My boyfriend and I were talking last week, and he said something about his ridiculous obsession with Taylor Swift.
Aside: He went to high school with Taylor Swift. She was in 8th grade when he was a Senior, but he went to a Junior/Senior high school, which apparently includes 7th and 8th grade. He didn't know her personally, but he saw her all the time. One of his friends however, had more personal encounters with her during that time, and apparently she was a bitch, or so says his friend. I, and he, like to ignore her saying that, because I refuse to believe she's anything less then awesome.Now, back to the story: I told him that's why he had to have a list. The list of the 5 celebrities he could get away with sleeping with, and I couldn't get mad, because they are on the list. Taylor Swift, of course, is first on his list.
I haven't thought too in depth about who would be on my list, but we were watching a movie the other night, while I was visiting, and Ryan Gosling was in it. He was a teacher, and my boyfriend asked if I would want him as my teacher, and I responded, "Heck no, then I couldn't make out with him." - "You want to do more then make out with him, don't you. He'd be on your list, wouldn't he?" - "Not necessarily..." He then started listing actors, asking who
would be on my list, or at least, if I would consider putting them on my list.
Some people get horribly offended by the whole list idea, but I think it's just fun. I mean, what are the chances of one of us actually meeting a celebrity on our list, and let's say we did. What are the chances that said celebrity would actually want to sleep with us? I can understand where/why people get upset. It's mentioning and saying it would be okay for your significant other to cheat, essentially. I think though, as long as the guidelines are clear, that
this is why we have a list, that
you can sleep with these people, and only these people, there shouldn't be a problem. Again, though, I say that as if it's a real possibility.
Do you and your significant other have
a list? Do you take it seriously, or is it just for fun, and a topic of conversation?
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Haven't ever made a list and have no intent to, but I guess I don't really see the harm.
haha that sounds like something that would be an interesting 'activity'... of course, as you said, the chance of either of you actually meeting one of the celebrities and also having the opportunity for sexual encounters is VERY slim
No...no list. A guy from my husband's work and his wife have one and asked us if we had one....we both just sort of looked at each other before my husband said "Why would I want to sleep with anyone but my wife....she's perfect!" (awwww moment) but, him and I both feel that even if the list is just celebrities, we are married and should not be thinking of anyone but each other that way. But it does not really offend me. Coincidentally though, the couple who told us about their list is now divorced....
My recent girlfriend and I have gone over this.
I can't really remember hers exactly, but it included Hugh Jackman, Christian Bale, young Antonio Banderas and some others.
Mine is probably Gabrielle Union, Marisa Miller, Zooey Deschenel... yeah I dunno, it changes.
Sidenote: I don't find Taylor Swift attractive. The only pictures she looks good in are obnoxiously photoshopped.
no list here but anyone that knows me knows that edward norton is on said "list".
I don't have a list like this, and I also wouldn't take the idea seriously.
This was on the TV show Friends.
No, but I'm aware of my ex obsession of Kristen Stewart.
@mcmeister89@mancouch - i agree, i don't think she's very attractive.
@mcmeister89@mancouch - I don't think she's attractive, either.
My boyfriend and I have joked about it but to be honest I would be perfectly fine with him living out some of those fantasies if he had the chance. It's fairly unlikely that most of us will get that chance, and life is short, so if it comes- take it. It's not like he would run away with them anyways.
Wow she's a bitch? would have never guessed that one...
No list. Don't need one.
My boyfriend has Avril Lavigne, Kate Beckinsale, and this pornstar we always see at Starbucks on his list, I think.
I think for me, I'd go with Avril Lavigne (goddamn, her nose! It's so hot!), Zooey Deschanel, and that one guy from that one movie.....
if me & a significant other had a list, it'd be a joke. those things only cause problems if they are taken too seriously.
All of the people on my ''list'' are female celebrities. Taylor Swift is one of them.
Yea, my boyfriend and I have a list of people who we can talk about like that (not too much) and the other won't get mad.
i mean it's not like it's REAL. you know. it's just fun and jokes
lol reminds me of friends and entourage. you never know.. haha
hugh jackman.
My SO and I both only have one and it's the same one. Dani Filth. And my fiance is straight. lmao
Of course, this is just a joke between us.
Meh. Personally I'm not into many celebrities. I probably couldn't think of 5 people.
never made a list. id probably get perty upset im not going to lie. however im sure my boy would be a bit upset too so we just dont bring stuff up that we knows ganna make each other uncomfortable! fine by us. just means we have more to work on than othereople who ARENT jealous. lol
I've never really been attracted to celebrities, they're not real heh.
even though you will probably never meet these people, it's still basically saying that it's okay for your boyfriend to lust after other people.. sounds like a great relationship.