Saturday, 14 November 2009
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Ask Me Anything
Hello. My name is Blue Skye. And I took the liberty of moving over to datingish for my Ask Me Anything segments. Ever since I came onto Xanga, I have watched and saw that there are three times more women blogging about sex and relationships, then there are men. And judging by the reputation we seem to have, I'm surprised that we don't. (There's me, PeaceSeeker, and roxicsunderground.) Because of this, I wrote a blog named "Male Sex Blogging". After writing different blogs such as male's way of trying to curve being horny, this inspired me to go on and ask Xanga or those all around if they had a question about sex and relationships that they want answered from a man's point of view.
So, what I want to ask from you is this: is there any relationship or sex questions that you want to ask a man? If there is any question you have, you can either send me a message with it, or answer through comments. The questions will be answered one at a time on weekdays.
But if the question is personal or irrelevant, the answer will be answered through messaging, or if this reaches an ish site, it will be answered via comment response.
So, sound off: What is a question about sex and relationships have you always wanted to ask a man?
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- About Me: Ask Me Anything is a site created by Blue Skye for anyone that wants to know about love and sex from the point of view of a male. This place can also be used to give advice, as well. :-)
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theres really none. my bf and i are open about everything. i ask him whatever i wonder. haha.
Do men think it is easier to 'pick up' someone online?
What is sexier in bed- her having control or you having control?
@MsKittyCatty@xanga - @hundredsongsinhundreddays@xanga - I'll let you know when I or Gerald answered your question during the segment.
is it the most savoring part on men's during the intercourse is him doing the cunninglingus or the being the woman on top? :-p
Anecdotally, do you think men are less likely than women to form attachments to long-term hookup buddies? If so, how would you say this is shaped culturally (or not)?
do actions speak louder than words? when acts like he likes you, but denies it verbally, what does that mean?
Do you believe you can really change who you are for someone else?
How do I get a guy to like me but not be interested in having sex with me? How do I get a guy to not be interested in sex at all? lol..
@aleigh01@xanga - I have something to say to that quote. You know what? I'll anwer yoursfor Tuesday's post.
A few of my guy friends were telling me that the girl's first time hurts for the guy if the girl is really tight. I honestly didn't believe them. Is this true?
Cool I see some interesting questions popping up. Good luck with this man.
How do you approach your lover with a fetish without freaking him out?
my question is on a more individual-based, personal note, but I'll post on here anyway.
1. I have an ex who said he loved me one day and the next he didn't. He even told his ex gf that he didn't love me because he thought I was stupid, then lied about it. Why would a man stay in a relationship for months after admitting to not loving a person? And why do men often feel the need to lie about what they had said and done, especially when it comes to their ex girlfriends?
2. My ex sometimes thought he treated me pretty well during the times he felt like he was in love with me, but I always compared it in my head to how he treated his ex when they were dating. He did a lot more for her, especially in the way of gifts and fidelity. Do men actually try less and less for each new girlfriend? Or was I being overly too critical... even though he clearly was trying less with me. I got my christmas gift weeks late and he never once celebrated valentines day with me or buy me a birthday gift. I spoiled him silly hoping he would get the hint. As a man, if you were spoiled in a relationship with gifts and home cooked meals, would you get the hint and possibly reciprocate?
3. I'm trying to date again... but I'm already having issues with this new guy. He wants sex, but I'm celibate. And while I am celibate, I still think foreplay can be fun if you're comfortable with a person you have a good connection with over some time. I'm feeling ready to take it up a level, but because I've sworn myself to celibacy, this new guy won't do anything but kiss. Neither of us are getting our desires/needs/wants/whatever met. Why is it that guys put so much emphasis on having sex in a relationship and think it is absolutely NECESSARY? why won't some guys take it to the next level without the promise of going "all the way"? is it time for me to cut my losses and walk away?
@pouttwistsing@xanga - Do you want this to be anonymous, when I answer it on the blog? Or are you okay with me using your username? Plus since you asked me more than one I have to split it into a trilogy.
@mynameisblueskye@xanga - whatever you see fit. I'm just looking for answers to a lot of questions that I have. and not a lot of people I know have access to my xanga, so I feel virtually anonymous already, whether or not you actually use my username. feel free to use my name if it's important to the blog. (:
Would you consider online cheating to have the same meaning, and in the end, same consquence, as cheating in reality?..I know too many male friends who think cheating online as harmless (even if they are having webcam sex, flirting often with other women while in relationships)....what is your take?
Also,
I know the concept of the wingman still exists...how do we, as females,
know to decipher between the wingman and the real thing in the moment? ...now, I'm not saying by the next week.... :) because the guy will already have shown signs by then that he is not interested..but are there telltales signs while flirting with him, in the moment, that you know it's just for fun?
This explains the problems between men and women. Women ask for advice more.
advice is a problem? the poster asked for women to ask questions on men... :) i don't see asking for advice to be wrong..it clarifies misconceptions, errors, and wrong judgement...
@ItsNona@xanga - The point of the exercise is what women (or anyone) wonder, from the point of view of a man.