I'm getting tired of your shit.
Every time you come around you have to bring Jill, Jessica, Eva, and Gianna around too. Doing jello shots and shooting the breeze when I'm trying to sleep. Instead of being in bed with me your starting pillow fights in the living room. Why can't it just be you and me, like it used to be. Back when we used to go out to eat you would always want a quickie in the backseat, and now when I ask want to go out you tell me to just cook something at home and grab my ass. And that ain't right, I have feelings you know.
You keep asking why I don't like going out to the bars with you anymore. It's because I can never talk to anyone when your around. Your always giving the stink eye to any woman I talk to. I can't even ask the female bartender for a drink anymore because you'll start some shit and refuse to give her a tip.
When your drunk is the worst.
When your sober you wont tell me you wont support me or tell me you love me. But as soon as you've had some drinks in you, your sobbing on my shoulder or yelling into your phone about how you love me and need me. Every Friday night I have to turn off my phone to get a good nights sleep when your having a girls night and in the morning have to erase ten of your drunken voice mails. And don't think I can't hear your friends calling me horrible things in the background.
Or the way you just show up drunk and expect me to just get it up when your breath smells like Jager and your hairs matted with three other different alcohol smells. And the way you trip all over yourself and dance awkwardly doesn't turn me on either by the way.
At least your friend Eva listens to me when I want to talk about my day. We've been talking more and more now that you've been bringing her around.
How do you deal with an inconsiderate girlfriend?
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You tell her she's inconsiderate, give her the opportunity to work on the problems, and if all else fails you break up.
Uhm you dump her?
Dump her, she doesnt sound like she cares about you at all. There's better.
Judging by that, I'd simply break it on the spot. But that's just me.
talk it out when she's sober...go to AA with her.
Don't date alcoholics.
straighten her out first by letting her know what's up. if she still doesn't change/consider to change drop her.
judging from this, looks like Eva is on her way to replacing her anyway.
Shank a bitch.
what RazorBladeParade said.
talk it out or leave her. theres no benefit asking us what to do. you should just talk to her and ask her what she wants to do. maybe you both are sick of each other. it's obviously not working out. its harsh but i mean from what you've written, it doesn't seem like much is left of the relationship.
good luck! i hate breakups.
talk to her , maybe get her some help but deffiniatly break up with her =/
You probably are heading to breakup.But you seem into eva
you break up. thats how you deal.
just dump her geez.
first of all, i never put up with stupid alcoholics, it's their problem and they need to get their shit together. no seriously, why are you even with a person who doesn't care about you? we've all been there, sooner or later, that person will leave. maybe you should tell her to leave first.
@TakingxOverxMe@xanga - THIS is the best option.
@TakingxOverxMe@xanga - Then slapaho.
@TakingxOverxMe@xanga - Falcon punch
UMMM BREAK UP WITH THE DUMBASS? OR TRY TALKING TO HER WHEN SHE'S SOBER?!
and i thought i was a bad girlfriend.
i'm so showing my boyfriend this letter.
he should be worshipping me right about now!
haha. jokes *cough*
Wow...um...she needs to grow up.
@TakingxOverxMe@xanga - Shoryuken!
Break up with her. It's not worth being with someone who doesn't really care about you. :\
Holy crap. Get out of that relationship! That's horrible. :(
But before doing so, have a serious confrontation with her and tell her exactly how her actions are making you feel. And if you choose to break up with her, be direct about your feelings and how you're just no longer happy being with her, but don't be accusatory (although that would seem very tempting, considering the awful and careless things she does to you).
When she's sober, try to get her to sit down with you and listen to you. If she doesn't put in the effort to do so and fails to take you seriously, then that's all the more reason to get out of that relationship.
She seems like a wild freak and an alcoholic, and she seems to derive so much fun from getting drunk. I cannot fathom how it seems so "fun" and appealing to lose control of your body and your state of mind and to do it way too many times that it completely ruins your relationship. She needs to get her act straight before she is ready to even be in a relationship.
=/ dump her