Today's drama got me thinking...
What do I consider acceptable in terms of sexual fantasies and activities?There is such a range of subjects to choose from in terms of what turns people on. Some people enjoy only regular missionary sex. Some people enjoy dressing up, some enjoy bondage, some enjoy incorporating food, some enjoy incorporating more than one person. Some people enjoy more socially "unacceptable" things like involving urine, etc.
I suppose for me, I'm not one to judge what goes on behind closed doors in other people's lives, unless it involves one of the following three things:
- non-consensual sex
- unwanted physical, mental, or emotional pain
- anything involving animals, children (or any person unable to defend themselves or make an educated decision such as those with mental disabilities)
For myself, I believe that as long is everyone involved is consenting, comfortable, and participating of their own free will, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.
How about you? What do you consider sexually acceptable?
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I agree, people can do whatever floats their boats as long as it doesn't harm other people.
i agree. there has been so much drama over nothing. I totally agree
Very diplomatic and fair view...
that datingish pic with the guy wearing a thong is funny than a turn on. as long as they don't disturb me, I don't care what other people do.
I agree.
ditto.
I think the only "acceptable sex" is married sex, but you're right, people have the right to do whatever they want to do, assuming no one's rights are being violated.
I agree with you 100%!
Ugh, that guy is wearing a thong. I don't care how hot a guy is, thongs are a no go! Haha...
But anyway...I totally agree with your standpoint. If no one else is getting hurt, do whatever you gotta do.
I think its all about consent. There are things I personally wouldn't do, but I don't think less of people for their choices. I think if both parties agree to everything that is going on, it should be okay.
Oh boy, I think you might be a bit too reasonable for Xanga.
Missionary sex sounds like an oxymoron. Hahaha.
This post was such a buzz kill. I thought it was going to be about sex positions and really is about rape and molestation. Way to bring my mood down.
I agree with this post. As long as nobody is harmed and there is consent and children are not involved....its all good! Do whatever you damn well please. People take sex way too seriously...you gotta have some fun once in awhile. :)
the last day or so has been so unnecessarily dramatic, so thanks for the sensible thoughts.
@Meowmeowkimmaee@xanga - How is that an oxymoron?
@MiaJoyTheWriter@xanga - When I think of missionary, I think of the religion, and then, I think of abstinence.
@forkss@xanga - lol, sorry for the false advertising :P
Besides what you mentioned as the bad things that should never go down, I think everything else is completely sexually acceptable. As long as they are things they don't involve me (what I don't like sexually, anyways)... then fine. You can do it, just as long as it is behind closed doors, you don't subject people to it who aren't interested, and as long some things are kept underground where they belong LOL.
It's not my business to judge.
@Meowmeowkimmaee@xanga - Hey, you know why they call it missionary right? Because when the missionaries would have sex, that was the ONLY position ever allowed.
@LoveYouToDeath16@xanga - Oh I didn't know that. I don't know what that position is, actually. I don't want to know! Haha.
@Meowmeowkimmaee@xanga - Oh you don't know what the position is!!!?! It's when a woman lays flat on her back, and then the man climbs on top of her in the same position except on his stomach. I'm sure you know what I'm talking about!
Agree. It's all about consent. As long as it doesn't violate other's right, people can do whatever they want.Â
I basically agree with the OP.
Whatever you and your partner like is acceptable sex.