Q.I went through my girlfriend's text messages and found some texts between her and her ex boyfriend that were pretty recent. She told me that she hasn't been in touch with him for months. I've never distrusted her before, I can't believe it. I don't want to tell her that I was going through her messages, but I do want to confront her about what I saw. I guess it's a no win situation because if I say anything, she'll know I was snooping. But if I don't say anything, I'll be miserable about it.