Sunday, 08 November 2009
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Say What You Can't Say
Is there a person or a loved one that you have always wanted to tell them something but you can't?Whether if it's guilt... or something sad... or compliment... Express it all here like you are talking to that person! Maybe it will help.
I'll start first to my boyfriend:
I wish you would be more interested in sex or at least as much as I do which isn't a lot... I think.
To a friend:
Ever since we fought like last year, things have been awkward with us, I hope you could stop avoiding me and we actually take time to make it up to each other.
Now it's your turn... say as much as you want to as many people as you want!
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I was planning on saying it to his face tomorrow, but thanks for the opportunity!
haha I already do that in real life...=)
Hmmm...
To my sister: It's all your fault your kids were taken away from you and why you don't have them back. You treat our mom like crap and she did the best she could at the time, and you're not much better if you haven't noticed. Stop playing the victim and see a psychiatrist, you even admitted you have psychological problems.
To my mom: Stop being negative and complaining... please.
To my husband: Listen to me, I mean actually listen to me when I talk... and don't think I was a slut in my past just because you were a virgin and I wasn't. Whether you think that or not, sometimes I think you do. You act like you're better than me over stupid things and you act like my driving is so horrible when you drive the same way.
To my dad: I knew one day everyone would know what kind of scum you were. I hope someone finally has the guts to throw you in jail.
To myself: Stop being so lazy. You hardly ever do anything and your on your butt all the time, and you wonder why you've gained 10 pounds since March. You procrastinate your homework and you've missed History class 4 times... that ridiculous.
Yep, those are all the things I think but I never say outloud. I sugarcoat everything outloud and generally like to be optomistic and nice to everyone.
If you just believe in our love, dammit, we could do this. We could fucking do this if you'd just believe.
I'll go, lol...
1) I think that it is sad and pathetic that after all of these years you still haven't gotten over it, or yourself. Get a grip and grow up!
2) I can't believe that you guys got divorced after such a short time period and I can't believe that the way I found out was by seeing pictures on your facebook of you burning all of my beautiful wedding portraits that I shot for you.
3) Sometimes I feel like I don't know you and I really wish that you could be a little less childish.
4) I hate how self absorbed you are, every time I see your name pop up on my caller ID I kind of just don't feel up to talking to you and playing shrink for you. You need to figure out how to fix your own problems and you need to not be SO afraid of change.
5) I can't believe how much we've grown apart. You're pretty much just a bitch now, woah...where'd that come from?
Haha...wow, so I could go on and on, but I guess I'll stop there. =p
@MsKittyCatty@xanga - My husband always rails on the way I drive too, lol. But one night while he was drunk the truth came out and he told me in front of all of his Army buddies that I'm a better driver than he is! o_O Win!
@LauraG0929@xanga - Niiiiiice lol.
@Dobserver@xanga - Word. Haha! Anything I have always wanted to say, get it out to them, before you are strangled by it.
It was the last time I would ever talk to you ever again. Two possibilities. It was your last chance to speak, your decision. You chose to not see me. My heart at that moment shattered into an infinite number of pieces. What I really wanted to tell you after, if you haven't gotten the message already, was "goodbye, for good."
I am better off without you in my mind. i blocked you. deleted you. erased you from my life from this very moment you are reading this.
A: I am trying so hard to hate you, but it's not working. I miss you. :/
Hi.
To my boyfriend: I hate your hair.
Don't know why I can't say it. Probably because he always compliments mine >.>
lol. Well, there is one thing but I'm sure that the planned out version and how I'm going to do it are two very different things.
So far, it's "Samantha: Pick up your phone!", then the whole confession and such. :)
2) Idk if I'm in the right to say this, but please don't be too obsessed with him. He's cheated on you and has a baby on the way. You were crazy for not dumping him, but most of all, I just wished you'd call me every so often. I always have to go through multiple people to just say hi.
M: I know you want me to hurt, to need you.. to miss you. But I don't. I thought it would be so hard to get over you because you held a really special and important part in my life. But I don't deserve to hurt the way you want me to. I definitely don't deserve to hurt because of you.
To my dad: I love you more than you know. It's hard to say, because we're not a really outwardly-affectionate family. But I do appreciate everything you've done for me and all the help you've given me in getting me where I am today, even the "tough love" that I hated at the time. I really do want that "daddy's little girl" relationship, and I think we're both making baby steps toward it, even if it's just talking over a beer while you change my oil.
To my mom: You, too - I love you more than I can express. We've butted heads, and we've been best friends, and every time someone tells me I'm my "mother's daughter," or I catch myself saying, "Oh my God - I am JUST LIKE my mom," I have to smile. If I turn out to be like you, you, dad, and I all did something right. And if I end up half as gorgeous as you are when I turn 50, I will be just ecstatic.
To my brother: We're close. Kind of. I do really love you, and I wish we could relate to each other a little better. We're just kind of far apart in age. I love that we can make each other laugh for hours on end, and I'm totally sorry about the sonograph, the "No Crawling" Wish, and that battery. I love you, kid, and I'm proud of you - I probably don't tell you that enough. I'm proud that you found your own path in life, and didn't quit when everyone tried to compare you to me. I'm envious of your sense of humor & how easily you make friends, and I am SO blessed to have you as a little brother.
To my Cousin B: It REALLY REALLY hurts me to think that YOU feel that I "left home" to get away from my family. That couldn't be further from the truth. I love you guys so much, and I realize - every day - how incredibly blessed I am to have a family I actually really love and like hanging out with. I HATE that I miss so much in your life, right down to the little things like seeing you in church on Saturdays or going out for fish on Fridays. You're pretty much the sister I've never had, and I love you. I hope we can get back to being besties. :)
To my Cousin J: I LOVE YOU! I do care about you, even if we don't talk all the time. I understand your current situation more than you know right now, and maybe when the time is right, I'll explain it all to you. I just have to say this: I know you're on the brink of being a (very) young mother, and I want you to really think about your relationship with that child's father. Just because he is the father doesn't mean you have to stay with him - if he's not treating you like the beautiful, wonderful woman you are, leave. You have an amazing extended family that will support you and your little girl. I want the best possible for you, and you might have to break up with him to get that.
Finally, to my amazing boyfriend Ryan: I love you. I wish I could express that with greater detail, but I don't know how. Even when I'm being a beast, I love you. We've been through some pretty heavy situations in our (relatively) short relationship, but I honestly can not imagine a better man to have gone through everything with. You take what is already a pretty great life and manage to make it that much better. I don't realize how much you mean to me until you're away, and I'm trying to get better about talking to you about things - the good and the bad. I've heard you get one Great Love in life, and you are, without a question, mine. I can not wait to start the next phase of our life together. You have my heart and my soul, and I love you more than I ever thought it was possible to love a person.
To a girl: I like you. I like you, and I want to date you, not just hang out with you.
To another one: I miss you. I always miss you, but it's not a bad thing. I'm always here.
To R: Can I please date your girlfriend? But could it not ever be an awkward thing between us? Because I love talking with you, and I don't want to ruin that. I think you're amazing.
To my dad: Please stop trying to inspire me, motivate me, and advise me. Please just listen. Learn how to listen-- it isn't just understanding the words I say. It's about trying to understand why I feel the way I feel, the things I've been going through, and what my choice of words means. Even silence has meaning, dad. I don't need words from you, sometimes I just need a little silence.
i wont vent about people i hate. but i will say things to people that i love.
-stop playing games with me, i really hate it when you promise something and break it. you talk to me for hours, stop talking for me for months, then tlak to me again. dammmit, it pisses me off.
-i love you, but youre so twofaced, its really horrible. i really hope that you would be the old you again. i know that friend of yours.. happens to be an enemy of mine. but can you not let her to get between our friendship ? its not fair to ME. and i dont care what kind of shit she says to you.YOU KNOW ME.. and well, maybe if you believe in it.. then we shouldnt even be friends.
-you lied to me, you broke your promises, you played with me. and it hurts, did you know ? you can be so insensitive sometimes.
LOL (bf comment)
to my neighbour/my best (female) friend: i'm sorry i told you to leave your bf for me in vegas. i was drunk and out of line. i miss you.
To my boyfriend: I wish you'd stop being so clingy...that just makes me want to get away from you. It also makes me sick that you owe your best friend/roommate over a grand but when you got your hands on some money you spent it on a video game. & if people invite you along to see a movie or something you don't bring up the fact that you can't afford it until we're all already on our way to whatever event it is, so someone is pretty much guilted into covering for you. You're 28 years old & you haven't seemed to pick up on the fact that you can't rely on other people to take care of you forever. My 12-year-old little brother is more financially responsible with you. I don't know what to do because other than these things you're sweet. You cherish me & you're supportive of me & for some reason you seem to think the sun shines out of my ass. We never run out of things to talk about either. But you need to get your life together. Because unfortunately the good qualities won't keep weighing out the bad qualities for long.
To my roomate: I can hear you and your boyfriend having sex. you kinda sound like a Chihuahua when you're both going at it. (hey they are loud!)
To a guy: I hate how you try to drive negative opinions about my boyfriend into my head. I do NOT WANT TO dump him just so you can use me for sex and pretend like you fucking care about me when all you care about is fucking girls and then dissing them and making fun of them. ASSHOLE! Stop trying to make me feel like shit cause I don't want to be around you when you make advances on me. Thats NOT what friends do! grrr.
To another guy: I'm sorry that you left. I miss you terribly! you were my best friend and will always have a place in my heart. I know you want to be with me but I love my boyfriend and do not want to hurt him. I care about you. I love you. But I cannot be with you. please forgive me. I know we will always be there for each other no matter what. Thanks for not trying to break my relationship up like other people.
To yet another guy: I'm glad you chose her over me. I'm glad you two are happy and have kids. I am glad that things worked out for you. I may not have met my boyfriend if it were not for the fact that you chose her. I'm glad I am over you and I do not say that with any hard feelings.
To a family member: I think you cheat/cheated on her. I know you do not love her. I know you do not like us. I know you wish we were not yours. I know you wish that you both were never married.
To yet another family member: I wish you could have been a stronger role model for us girls. I wish you didn't let yourself go. I wish you had more confidence. DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO! I LOVE YOU
To my family in England: I think about all of you all the time. I love you all so much and wish I can see you again some day. I miss the life we had in England all together. I miss and love you all so much. I love you all with all my heart. I always will. no matter what.
To my boyfriend: I wish we haven't drifted. I love you. I sometimes feel like you are dissapointed in me. I feel like you could treat me a bit better. I could treat you better. I just want to be crazy about each other again. I know we are going through a rough spot financially and I understand you need your space as well as I need mine. I just wished you showed me that you loved me more. Thats all I am asking. please.
To myself: You are pathetic! stop being so hestiant with everything. you are turning into someone you dont want to be! Stop feeling like you are ugly and unworthy! Try harder! TRY EFFING HARDER! DONT LET PEOPLE PUSH YOU AROUND! STOP BEING A BITCH!
To my ex boyfriend - Remember that terrible terrible haircut I gave you that one time? I'm actually great at cutting men's hair. I left those bald spot on purpose and played dumb because you nagged me for weeks about how long your hair was. I just couldn't handle the bitching anymore. Hah. And I don't regret it. You walked around looking like an idiot until it grew out.
to the guy i like: i like you. :D
to the guy that asked me out: i can't go out with you. stop going to my 6th period everyday. its kinda creeps me out.
to my ex: i love you, and you're my first love. but that's it. we broke up, and we're not gonna get back together. stop telling me you love me. we're better off as friends.
to bob: i liked you.. but you just treat me as a sideline whore. like today. we're not even going out, and look at what we did. i disgusted with my self. your dick is small too.
To my boyfriend: I wish you loved me as much as i love you & i wish you could stand up for me more. You always hold back & that sucks. Like today, i wish you could had claimed me as your girlfriend and told him to back off. But you didn't. You wanted to just avoid the problem instead of standing up for me.
To my exfriends: You all are stupid bitches and sluts. I hope you get a std and just die already. Seriously.
To my brother: I wish we could be siblings instead of enemies
To everyone (in general): I really don't like you, i just fake that i do so you could accept me. I don't know why i'm so bitter, but i guess the past makes me this way.