Thoughts During Sex

Sunday, 08 November 2009

Thoughts During Sex
Some people fantasize during sex, others concentrate, and others shut down their brains so they can sit back and enjoy. What do you think about during sex?

I try to just lose myself in the pleasure, and get my brain to turn off during sex. I want everything to be solely focused on the physical and emotional connections and pleasure while my boyfriend and I make love.

What do you think about during sex, if you think at all? Any weird thoughts come up during sex? Funniest thought during sex?

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1) I enjoy the pleasure and 2) "I need to cum now."
- 11/8/2009 4:08 PM
- jeezshoua@xanga (message)
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"I need to bring my A+ game up for him to beg moreeeeee!"

Or, "Should we try the kitchen counter later?????"
- 11/8/2009 4:11 PM
- TequilaKisses@xanga (message)
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I concentrate on how good it feels and think random naughty thoughts.
during the last time I had sex, I started thinking about my ex and his gf [I don't know why, they just popped into my head] and it was a complete turn off.
- 11/8/2009 4:10 PM
- goblinsinthemirror@xanga (message)
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Sit back and enjoy or fantasize or both
- 11/8/2009 4:12 PM
- MsKittyCatty@xanga (message)
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I have strange thoughts all the time that have nothing to do with sex. I dunno why it happens. Just how I am I guess... But I think about just about anything, especially if she's boring.
- 11/8/2009 4:14 PM
- Liquid_Pain_523@xanga (message)
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Hahahaha I read this post and the first thing that came to mind was the words of the narrator from Chuck Palahniuk's Choke. '
If I hadn't already lent out my book, I'd give an excerpt. In short, what the narrator of the book thinks about when he is having sex is the most disturbing turn-off thoughts because he's trying to last longer... because he's a sex addict. Pahahahaha. I recall "Margaret Thatcher" and "dead puppies"... XD
- 11/8/2009 4:14 PM
- B2yan_C@xanga (message)
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Lol, I could write an enormous post on my thoughts during sex... And maybe I will soon... =D
- 11/8/2009 4:18 PM
- SerenaDante@xanga (message)
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I have to just turn off my brain and really enjoy it. If I think too much it goes to stuff like, "Oh, no, I forgot to put the laundry in the dryer..." and then I'm back to square one, or nearly so.
- 11/8/2009 4:18 PM
- DistantStarlight@xanga (message)
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@jeezshoua@xanga - man i think (1) stop thinking about it (2) can't cum now, HAHAHAHA :) jkjk
@TequilaKisses@xanga - haha i wish all my dates thought the same
- 11/8/2009 4:18 PM
- lot223@xanga (message)
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I think about the girl I am with...and how beautiful she is naked...and other naughty thoughts...enjoy the pleasure, and try different "moves" during sex...it is hot.

I miss that.
- 11/8/2009 4:20 PM
- L_O_R_D_X101@xanga (message)
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@B2yan_C@xanga - lol! I think I once read about somebody who recited the magna carta in his head to try and last longer.
I generally shut off and don't think at all.
- 11/8/2009 4:28 PM
- just_the_average_jane@xanga (message)
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Your mom!! ;)

Hahahaha. No. I don't think my brain actually functions at all during sex. Is that weird?!
- 11/8/2009 4:27 PM
- TheL0ki@xanga (message)
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hOW GOOD it feels. yesssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss!!!!!!! LOL
- 11/8/2009 4:30 PM
- BoStOnIaNMoMmY@xanga (message)
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1) omgomgomgomgomg awesome
2) If train A leaves NYC @ 45mph heading South to PA, while Trian B leaves PA for NYC @ 35MPH how long will it take for the two trains to meet?
Seriously, I don't ever remember what goes through my mind. I know I'm enjoying it, and making it enjoyable is a priority. Have fun, connect and explore :o

Oh and of course thousands of thoughts of admiration for the girl I'm sleeping with, "Wow she's gorgeous, hot, beautiful e.t.c."
- 11/8/2009 4:35 PM
- aCe_KeiAnar@xanga (message)
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I try to think elsewhere so I don't cum as fast. LOL. Never works though.
- 11/8/2009 4:47 PM
- gifteddork219@xanga (message)
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........
i think it's a mark of how long i haven't been laid ;_________________;
brb wallowing in self pity
- 11/8/2009 4:50 PM
- snapeful@xanga (message)
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@jeezshoua@xanga - lol, hilarious, sounds more like you're trying to brainwash yourself to think that way...
@TequilaKisses@xanga - lol, mmm kitchen counter
- 11/8/2009 4:52 PM
- kawasaki_saiyan@xanga (message)
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i try to do what you do, but i always end up thinking about something.
- 11/8/2009 5:01 PM
- XoAsianBabioX@xanga (message)
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I try to stop thinking.
Lately I find myself trying that more and more often, even out of the bedroom.
- 11/8/2009 5:01 PM
- untainted_love_for_her@xanga (message)
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@kawasaki_saiyan@xanga - Number two - yes. I have a hard time getting it on. Lol.
But I eventually do.
- 11/8/2009 5:06 PM
- jeezshoua@xanga (message)
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Usually nothing, unless I'm super distracted. I don't get anywhere if I don't focus on sensations.
- 11/8/2009 5:13 PM
- Lulabell_88@xanga (message)
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@kawasaki_saiyan@xanga - Yepppppp. Or sink counter ;) Very appropriately made to waist's level.
- 11/8/2009 5:16 PM
- TequilaKisses@xanga (message)
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haha i think about where i should put my hands/
- 11/8/2009 5:40 PM
- LovesNotPerfect (message)
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I don't remember what I thought actually :\
- 11/8/2009 6:06 PM
- silverlocket_88@xanga (message)
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I normally don't think during sex which is good because it means I'm enjoying it too much to think about anything. The weirdest would be looking at his face and wondering why he looks like that and better not start laughing! If sex was bad I would think about what I want yo eat and what shows to watch the minute it was over!
- 11/8/2009 6:22 PM
- utoppia@xanga (message)
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