Saturday, 21 November 2009
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I Argue With My Girlfriend Constantly
Q. My girlfriend and I fight all of the time and we've only been going out 2 months. I'm truly happy with her... but I get so mad with her and just break up. We break up almost once a week. I hate her best friend and she hates me. Help me please.
A. I'm sorry but this seems childish. If you are truly happy then you wouldn't be fighting "all of the time." If you are truly happy, you don't just break up every time you have a disagreement. Breaking up every week is not healthy, especially if you've only been dating two months. I think you two should take a break and work through your issues. Perhaps you should get to know each other better before deciding whether you should be together.
As far as the situation with the best friend: it's important to remember that you're not in a relationship with the best friend, but you should at least been cordial. Hate is a really strong word to use for someone your girlfriend likes very much. For all of your sakes, I'd suggest making amends with the best friend. If you continue to date this girl, you will probably be in many situations with this friend. Don't let your time together be miserable.
