Wednesday, 25 November 2009
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Life Partner or Time Partner?
Woman should enjoy to be spoiled by her man sometimes.
But it doesn't mean that man should be like a dog.
Still... I remember a friend told me about a girl, Miss A.
She just broke up with her boyfriend last week.The next week she started to find a new man.
I thought she was hurt or upset. But what a quick recovery.
You sure that was love?
So I was wondering; girls change their boyfriends all the time.
Is that because they are really looking for love?
Or they just wanna change the partner?
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Comments (17)
If they're young, maybe they're trying to find what kind of qualities they want/need in a partner, or what suits them best and what kind of personality meshes best with their own.
You date to find someone you can spend your life with. Not every date/relationship is going to turn into a fairy tale.
i would say that we are looking for love. Its like we have a tendency to never give up until we find it.
People date for their own reasons. It's futile to generalize because it's all up to the individual's needs and desires.
Perhaps that person was moving on to someone else in order to get over the previous relationship. It's hard to say because everyone is different.
They are looking for love constantly and cannot bear the fact of being alone. It's kind of sad, actually. A friend of mine is always dating one dude, they break up, then she's off to another guy. She hates being alone.
looking for love, cause usually when they breakup with their partner, the love was missing or gone.
There are women who are constantly jumping from relationship to relationship. I have a friend who already had a guy in line while she was in the process of breaking up with someone. But you can't generalize, there are men who do the same thing. They don't want to be lonely.
she doesn't want to waste time and uses the guy as her arm candy fashion accessory like a pet chihuahua. harsh but that is probably why they move on so quickly. if she was in love with her previous boyfriend, she wouldn't get over him that fast or she uses a rebound guy to get over her ex-bf.
girls are easily swayed. i mean i'm sure they were hurt, but well their feelings were probably are not as strong as they thought it was
im a very complicated person, love doesn't come easy. i float from girl to girl hoping that one will be the ONE. After two weeks my mind is usually made up. i have clear but difficult standards.
I'm too scared to even get One boyfriend. Grr. ~_~
they just want to change the partner, as they need new things all the times, otherwise they'll be bored.
it depends on the person. just because she's dating someone new doesn't mean she's not upset about it. when "the love of my life" dumped me, a friend of mine asked me out like 2 days later - my options were to say yes, or stay at home and cry for hours like I had spent the last 2 days - obviously I said yes.
just because you date someone else doesn't mean you get over the last person right away - some people do, and some don't.
I think it depends. If you are just looking for a good time, then you want a partner to "kick it with". But if you are looking for a serious, commited relationship, then you want a life partner. I think this goes hand-in-hand with age, maturity level, and stage in life.
I think she just doesn't like being lonely.
So yes, I think she's looking for love - but settling for the pseudo-love