Monday, 23 November 2009
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"Stop Tweeting About My Sex Life!"
Somebody's psycho ex has been posting about my sex life on her facebook, twitter, and blogs...but the thing is, what she has to post about my sex life is false info...she writes about me being a whore (although she's the one to be talking), and that I'm not good at it (like she would know).
She writes: "it's not the ppl I know. It's the ppl who f*ck my exes that like to start shit with me after my ex tells me how bad it was!"The year I messed around with her ex was the year I first started actually even messing around with anyone at all, so of course I didn't have experience...And I regret ever messing around with her ex because I didn't know he was still stringing her pathetically along on the side. He was single, but still misleading her to believe that they would get back together...it was too late when I found out he had a person like that in his life.I have tried to ignore it in the past because she's just pathetic in trying to get my attention, but what do you do when she has been posting about my sex life and misleading people for almost 3 years now?I was bored one day and googled my name and that's how I found she was talking about my sex life on her twitter, still to this day, no matter how long it's been since she's seen me...I haven't seen her in like 6 months and she's still posting about my personal life.Not only does she post too much info about my sex life which I think is none of her business, but she posts about everybody's sex lives, including herself. Have any of you had to deal with someone delusional like this, if so, did it ever get resolved or did you just end up having to try to ignore it with all your might?I've tried e-mailing her mom letting her know about her daughter's harassment toward me over something that happened 3 years ago since she didn't listen to me when I told her myself, but that didn't work either and it's still continuing.Just wondering if any of you had any bad experiences like this and how have you coped with it? This is stressing me out at how manipulative she is. No one decent really listens to her gossip, but I am still tired of her talking about things that have nothing to do with her.
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Twitter=Gay.
If it's cold outside, go stand outside. And think about how cold it is. And it will be cold as shit. Or, you can not do all of that and move on with your life.
First comment bitches. ShimmerBodyCream you know what this means. It means you owe me sex.
OMG hell yeah I had something like that happen to me. I was telling a friend about this girl who harassed me all summer by calling me from blocked ID at least three times a week, and she says, ohhh! So YOU'RE the girl she always talks about! And this was almost two years later. So basically, I would just say there is nothing you can do but to not read her garbage anymore. Eventually she will get bored. And the more attention you feed to her about what she is doing, the more she will do it. Just don't read it and move on in your own mind. I'm sorry to say that's how it is... but usually after enough time has passed she can get over it. Just keep it out of your own life.
Wait, sex for writing first in an entry?
Okay, don't care about her. Just tell your friends that it's not true and move on.
I remember when my ex from 3 years ago went off to college and she broke it off. She was experimenting and everything and there was one guy that she shouldn't have messed around with (to put it shortly, that guy was cheating on her AND his girlfriend in another state). What happened later was he chose his girlfriend over her even though he told her he was going to choose her. He tend sent me a message telling what a whore my ex was and that she slept with this many guys and a whole bunch of lies. I know it wasn't true because my ex and I were still talking and she was open about her experiences with me. Eventually, I sent him a long message and the nice version of how I responded was that I called him out on cheating on two girls, that he was beyond scum of the Earth that I walked on, and that he deserved to be alone. A few days later, my ex called me and asked me what I did. I was confused and she told me that that guy called her, crying over the phone from the message that I sent him.
@schallerbrandon@xanga - lol nice way of putting it.
who TF cares? move on with your life...
LOL. Do not tell her mum because her mum will stand on her daughter's side. Mothers doesn't listen! Just ignore that bitch and move on. :)
Just ignore that bitch and move on. Or Report her to twitter or something for harassment.
xo
1) She needs to let it go.
2) Clearly, she can't let it go. So you should just not let it get to you because anyone who reads that probably doesn't care about what she's posting and probably thinks it's trashy that she uses twitter to talk about who is doing who and when and with what.
Just ignore her. She's obviously held up on it if she keeps blogging/tweeting about it.
You can report her if it bothers you a lot. Maybe they'll disable her for awhile, but that might only start things up between you two.
There's a really easy remedy to this sort of thing. It's called "abstinence"...
see if you went to the cops for harrasement they might do something to her, but then they'd just say to let it go. If I were you I'd send her a message thanking her for the publicity...I mean, she's wasting time on you...sorta nice lol. But seriously, send her a message and say thankyou...comment on how good her ex was and you will have her feeling FURIOUS...and knowing you don't give a damn.
Thank her for the publicity and move on. The less attention you give her, the better off you'll be. You're friends should know you a lot better than that and if they don't .. they weren't your friends to begin with.
let haters hate. she clearly wants sth u have. i think she's just making a fool of herself
@JandJinJapan@xanga - This happened in 2007...she's been talkin' shit about it ever since. I haven't been with anyone in a long, long, long time. If it's one thing I regret, I regret ever having messed around with that dude, otherwise I would virtually no drama in my life. That's one thing I would definitely take back in my life, and hopefully it wouldn't change anything else in my life, but I know I can't take it back.
Not only does she tweet/status about how I need to get a life, but she's been giving me empty threats for the past 2 1/2 years talkin' so tough, thinking she's such hot stuff, yet she hasn't laid a hand on me.
All she could do when she saw me in person whenever I randomly go out is gossip to everyone how much of a slut I am, or yell out slut to my back.
I told her how pathetic she was that she's funny in saying I need to get a life for e-mailing her, but she's been threatening me for years and yet, hasn't done anything.
Her ex was horrible, and yet he had the nerve to string her along and say that I was horrible. I'm laughing at this chick because she keeps telling everyone how bad I am only based off of one experience she thinks she knows what it's all about.
I also told her how I didn't whore myself out at an early age like she did, but it's pathetic that she's still threatening to beat me up on her statuses. Not only has she never laid a hand on me, but she tweeted with one of her ignorant friends and is asking him to beat me up, lmao, she can't even do her dirty work herself she's all talk and still keeps threatening me, not sure what to do about that, no matter how long I've ignored her.
@The OP - Parts of me wish that she would punch me first if she ever sees me again so I can get her for harassing me all these years with just talk and can fnally put her psycho self in jail, but all she can do when she sees me in person is whisper to everyone how I'm such a slut, sigh.
The OP - Best thing to do from this point? Walk away. Just walk away. Let them say whatever they want, do whatever they like. Apparently, they are feeding themselves off of this, andthe more you give into it, the more ammo they have and use. Some people do this because of failings and glaring ones at that in their lives, and the thing they think they can do to raise themselves up is snipe at someone who's made a similar (albeit lesser) mistake. The mnute either one lays a hand on you, then its on, but if they never do, just step: Just walk away. You'll be doing yourself a favor in the end.
To whomever picked that photo up there - Hey I love Audaciaray! To help put things in perspective; she is a nude model, indy adult film producer, sex-worker-activist, and fairly popular blogger for like 10 years now(wakingvixen.com)... so this twitter screen grab is COMPLETELY within its correct context. Plus, she's a sweetheart. I was in her Spread Magazine launch gallery show back in 2006 or so. Im sure thats all irrelevant, but you put her twitter on blast so I had to speak up. Im sure she'd think it was funny..but im just giving her an unnecessary shoutout.
Secondly.... yes, that shit is very inappropriate.They are obviously jealous and getting a kick out of being a total unprovoked lump of shit at someone else's expense. I've had this happen to me but not on twitter... all high school bullshit. I think I just ignored it(mainly because this person when to a different high school than me) and it just stopped.. but if this person is using your WHOLE NAME you might want to seek out legal help. One of the first things potential employers do when they get an applicant is google your name... and that cound mess with your reputation, your career AND your money.
Dunno what to tell you, but taking this laying down isnt an option if her psycho behavior isnt looking like its going to stop.
If she is posting crap about you and other people and even details of her own sex life, then I'd just take it with a grain of salt and blow it off. It sounds like no one would really take her seriously anyway.
How old is this girl?...I'm hoping she's only like 16 or something, why would an adult hold on to a grudge like that for so long otherwise? Girls a bitches, lol.
@LauraG0929@xanga - She's 23...sad isn't it?  And she doesn't care how childish she acts, that's why she still does what she does. I'm a year older than her and 23 also (but she's a lot bigger and bitchier than I'll ever be), so I've tried to ignore this for a while. I even forgot about her at one point, but then of course I'm bored one day and google my name only to find her still talkin' shit about things that happened eons ago.  She talks about how I and other people dwell in the past, but she's really ignorant to her own self.
This all started when she was about 21, also. I've never had to deal with shit like this even in high school. And even when I did have drama in high school, I was able to resolve it later on...but this chick doesn't seem like she wants to let up no matter how long it's been. She thinks talkin' tough on her statuses is the hot thing to do...I told her how talking tough but not ever doing anything about it is so 8th grade, but she doesn't care that she acts like a child.
She thinks being a bitch to people means she's tough shit, but in my mind...the bitchier the person, the weaker they are. It's funny that everything she has ever said about me or someone else actually describes herself. Whenever I describe my situation with her to people, they all think she's trash...but she tweets about other people being trash...and that's funny to me.
She's so ignorant it's a waste of time, but I'm just tired of the empty threats. =/
I don't ever write about her on my statuses, at least on my facebook anyway. I may talk about her on my twitter, but it's not about anything personal like who did who like she does on hers. I wrote stuff about her after she wrote stuff about me (childish I know) but I gave her the link to my twitter and told her I got nothing to hide since she hid her tweets like the coward she is when she found out I stumbled upon her tweets.
But I won't contact her anymore though. I even gave her the link to the datingish post talking about "Don't be a crazy person" hopefully she read it, lol.
don't think anything of it. stupid girl is still hung up over something in the past. let it still bother her and not you.
Anyone willing to keep stirring the pot after 3 years is obviously not someone you can reason with. I have to agree with everyone else -- let it go. When she says enough bogus things, her credibility will be shot and no one will believe her anyway.
I would ignore it bc I'm not gonna stoop down to her level and let her get to me. She's the one who needs a life and get a move on. The more you act like you don't care and hear her, the more she's going to get tired of playing with her own game.
report to facebook if there's enough evidence they will shut her account off.