak women.