Thursday, 05 November 2009
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He's Offering $1,000
Earlier tonight one of my friends brought up this situation: It's the recession. You're in debt, your car is having problems, and you're too busy with school to have a full-time job. One night, you go on a date with a nice, attractive suitor. It's the first date and you have no intentions of sleeping with him. However, he offers to pay you $1000 if you sleep with him that night. What do you do?
Okay, I know the situation is really unrealistic. In my case, I would probably think the guy is crazy and run away. But a few of my friends said they would actually take the situation into consideration. I mean, if they really needed the money and all they had to do was give up one night of sex, then to them it's really not that big of a deal.
I know people's opinions on this matter are going to be completely different based on religions beliefs and what not, but it got me wondering about the general public's opinion on this issue.
Would you ever have a one night stand for a certain amount of money?
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I wouldn't do a one night stand if there was NO money involved. So...no. :)
I wouldn't. I have to work for the money I earn. A night of pleasure isn't work. I'd have guilt on my conscience. I already have a problem accepting gifts and letting people pay for my meals. It's just how I roll.
Also there's the whole no sex outside of marriage thing...
But that's just me.
getting paid for sex is just asking for it law wise, and so you should get paid for going on the date (be an escort).. and the sex is just because you two felt like f*cking afterward, absolutely no connection to the money. I would do it if I had to.
Wow, might as well become a hooker.
^ looks like i'm the only one so far, LOL
if it was a girl offering, i'd probably do it! lol i mean you did mention that you had a good time with the guy and that he was attractive. if i hit it off with a girl and she was attractive, why not? an extra $1k? okay! lol i guess it makes you feel cheap after in a way but it is the recession 8-) hahaha - maybe because i'm a guy.
Not for me.
If he was extremely attractive and I was digging him, him bringing up the idea of paying me for sex would kill any respect I had for him.
no, sweetheart, that's what prostitutes do.
@lot223@xanga - Ditto.
If the date went well and I find him attractive, why not? $1k in my pocket just for something that I might of done, anyways.
@jeezshoua@xanga - haha finally! someone agrees with me. looks like we're going to get stoned.
In a heartbeat.
By the way, what's with all the people above condemning prostitution?
I'm assuming that I'm single if I agreed to go on a date with someone.
He's nice and attractive? I'd probably consider it. Parts of me would have qualms with it, and he'd certainly lose points as far as 'relationship material' is concerned, but... there's no way I'd throw out the idea immediately.
maybe if he offered the money afterwards! like wow that was so amazing i want to give you a thousand dollars.
then i'd take the money.
but only if i had wanted to sleep with him in the first place.
:)
otherwise, probs not.
What's the point of asking seriously.
Unless someone has been in such a dire situation where they're starving and unable to get any food, or their family is in so much trouble, blah blah blah... then they could comprehend whether getting money for something they do for pleasure is acceptable or not.
Give them that situation and ask again whether they'd do it.
@jeezshoua@xanga - ok, I like to retract my offer since you might had done it for free!
Hell yes, I would.
Sex for money = prostitution.
you know that woman in philly was arrested for trading sex for baseball tickets so any type of sex trading is probably a no-no unless you want to spend some time in jail...Wasn't there a movie with this same plot but with a crapload more money involved?
That's prostitution, rofl. I'd rather not be a prostitute.
Si, capnhowdy and utoppia is right. It's prostitution. I'm more of the sexaftermarriagewithmyhusbandonly type of girl.
@jeezshoua@xanga - DITTO TO THIS.
While the idea of being paid for sex makes me feel uncomfortable, I can't think of any good reason why it should - it's really just the way I was brought up, and like so many other silly ideas I was brought up with, I can choose to change the way I feel about that.
Besides, all of that money could be put into charity or medical research if I'm not comfortable keeping it. And you say that the fellow is nice and attractive? I just might do it.
I'd go for a lot less than that!! ;D
If i was in a bind why not, id have to have the money up front.
I'd do it because the double-standard works in my favor. Unless I'm constantly having sex with women for money, there's no social repercussions for me in this situation. As a guy if your buddies found out, I guarantee in most cases, their response would be, "You had sex with an attractive woman? And she gave you a thousand bucks? Niiiiiiiice."
If I was a woman though, I probably wouldn't do it.