Monday, 09 November 2009
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Women Who Are Happy All The Time
When I was in middle school, there was this girl who no matter what happened, she tried her hardest to stay under pressure she was happy all the time. Perhaps, it had to do with the fact that she was Christian, but she seemed like the type of person I would love. The ones who are happy all the time are the type of women I thought I needed. I wanted nothing more than to be as happy as they are, and I guess that is the reason I had such a crush.
Women who are happy or positive seem to catch men plenty of time. Women who seem calm all the time are just magnetic, because in a crazy world like this, you wonder how she has so much patience. You also wonder if it is all a cover-up. Look at women like Natasha Bedingfield and AlterEgo909. Even when she deals with a troll, she is under pressure and shakes it off. And Natasha? She just seems like the type to live life without any negativity. You even hear it in her songs.
Funny enough, the correlation between these women are that some of them are good Christian women, and some of them just figure its time to smart smiling. Charitable, helpful, sympathetic, inspiring, always looking from a better angle than everyone else, etc. These girls seem like the type who loved life, loved nature, loved people. We men can be the most flawed human beings, so we figured we could use a woman like that. They inspire us to be better just for them. Face it. They are inspirational to most.
But men, why would you say happy women are so magnetic to you? Women, what do you think about the attention you get from giving such a positive aura?
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I think it's a great thing to see everything in a positive light, but I also think it can be unhealthy to never show negative emotions. Sadness and anger are a part of life and we need to express those things every now and again.
I think women (and men) who have happy souls in general though are more magnetic because you know that they are easy going people. They aren't going to let the little things interrupt their happiness.
Thats craziness maaaan, its easy to be happy all the time, at least i am. Thus a little stress does me good or else i'd always have my head in the clouds O_O ask anyone who knows me. Just listen to the song by BJ thomas "raindrops keep falling on my head" and you'll understand.
I think it's good to live life positively, overall. Although I do not. But we do need to experience negativity in our lifes, sometimes. I do not like people who are happy all the time, but I do not like people who are sad all the time. I like a good in-between. And no one is happy all the time, most people just cover up their sadness with smiles.
No one is happy all of the time. Period. But in saying that I will also say that you can have a positive outlook on life and you will automatically be much more laid back and happier in general. You can have a life full of joy and come across as genuinely being happy all of the time...and when bad things happen, let those situations make you a stronger and a better person in the long run.
You don't need to be Christian in order to be happy, or happy all of the time. =/ I dislike the correlation.
I have a female friend who's like this, and she's constantly attracting guys. However, she does feel anger and pain just like everyone else. She just hides it better than most women. Meanwhile, I'm happy, but not all the time. I'm down to earth and have a realistic attitude about life. When I'm upset or hurt, you'll know. When I'm happy, you'll know too, lol.
Women that appear happy and carefree do experience anger and frustration, but they don't express it. I think a lot of guys like being with someone that is happy all the time b/c they aren't as emotional as most women.
@haloed@xanga - Wat I was trying to say is the correlation of the happy women that I have met said they were Christian women. I'm aware you don't need to be one in order to be happy.
"Misery loves company [but happiness gives company]". Well, for me, it isn't so much as being happy all the time as having a sense of calm/peace (which I suppose does lend itself to some joy sometimes) amidst the troubles. That allows me to continue reaching out and helping others if need be despite my own times of trouble.
Everyone wants to be around happy people! Who wants to hear complaining and negativity all the time?
The attention I've gotten from being "happy all the time" has been mixed. Usually people like it (my husband loves it!) but some people have told me it's not possible that my life is so wonderful that I'm so happy. But my situation or circumstances have been more of an addition as to why I feel so happy. I think the fact that I'm a Christian and I believe in God and His power to save my soul is why I am happy. That's something I will always have, no matter what happens. :)
Smiling and laughing is contagious.
whats normal? If a person can center themselves on the happy side, good for them. Its a good trick if you can pull it off and lets face it, guys do like it. duh. men are more stable and like a fem that reflexs that. so if she is cheery doing it so much the better. Of course the converse can be true too. a group of chicks like a guy who can keep up with the prevailing lines of crap going around too.
I think women who are happy in life are happy with themselves and thats the most important thing. When you seek to be with someone, its always a good thing when you aren't filling a void in their life just so they can be satisfied, rather, you're making their life better than it already was.
I like being happy-- and being happy with myself is something I practice everyday and it just gets that much easier. I do find that more guys hit on me when I'm happy with who I am and I have better things to think about than chasing boys.
Happy people always attract positive things.
@Meowmeowkimmaee@xanga - i agree
People have told me that I have the patience of a saint and am "too nice". I try really hard to be positive in life, but it's for my own mental health and not to attract attention.
I'm generally a very serene and happy person, but my boyfriend really notices when I get depressed or am experiencing negative affect, and tends to forget about the fact that I'm laid back and happy-go-lucky most days. Then he claims I'm "depressed all the time". lol
I think you attract into your life what you exude.
I try to stay happy but it's been getting harder.
It's not the attention---it's about spreading that positive energy to one person and hoping that they will do they same to another. Beautiful post.
As long as they aren't as chipper as Racheal Ray or something. That would weird me out.
No one is happy ALL the time. But I look at it this way: If I go to a bar and I'm laughing, dancing, shooting pool and being friendly to everyone, the chances that someone will come over to hang out with or hit on me are insanely higher than if I sit in a booth in the back corner being mopey. No one is going to go out of their way to hang with a downer - but if you are capable of being easy going and having a good time, you're much more likely to find someone who will love and support you when you're negative.
my man gets angry alot and has no patience and he is arrogant and loud and quick to yell or get loud/smart etc. so he dont like me jolly all the time or smilling all the time he be like stop being so fuckin jolly.....sooo i feel you on the post but it isnt for everybody i guess
I wish i was more positive and happy, for the fact that i have been mostly negative and the type of people it has attracted to my life was well, less desirable. Being positive has a better affect on people, but im not there yet... at the point where i am content with myself and where i am going in life. Some people naturally have it, and people like me have to work at it. lol
I myself am almost always optimistic and calm, but my inner moods range from melancholy to depressed to once in a blue moon, happy.
Happy girls are definitely hot. It is exhausting to prop women up, so whenever I come across a little miss sunshine, a choir is going off somewhere, lol. I see where you're coming from with the good Christian girl bit. I had the same observations.
I remember telling a friend that settling for a girl like her was an easy choice. She has this bubbly personality, always in a good mood. Even when she was going through a divorce, she managed to make me laugh more than the other way around. That's a keeper right there. With other girls, it was never that clear.
@Meowmeowkimmaee@xanga - agreed!
@Rainy_Day33@xanga - Yeah, I also give off a negative aura in public, and I draw in a lot of strange men. But now I'm trying let go of it.