I dated a guy that had bad gas. You could smell the sh*t in his farts. He was disgusting. I thought, everybody farts. I went to his place and went to use his bathroom, something out of my purse fell and into his trash can and as I reluctantly went to fetch it, I came across tiolet paper that had sh*t on it. He was wiping his ass and throwing it in the trash can! No more dates and no one is perfect but some is nasty

@Single_Androgynous_Female@xanga - Eeeew! My ex used to do that too! Ugh! So grosss...omg you gave me horrible flashbacks.  Yeah, that's pretty much the most disgusting thing I can think of too!

When my ex didnt brush his teeth at night sometimes annoyed me, and when he doesnt wash his hair when it started getting oily, i knew he had fine hair and (my hair gets oily around every 2nd or 3rd day so i was wash it as soon as i notice it) Think he just gets lazy but aah not an excuse to have bad hygeine!

@Single_Androgynous_Female@xanga - ahhh that's so gross my ex did that too!! What is with guys doing that I don't understand... I had no idea there were other people in the world that did that. Why can't they flush it like normal people?? Fucking gross.

One of my old teachers told me a story that has stuck with me through relationships since. Even friends.

  "There was a couple that were madly in love and wanted to spend every waking second in each others presence. They both felt so close to each other and found nothing wrong with the other persons flaws and quirks. Planning to get married and dealing with stress, but still being incredibly happy and perfect for each other, they went out to dinner at a mexican restaurant. They ordered and chatted and looked into each others eyes longingly. The food arrives and he proceeds to "dig in". Now she had seen him eat plenty of times before, but not like this. Not a steaming hot burrito. The way he bit into the burrito made her cringe and kept replaying in her head. After this, daily tasks became unmanagable. She absolutely despised every little thing about the way he lived out his day. She couldn't handle it and they parted ways. The Burrito Bite that ultimately ended a relationship."

 It was an amusing story told to me one day, but it has since become apparent with everyone I know. Watch Seinfeld. That's what the show is based on. "The Burrito Bite"

Traits that annoy - girls who slouch a lot, I don't like it when I or other guys slouch but for some reason it just looks much worse when a girl is slouching...plus I notice it tends to build hunch backs.  Clipping toe/fingernails outside of the bathroom.  Not washing up properly.  Perpetual laziness, doing things like "oh not today...next time" and there never is a next time cuz it's always the same answer every time heh.

Although I feel flaws are what make people who they are.  Also I'd rather have a girl who is in her "ugly phase" most of the time, and when she wants to be can be pretty. Rather than have a girl who tries to put out that she's pretty all the time, and then gets self conscious when she's ugly.

@Single_Androgynous_Female@xanga - Did he have country plumbing?  You're not supposed to flush paper in some cases, since the plumbing system just isn't set up to handle it.

Not being able to apologize or admit that he's wrong would be a dealbreaker for me. 

haha. posted my turn offs on my xanga already.

My main turnoffs are:

1. Rude to waiters/other servicepeople.  If they're rude to strangers they consider beneath them, what will they be like for you when they eventually decide you're beneath them?  (and don't think that won't happen.  Don't ask me how I know that...)

2. Bad breath/body odor.  I expect to cuddle with my date at some point.  If the idea of it makes me want to throw up, then it's a no-go.  I have to like how the person smells.  And there is a difference between natural and gross.

I once dated a guy who got this really weird expression on his face at just random times...and it totally looked like he was getting turned on by something.  He wasn't, that was just his face, but man it bugged me.  A lot about him came to bug me.  His lack of a sense of humor, his lack of a backbone, his way of shutting down with a whimper rather than deal with tough situations.  And, yeah, the fact that he once tried on one of my sweaters--"Just to see"--and, on another occasion, a pair of my shoes (and wore them around my parents' kitchen while my mom looked on.)

This guy was weird.  But he was also sweet in his way, so it took me about a year longer than it should have to cut him loose because breaking up with him felt kind of like kicking a puppy.

-Katie

@JusticeCho@xanga - I was slouching and clipping my toenails while reading this on the bed. Lolzzzzzz.

my biggest deal breaker is when the girl has no manners. oh, and if she's lazy.

lol also, i prefer girls who don't try so hard to look good. i mean, i don't want to be seen with a girl in her pj's at a wine and dine restaurant but hey, spending some time at home or just going out for a movie run doesn't require makeup, high heels, etc. i'm sure there are plenty who'd agree.

Something that annoys me supremely is cruelty to animals. I kissed one cat-kicker goodbye! Unsolicited attacks on animals may one day become attacks on people! Of course, that guy was also mildly verbally abusive, too. Any kind of abuse is a dealbreaker for me. Other than that, (and a few other less important things) I'm pretty tolerant.