An open rant about how much I hate it when guys NEVER call back:
I can not stand it when you're in the middle of a conversation with a guy and then out of the blue they go; "Hey can I call you right back?" so you stop your conversation and say "Okay." or whatever then you wait around until they decide to call you back, or they don't at all. I don't know about you, But I'm tired of it.
For example last night; I was on the phone with my boyfriend Dylan and we were on the phone for a good 2 hours, then he just goes "Hey honey can I call you right back?" and I was like "Okay babe." well due to the fact that his father recently passed away he randomly gets depressed at night and I just thought he was going to have one of his moments and call me back. Boy was I wrong. So when we got off the phone it was around 12:30 am, so I got onto the computer to distract myself; because you know if you just sit around and wait by your phone you go completely insane. So around 2am, I decide I'm going to sleep; he isn't calling back. Then when I wake up in the morning, no text telling me he's sorry or anything; and I was like 'Ugh, he's such a man!"
They never ever call back when they say they are going to. But if us, girls do that, all hell breaks loose. They're like "What were you doing that you couldn't call me back?" or "Who were you with?" and if you say that you fell asleep or something they're like "Uh huh, sure." and then they get mad at you. But if you get mad at them for it they're like "Well you know I don't even really like talking on the phone anyways. Like a typical man. Which just triggers a fight, over something as small as calling us back and just saying "I'm going to bed." If they don't want to talk on the phone, why don't they just say so? I don't get it.
But if you wait around until they call you, and you don't distract yourself all you do is just stare at your phone. Even if you don't want to admit it, you do. You sit there and keep checking your phone. You're like "Maybe I didn't hear it ring." or "Is the ringer even on?" then if you get up to do something as soon as you sit down you check your phone because you're like "I think he called!" But then as soon as you check it; he didn't. Or you check it every five seconds because you're checking the time, because you know his schedule. Another example the one day I was waiting for Dylan to call me and it was around 3 and I was already done with my classes and I was like "Hm, he gets out of school at 3, he has track at 4 and he doesn't get home from track until around 6:30 or 7...so around 8 I'll get a call?" You know, stupid girl things.
I don't care how old you are, you will always wait for a guy to never call. I'm 19 years old, and my boyfriend says he's going to call, I'll do other things to distract me until he wants to call me back if he does. But regardless, you can deny it but you know in some way or form you are waiting for a guy to call you. For another example, I was watching this Disney Show with my 9 year old Niece Deenna; Phineas and Ferb. Their sister Candace I think her name is, was waiting for a call from the boy she likes and she was driving herself insane waiting for him to call and I was like "Wow this is so true." and not even three hours later; I found myself in the same exact situation. Though in the show, the sister was trying to do a math problem to figure out when the guy is going to call her because he said 'I'll call you right back." and then later in the show he calls her and then he goes to hang up and goes "I'll call you back in a few minutes; in result she does another math problem and she was like "THAT MEANS HE'LL NEVER CALL!" and I was like "Ha, sounds about right."
Then again, if you don't wait and you go out with your friends and he calls and you miss the call and don't call them back they get all pissy and they're like "Why didn't you call me back?" and you're just like "Ughhhh." because it's like the circle is inverted. Because you distracted yourself instead of sitting around your house waiting for them to call, so you went out; they called and you didn't call them back to give them a taste of their own medicine. I gave Dylan the taste of his own medicine back in August. My sister had her baby, and I was at the hospital with her and I told him I'd call him when I got to the hospital so we could plan when I could go over his house after I left. Well I decided "I'm going to make him wait." so I never called him; then the next day when I was back at the hospital he calls me and was like "Why didn't you call me last night? I was waiting for you to call." and I was like 'I was busy and forgot. Sorry." What I should of said was "HAHAHA NOW YOU KNOW HOW I FEEL!" But I didn't, I went with the simple answer.
Now apologies that's another issue! I don't know about your men, but all of my other boyfriends never apologized about never calling. But Dylan is pretty good about not calling back. Like the last time he did that before last night he was like "I'm really sorry I didn't call you back. I feel bad." then I didn't stay mad at him, so he's usually really good about apologizing about not calling back. But my other old boyfriends, they NEVER would apologize. And that pissed me off so bad. We apologize when we do something wrong, but I think that's another man code to never apologize. My friend's boyfriend James said "Apologizing is a sign of weakness." I was like "That's the attitude James." So maybe that's why they never apologize?
Regardless, I hate it when men never call. I just needed to rant. What do you think? Does your boyfriend/crush/fiance do that to you? How do you react to it? Give me your feed back.
DISCLAMER: This is not a "I hate male dominance" rant, this is a rant about how much I hate it when men NEVER call us back.