I really am not an angry person or at least I try not to be.
It's been a few months since the whole man-whore incident and I haven't seen, spoken, emailed or texted him. I go out of my way to avoid him or any mentioned of him until one day when I see his face all over Facebook with another girl. So much for not wanting a relationship that lying son of a bitch. Yes, I get the realization that he just didn't want a relationship with me and I admit it still stings a little. Definitely not as much as it did a few months back when my wounds were raw and open.
As I'm listening to "
Bust you windows" I can't help but imagine doing that to his car.
I bust the windows out your car And though it didn’t mend my broken heart I'll probably always have these ugly scars but right now I don’t care about that part. I bust the windows out your car After I saw you laying next to her I didn’t wanna but I took my turn I’m glad I did it cuz you had to learn I must admit it helped a little bit To think of how you'd feel when you saw it I didn’t know that I had that much strength But I’m glad you see what happens when You see you cant just play with peoples feelings Tell them you love them and don’t mean it you’ll probably say that it was juvenile But I think that I deserve to smile
But since it's nothing fancy (his car) and I don't want to become the psycho ex, I'll just leave it be. Since there's so many songs about women busting up the guys car, it makes me wonder if it's actually happened to someone in real life. If someone wronged you, would you take a crowbar or a bat to their ride?
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Nah. Being a crazy ex isn't attractive.
The best revenge, is happiness.
I didn't bust my ex's car, but I did egg his house. It was a few months after we had broken up, and for the most part I was over it... but when a friend of his invited me to go egg a house, it turned out to be his. We were friends, but still... He had cheated on me, treated me like crap, and tried blaming all of it on me, telling me I deserved it. So egging his house actually felt pretty damn good.
As for busting a car though? that's some serious damage. and what happens if they call the police and you inadvertently left fingerprints? D:
I would avoid anything that might have you paying fines or landing in jail time.
I agree, the best revenge is happiness. You could hook up with somebody else too.
I don't know. If he broke my car, maybe. (=
lol that song is funny, but no..I would never do that to an exes car..I would be pissed if someone did it to my car if I had one, so why would I do it to someone elses? It's kinda childish and anger shouldn't be taken out on someone elses property. I don't really get angry a lot either though =)
i think that's probably people of the psychotic nature. i wouldn't doubt it's happened though.
nah. i thought i was going to kill something when i saw that my ex had asked out this "chick" he had told me all about while we were dating. even though it was after we had broken up that he asked her out...ugh. i was just so sickened and angry, had he been in front of me it would have been dangerous.
but of course you sober up and realize the mature victorious thing to do is just move on. even if its super rough at first.
I really wanted to do that to my ex's car. He loves his car. But I thought about it and decided that acting like everything was fine and being happy was better. It was torture for him to see me happy. Without him.
:D
just be happy :)
being the crazy ex is like ... =/ , isn't attractive
I've had my ex key my car. For no reason, and I kid you not, she was, THE definition of psychotic... So now, I have a nice long key scratch on my drivers side of an 89' Camaro.
But I'll be the mature and not play her game. Reminds me of being on a freakin' chain gang being with her. Hence why we only stayed together for a week, then I said, not working, sorry!
But anyway, I think property damage, especially to someones car is a bit too extreme. People need to just forget things, cause if you don't, nothing gets solved until you do something regretful. So no, I would not take anything of mass to something of value.
I'm going to stop rambling now. >.<''
I like that scene from the Waiting to Exhale movie, where she tosses all of his clothes and other belongings into his car and burns everything into a fiery pit of that'll-teach-him-to-mess-with-me*mwahahahaha*
that would be sweet revenge, but in real life, the bastard isn't worth my effort. I'll just find someone way better than him as revenge
I usually listen to the alanis morrisette song, You Oughta Know
then I'll listen to TLC's, Scrub song talking about good for nothing guys--I want no scrubs, a scrub is a guy, who can't get no love from me, hollerin from the passenger side of my best friend's ride, tryin to holler at me
Lol that is my fuck off, you scrub
song
Yeah I wish my ex went to the same college that I go to. Then he'd see how happy I am without someone in my life emotionally abusing, manipulating, and blackmailing me.
I've also gone boy-crazy...I can't wait for my next kiss, and I can't wait to find out who!
I think that's one of those things that's better in fiction than in real life. Who wants to end up in jail and having to pay to fix the ride of a guy who's just not worth it?
Oh yeah, busting their windows, pouring sugar in their gas tank, putting a potato in the exhaust (why is it always their cars?), I've done all of that...in my imagination.
I agree with the girl that put the first comment = happiness is the best revenge. Even if I'm not happy at first and I'm imagining all sorts of horrible things, I at least take the steps toward happiness.
Oh yeah, and karma always comes around. He'll get what's coming to him, but not by your hand. What a coward for being in a relationship so soon after you. Shows you what type of person he is.
@doLc3@xanga - I totally agree.
There is never a good time to resort to violence unless you're protecting yourself from physical harm. I was extremely angry with my ex when I found out that he had cheated on me... AND less than two months later was getting married to someone who was NOT the girl he had been seing behind my back. I was angry, yes. But not to the point that I wanted to damage any of his possessions (or his face hah). You get over the anger eventually and just accept that it's a good thing this slimeball is out of your life and is now someone else's problem. :)
I dont understand it at all. If you're done with them, you're done with them. There's no need to 'punish' them for what you feel they did wrong. Get over it, and move on. We're not three anymore.
I really wanted to, but decided not to. Don't want no jail time on my record.
Being a psycho ex never gets you anywhere, so it's good that you've decided not to bust up his windows. =]
The best thing you can do is find happiness with someone else; ESPECIALLY if you end up being happier with your new guy than he is with his new girl.
Hell no.
i think busting a guys car is the worst thing you could possibly do.. and it is a little psycho, lol
No, I wouldn't do anything to their personal property. Nor would I do anything to them.
I'd really rather not resort to petty revenge. The likelyhood of it achieving positive results is slim to none.
Like other people have said, the best 'revenge' is to just move on in life.
even though in the heat of the moment it might feel good in the long run it will only make you feel more shitty.
actions like that are only satisfying at the moment and the next morning or even 10 minutes after you are like "oh shit. I cant believe I just did that..." lmao
But the best revenge is to go on with your life and live it well.
my most fav quotes:
"one day he will wake up and realize how much he loves you. But when he does she will be waking up next to someone who already realized that a long time ago."
girl keep your head up high. no guy is worth that drama in your life....i know what you are feeling. just smile. everything will be alrightt
No. The best way to make someone regret letting you go is to move on yourself and make HIM feel as if he was no loss to you. Busting up his car, though satisfying, is merely a temporary high. But if you want to hit deep, REALLY deep... go for the pride.
@P0RCELA1N_D0LL@xanga - I think you really like those emoticons.